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When I first start dating someone everything is fine for the first few months and as the relationship progresses I find myself wanting to run like hell before something bad happens, it doesn't seem to matter which country she's from. As my girlfriends want more and more commitment from me I have an overwelming desire to leave them. Has anyone else experienced this?

Yes, that´s why I don´t look for a girlfriend. They are a different species Our species needs weak men who do the shitty job of living with these beautifull monters

Billy wrote:Yes, that´s why I don´t look for a girlfriend. They are a different species Our species needs weak men who do the shitty job of living with these beautifull monters

Beautiful monsters they are.

My situation is I have 2 filipinas that want to marry me and I'm sitting on the fence with both of them because I don't know what I should do.

Filipina A - 35 yrs old, 2 kids, hard worker, a successful business, new house w/air conditioning, daddy issues, nympho-maniac tendencies

Filipina B - 29 yr old virgin, very good looking, no assets, no job, very religious, no daddy issues, wants me to dump Filipina A, ASAP

Any suggestions?

HAHAHA "beautifull monters"

GEE guys isnt that a mutual feeling ? being sorta stresed by our couple ?
ina healthy or sick way ?

Filipina B .. Obviously..

None of the above is my advice

Look for an upgrade, 29 too old for filipina,
besides 29 yo virgin doesnt sound right, its like buying 10 year old car with 0 milage on the odometer.....creepy


35 yo filipina is like car that is 15 years old ,200 miles showing on odometer and you still dont know if its been turned back, warantty expired 10 yrs ago, possible oil leaks n who knows how many drivers it had, too risky

Well, if you can afford to support Filipina B, she's obviously the better choice. Daddy issues + nymphomanic tendencies = explosive combination. Filipina B may not be as much fun in bed, but over the long haul, she's far more likely to be stable and reliable.

I find a lot of the women who approach me on Cherry Blossoms have no job, or something that doesn't quite pass for a job but brings in a little bit of money so they call themselves 'self-employed' or say their job is 'other'.

Taco wrote:When I first start dating someone everything is fine for the first few months and as the relationship progresses I find myself wanting to run like hell before something bad happens, it doesn't seem to matter which country she's from. As my girlfriends want more and more commitment from me I have an overwelming desire to leave them. Has anyone else experienced this?

What women mean by "commitment" is "man-slave". Even my fav#1 is willing to say that. Women have shown us what they mean by "commitment". They mean they can steal your children, your house, your cars, your assets at the point of a guvment gun any time they please based on a false allegation. When talking to women you would be well advised to tell them that this is what "commitment" means according to women.

In return I have said to fav#1 "commitment means you get to stay until the morning, after that it is a new day."

I have also said to her "commitment means you get to stay while you keep me happy and do as I ask."

No man should give any more "commitment" than what our women have given us these last 30 years. To do so is to be an idiot.

Latest Update -

Yesterday, Filipina B asked me if Filipina A wants to rape me. How did she know that?(yes, Filipina A does want to rape me!) Filipinas are the only women on this planet would ever ask that question. Its like male rape in the philippines is so common everyone just assumes your a "victim". haha

Of course my ex was very mellow and intelligent. No woman has ever stressed me out, it is whatever it is.

35 year old nympho ??!?!?!?

f**k that man!! she was a nympho LONG before she met you man!!!!

f***ing thousands of hard worn miles on those tires bro....dont buy that shit yo...its sounds like a rental car that was driving hard as hell.

onezero4u wrote:35 year old nympho ??!?!?!?

f**k that man!! she was a nympho LONG before she met you man!!!!

f***ing thousands of hard worn miles on those tires bro....dont buy that shit yo...its sounds like a rental car that was driving hard as hell.

Women over 35 are basically desperate. Their "stock" is loosing value by the day to junk status and they know time is running out to have children.

Actually this starts around age 30 and its Universal. Some men only want to date women around this age (one comes to mind) as it feel it gives them a better shot at a long term relationship.

Oh well, some men don't think highly of themselves enough to try for something better. Nobody is saying you can get a a girl that will accept a 20+ year age difference but you can at least try for 15 years which for many non-Western women is totally acceptable.

djfourmoney wrote:

onezero4u wrote:35 year old nympho ??!?!?!?

f**k that man!! she was a nympho LONG before she met you man!!!!

f***ing thousands of hard worn miles on those tires bro....dont buy that shit yo...its sounds like a rental car that was driving hard as hell.

Women over 35 are basically desperate. Their "stock" is loosing value by the day to junk status and they know time is running out to have children.

Actually this starts around age 30 and its Universal. Some men only want to date women around this age (one comes to mind) as it feel it gives them a better shot at a long term relationship.

Oh well, some men don't think highly of themselves enough to try for something better. Nobody is saying you can get a a girl that will accept a 20+ year age difference but you can at least try for 15 years which for many non-Western women is totally acceptable.

Rather have a women that is a little older,cute,a great companion and has no kids but yet can still have kids and get married and wants to remain married than to get some chick that i know is out of my league just to show-boat.That shit is not going to last when there is all ways a man with penny more than you and looks better than you and she as 100000 options because she is hot.Any one man or women who has many options are not going to be long term relationship material.

If you want a decent long term relationship you are going to have to sacrifice some quality you think is ideal but not to many to the point to where the person is no longer attractive.To find a women who is loyal,a 10,young and has a good personality,educated and wants to marry the average blue collar joe is like finding a unicorn even abroad.

djfourmoney wrote: Women over 35 are basically desperate. Their "stock" is loosing value by the day to junk status and they know time is running out to have children.
Actually this starts around age 30 and its Universal.

I can absolutely confirm this. Once they hit 30 the bio clock starts ticking louder. By 35 you can hear it clean across the room. Women in the 35-40 range that I meet are OFF THE CHARTS desperate to land a man. They are SURPRISED AS HELL they can not. I am amazed they are surprised. My fav#1 is trying VERY hard. Many of her friends of a similar age have also been trying VERY hard these last 4 years. MOST of them have failed to find a husband willing to have kids.

These women really bitch up a storm about how "bad" men are. They do accept it is the fault of their great grandmothers taking no fault divorce....and they soon accept that there is nothing they can do about it. Women want a man-slave at that age. Nothing less will do. The alphas are not going to be man-slaves so they go searching in the beta pool of men and if they settle for a "beta" they will hate him with a passion inside a few years and be morose that they could not land the alpha.

Once you know what is going on it is very, very, clear.

PeterAndrewNolan wrote:

djfourmoney wrote: Women over 35 are basically desperate. Their "stock" is loosing value by the day to junk status and they know time is running out to have children.
Actually this starts around age 30 and its Universal.

I can absolutely confirm this. Once they hit 30 the bio clock starts ticking louder. By 35 you can hear it clean across the room. Women in the 35-40 range that I meet are OFF THE CHARTS desperate to land a man.

When women get over 40 yrs old they become "hyper desperate" as most men's sex drive starts to decline so does their interest in putting up with bullshit. I'm quite happy to watch any western women's ego, hour glass figure and social life suffer simultaneously in a dramatic crash and burn senario ending with a mushroom cloud.

However, I don't feel this way towards all women. I was at a restaurant recently. The waitress was a very sweet, tall, sexy Filipina in her 30's with long hair. I wouldn't mind playing spin the bottle with her, I know that.




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