Winston wrote:AmericaninBangkok,
Maybe Steve has a charisma you don't have? He didn't sleep with them after knowing them for an hour. He built up online chemistry and webcam/phone chat first.
Either way, I find Steve R far MORE CREDIBLE than you. He makes sense and understands me and what he says is far more logical-sounding than what you say. You just make shallow points without depth or intellect.
Steve R is also above most guys here in that he will apologize and admit he was wrong. But most guys can't, even the guys here will never apologize and admit that they were wrong. Steve has made lots of rash decisions and later admitted that he was wrong and foolish when I called him out on it.
I agree with him that REAL MEN will admit when they are wrong. But most Western men, including the men on this forum, can't. In that sense, Steve is above most guys here.
I don't know how credible he is about Thailand, since remember, 100 percent of ALL MEN on earth will CLAIM to be honest and credible. So a man saying that he's honest and credible is nothing new. Not a single man in the world will say otherwise.
But I do find Steve's depth and insight and arguments to make a lot of sense. He is on the ball when it comes to truth and reality. That's my honest impression of him. I've had hours of long conversations with Steve, and he does seem very grounded in reality. He may have strong opinions, but I don't see any indication that he's in "la la land".
Your observations are far more shallow and superficial than Steve's or Ladislav's. You don't see the big picture and there isn't much logic in your points. No offense. That's just my honest opinion based on your posts.
You also sound like you are just arguing for the sake of arguing, without legit logical points. Anyone can argue. But to argue with sense and reasons is another matter.
Even if you have traveled a lot, still, you don't sound like you have much wisdom from your travel experiences. I'm on a deep wavelength, so I always have deep observations. I've learned a lot from my travels, and it's reflected in my writings. Maybe you aren't a deep person, so you can't relate to me. You also sometimes sound too politically correct. Making observations and comparisons does not seem to be your strong suit.
Steve this, Steve that. He said this, he said that. You sound like he's your girlfriend, seriously.
You don't travel anymore Winston. You know this is true. You haven't in many moons.
You can say what you want about someone having more charisma than I do, frankly I could give a shit. I have enough to not worry about being rejected by women.
It's funny how you fail to listen to people on this board who know far more about Thailand than "Steve." Many on this board think the guy is full of shit. Like I said, throw him in a situation where he's not set up with God knows what sort of women, and let's see what he can do. For all he knows, which is nil about Thailand, the girls could have been straight up sluts. He wouldn't be the first guy to be duped by some sweet little Thai girl, but I guess "His girls are different." Like I said in another post, he wouldn't know a decent Thai chick if she bit him on the ass. Charisma my ass Winston - if you were here, you would know that charisma is not something I lack pal. Come to Thailand, Singapore, Cambodia, even the PI...you can see for yourself.
BTW - no offense Kai and others as I am not referring to all women met online, but many here in Thailand are so frigging desperate to find a man they'll sleep with damn near anyone. They don't want sex to get in the way of a possible relationship where a man will take care of them. The problem I see, besides being needy, is that many have kids, many have boyfriends with no money, they're head cases, or they're scammers. Good on Steve for banging some chick in under an hour + chat time. Guarantee you she was no "good girl" like he has stated.
Here's the thing Winston - what you did many years ago, that's great. I always admired you for having the guts to go abroad and start this site and I was already a long-time expat. But now, you come off as bitter towards women and more focused on how bad things are as opposed to just going out and living. Everything I read that you write questions why women are one way or the other.
I dare say most men may like to talk to women and get them to laugh, but most WANT TO GET LAID TOO! How many of those Russians shown in your videos did you sleep with?! You were harmless to them, that's all. According to you, they were great women. I'd be shocked if you slept with five.
My life is pretty damn good and I'm Happier Abroad. I'm the poster boy for these two words. What percentage of the guys on this forum can say this Winston? I can think of a handful, that's it. Most people aren't in the position to split, don't have the balls, or can't pull the trigger.
Politically correct? Jesus H Christ Winston, I'm the least PC person you've ever not met!
Here's my strong suit Winston - going out AND DOING THINGS. I live abroad, I travel abroad, I am Happier Abroad. So what the f**k is your problem with me? Like I said, my ideas do not always parallel yours - that pisses you off. I think your idea of a seminar has potential but only an idiot would come to hear some guy tell them how bad things are in the U.S. People want solutions, not to be told how shitty their situation is.
Think about something - you were excited about how "Steve has a real way with Thai women, this girl was smiling and flirting with him." Big f***ing deal. I get half a dozen Thai women smiling at every single day - it's their culture to smile and flirt. Try getting the relationship to progress giggling and smiling and see how fast they tell you nope, not gonna do it.
Winston - you've become a legend in your mind. Instead, you might want to think, "What have you done lately?"