Would girls be offended if I asked them to do a STD Test?

[Tsar]

I would pay them back if they're 100% clean. If they have any STDs, then it will be their expense. I would pay for extras if Full STD Tests do not include HTLV Type 1 and Type 2.

Obviously, I need any girl older than 16 to get an STD test and especially if she's older than 18...if a girl won't do an STD Test, then she's hiding something (really bad).

If she doesn't have the money, fine I will pay for her to get it...but if she works, she pays and I pay her back if she's clean.

[Shemp]

I was waiting for this: fear of diseases as way to permanently avoid involvement with women. In the hypochondriac USA, it is common among the wackier men and women alike to demand STD testing before sex. Never heard of anyone doing this elsewhere. However testing is widely available at labs, at least in Ukraine where I am now. It will be a hard sell to make the girl pay in advance with promise of refund if she is "clean". Just adds to the negative impression you give off of being a boy rather than a man, which is okay if you are a boy being seduced by an older women who likes taking the initiative with much younger men. But if you are older than the girl, acting like a boy is unlikely to be attractive.

Just use a condom.

I'm too busy now to write a finished poem. Maybe Yick will write one. Or use you imagination to fill this in:

worms filled Tsar with fear,
so that to girls he didn't dare get near,
etc
etc
Now old and waiting to die
Tsar began to cry
His virgin dick had never been in a puss,
Because he was such a wuss,
So many times he had yanked and wanked
And made his dick red until it bled.
Now it was too late,
Even viagra couldn't make his aged dick come awake,
etc, etc

[MrMan]

I would pay them back if they're 100% clean. If they have any STDs, then it will be their expense. I would pay for extras if Full STD Tests do not include HTLV Type 1 and Type 2.

Obviously, I need any girl older than 16 to get an STD test and especially if she's older than 18...if a girl won't do an STD Test, then she's hiding something (really bad).

If she doesn't have the money, fine I will pay for her to get it...but if she works, she pays and I pay her back if she's clean.

It would be a good idea not to commit fornication. If you think you are going to die, why would you do that?

[Tsar]

I would pay them back if they're 100% clean. If they have any STDs, then it will be their expense. I would pay for extras if Full STD Tests do not include HTLV Type 1 and Type 2.

Obviously, I need any girl older than 16 to get an STD test and especially if she's older than 18...if a girl won't do an STD Test, then she's hiding something (really bad).

If she doesn't have the money, fine I will pay for her to get it...but if she works, she pays and I pay her back if she's clean.

It would be a good idea not to commit fornication. If you think you are going to die, why would you do that?

I want children as soon as possible.

[Voyager1]

I would pay them back if they're 100% clean. If they have any STDs, then it will be their expense. I would pay for extras if Full STD Tests do not include HTLV Type 1 and Type 2.

Obviously, I need any girl older than 16 to get an STD test and especially if she's older than 18...if a girl won't do an STD Test, then she's hiding something (really bad).

If she doesn't have the money, fine I will pay for her to get it...but if she works, she pays and I pay her back if she's clean.

If you asked a girl to do a STD test for you she would pull out her hair, scream and run away from you. Either that or pepper spray you in the face.

Seriously I think you need to seek out appropriate mental health care.

[Tsar]

I would pay them back if they're 100% clean. If they have any STDs, then it will be their expense. I would pay for extras if Full STD Tests do not include HTLV Type 1 and Type 2.

Obviously, I need any girl older than 16 to get an STD test and especially if she's older than 18...if a girl won't do an STD Test, then she's hiding something (really bad).

If she doesn't have the money, fine I will pay for her to get it...but if she works, she pays and I pay her back if she's clean.

If you asked a girl to do a STD test for you she would pull out her hair, scream and run away from you. Either that or pepper spray you in the face.

Seriously I think you need to seek out appropriate mental health care.

In today's promiscuous society, either marry a virgin or get a non-virgin tested. Most non-virgins have STDs, especially the more sex they had or have, or the older they get.

[Tsar]

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[Huddo]

Yes women will be offended if you ask them to have an STD check. Always wear a condom during the initial stages of a relationship. When it comes time to have unprotected sex, then usually the relationship is more advanced and she hopefully won’t take offence.

[Tsar]

Yes women will be offended if you ask them to have an STD check. Always wear a condom during the initial stages of a relationship. When it comes time to have unprotected sex, then usually the relationship is more advanced and she hopefully won’t take offence.

What if I want to have bareback sex and pay for her to be on birth control?

[Huddo]

What if I want to have bareback sex and pay for her to be on birth control?

Tsar, you’re putting the cart way before the horse.

First work out how to initially create interest from a woman, then put it into practice. Because most of us started developing these skills in our teens and early 20’s, you’re behind the 8 ball compared with other men your age and probably be rejected many times. Even us who are reasonable good with women still get rejected (usually graciously so not to have our feeling hurt)

Eventually you’ve landed a date, then you need a new skill set building attraction and rapport. Ever been speed dating?, It will give you an idea where you stand. You’ll be rejected again often after your first date, or you might not be feeling it too.

Things go well and you progress to the second date now you need a new skill yet again. You have to delve deeper into her mind and life and see if her personality traits and beliefs are compatible with yours, as well as dealing with her questions. At any point you can say the wrong thing or monumentally put your foot in your mouth and you want be getting a second date.

If she hasn’t come up with an excuse to leave and you think the dates gone well, you need year another skill set :- how to tell if she’s flirting with you or just being nice. If you don’t get this right she’ll either think you aren’t into her or creep her out with your unwanted flirting.

If she likes you then you want to move things forward at the end of the date and kiss her. You have to be able to read the signs and work out if she wants you to kiss her or if she wants more time before getting physical. I can tell you there are horrible kissers our there, so if you have had limited experience with this, then it could be another point where you don’t make
It to the third date.

So you’ve made it to the third date. You haven’t screw up since your second date and haven’t come across as too clinging or distance, and you’ve nailed the date. There’s lots of physical chemistry between you and you find yourself back in her bed. You use a condom, because that’s what she expects a guy who she doesn’t know well to do.

The next morning you kiss her good bye and then a day later she breaks things off which you didn’t see coming because you rocked her world in bed, but you actually didn’t. She didn’t feel any sexual chemistry and couldn’t see a relationship going anywhere.

During these sequences of events, there is no chat about STD checks, Virginity, contraception etc.... because that’s being presumptive. Until you’re actually physically engaged in the act of sex, any one of 1000 things can go wrong and you won’t achieve your goal. Especially talking about the things above, most women will run a mile (Russian women especially)

I’m not knocking you for being a virgin at 30, but don’t focus on sex. You have so much more important things to work on before that’s an issue, but when you eventually get there always wear a condom, because any change of birth control winter be discussed until several months into a relationship and by that time you’ve picked up skills so you can cope with the extra stimulation you feel without a condom.

Most virgins will blow their load in less than a minute and leave the woman somewhat disappointed. You will be no different to the rest of us. Where I experienced that in my teen years and had honed those mental and physical tricks for marathon sessions by the time I was you age, you will probably have an uncomfortable and slightly embarrassing learning curve, that could cause her to walk away siting sexual chemistry issues.

[Tsar]

I guess I will ask this same question on normie areas of the Internet to see what Anglo normies answer for a wider variety of opinions...

[Huddo]

I guess I will ask this same question on normie areas of the Internet to see what Anglo normies answer for a wider variety of opinions...

If you get a reply any different than the one I and a few others have given then they have absolutely no idea about how women think or experience dating one. It doesn’t matter if you date in America, Russia or south east Asia, they will all be offended. To save you the humiliation of a harsh rejection, this is the face you will be facing...

https://youtu.be/mq44UADnndM

[Huddo]

I guess I will ask this same question on normie areas of the Internet to see what Anglo normies answer for a wider variety of opinions...

If you get a reply any different than the one I and a few others have given then they have absolutely no idea about how women think or experience dating one. It doesn’t matter if you date in America, Russia or south east Asia, they will all be offended. To save you the humiliation of a harsh rejection, this is the expression you’ll be facing...

https://youtu.be/mq44UADnndM

Forget sex atm, concentrate on attracting a nice woman. That’s the biggest hurdle you need to overcome. It’s not as easy as you think, even for experienced men.

[Shemp]

It doesn’t matter if you date in America, Russia or south east Asia, they will all be offended.

No, USA is an outlier. Plenty of wacky women germophobes who will insist on covid vaccination, full battery of STD tests, credit report, etc, and are willing to provide the same to guys they find attractive. Of course, none of the guys such wacky women meet satisfy the attractiveness criterion, so no one knows if they would actually go through with their promises, but asking for STD testing is not at all abnormal in USA, provided you do it right. Talk about "zero tolerance for disease extreme personal health consciousness and wellness manifestation orientation" or some such ding-dong verbiage.

It was common a few montha ago for these nutcases (of both sexes) to go on social distancing dates, where they walked in the park with masks on while keeping at least 6 feet apart at all times. If things worked out, then they made plans for a real date several months in the future, after vaccines available. This craziness is why sane guys with options are fleeing the USA. Thank God I'm in Ukraine, where people have been whooping it up at speakeasy nightclubs since the scamdemic began last year.

[MrMan]

I would pay them back if they're 100% clean. If they have any STDs, then it will be their expense. I would pay for extras if Full STD Tests do not include HTLV Type 1 and Type 2.

Obviously, I need any girl older than 16 to get an STD test and especially if she's older than 18...if a girl won't do an STD Test, then she's hiding something (really bad).

If she doesn't have the money, fine I will pay for her to get it...but if she works, she pays and I pay her back if she's clean.

It would be a good idea not to commit fornication. If you think you are going to die, why would you do that?

I want children as soon as possible.

Find a wife then. If you are looking to marry a virgin fast, that might be hard.

Some cultures have marriage match-makers. I know Koreans have them. It seemed like in Korea, at least with those who went to college, older students would match up younger students to go on 'meetings' where they would introduce a Freshman male and female. if the two hit it off, they would have a boyfriend/girlfriend. If not, some Freshman would go to multiple 'meetings' a week until they got matched up. For those who graduated and did not have an introduction and relationship that led to marriage, eventually parents might start trying to find singles through their social network. Their aunts and grandmas may carry pictures around of singles in the family to show to people they know who have single relatives. My students said two aunties at a bus stop might show their single niece and nephews picture. I am not sure if they were joking and exaggerating. That was probably an extreme scenario.

Friends also show pictures of single friends sometimes. My American friend was married to a pretty Korean woman. She showed me a picture of a friend she wanted to match me up with who looked to me like a 5. I declined. Later, I went to an amusement part with that couple and some of their relatives. The girl showed up with another friend. That friend looked pretty close to a 10. I suggested I ride rides with those girls instead of the 7-year-old we'd been with. My buddy said I missed my chance for that when I turned down the date. I couldn't speak the language and went around the park with my friend.

Anyway, I hear when Koreans get to the stage of going to a matchmaker, they may go on a few dates, discuss with family, and the parents ask if he/she is suitable or not. Several dates in, they could be talking about marriage and it could very quickly turn into marriage. Arranged marriages actually had a lower divorce rate, I heard, when I was there. Maybe family acceptance has a lot to do with it.

If you wanted to marry fast through the Korean 'system', you might be looking at close-to-30 or 30-plus. Maybe there are some who go this route at a very young age. I am not sure about that. It seems unlikelly. And you'd probably do it without your whole family on your side. You would have to insist on a virgin, and make it clear because 'virgin' in Korean doubles as a word for a woman who has never married. Also, those who go the match-maker route are probably traditional and conventional, and marrying a foreigner is unconventional.

Another idea might be to go hang out at a leukemia ward and try to find an 18-year-old virgin who always wanted to marry and is convinced she only has months or years. To be polite, one set of grandparents may need to be willing to raise a baby.

Another idea would be to marry a foster child who is 17 who will be kicked out of the system onto the street at 18 when she gets out of the system and might be interested in survival on her 18th birthday. I'd imagine chances for virginity here would be slim, but it also seems slim in the general US population.

My last couple of paragraphs here are probably better pieces of advice for script-writers for movies here than real life advice.