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So I have a profile on the local Plenty of Fish site here in miserable Vancouver, BC, where the site was founded and is headquartered. I hardly ever send messages to girls here since they almost never respond, big surprise. I use it to see if I can get messages from girls, which almost never happens, yet another big surprise. I did get a terrific and beautiful GF from there in 2008, but yet another big surprise, she was a foreigner, and hadn't been ruined by the locals yet. I described it in another post.

I have put on my profile what I am after and that I really only like Asian Girls. I finally got a message from an Asian girl this week, and I gave her my phone number so we can chat. Big surprise, she is Japanese! You can read about my other three Japanese GF's in another of my posts.

POF has a game you can play called "meet me" where they will show you a slideshow with pictures of local singles and you hit "yes" or "no" to the question "would you want to meet this person?" You don't see there profile, just the picture and you decide yes or no from the picture. Every time someone answers yes to your picture, POF sends you an email saying so and so wants to meet you and shows you there profile.
I get these messages on a regular basis! I want to share with others who they are so you can see what it is like here. Someone might find some, or all of these girls attractive. I do not. Meanwhile, I get about 50 messages a day on DIA, with the same picture, and I have made about 400 pinay friends on Facebook from them. I have almost 3500 messages on DIA. No comparison!

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=32944447

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=21268213

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=28151857

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=9523442

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=17023318

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=21809505

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=22930293

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=29546781

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=27999689

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=14529633

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=16467654

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=30911781

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=9278294

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=20955481

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=18550929

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=22583739

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=13289164

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=30659555

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=19886705

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=7882504

Have you met any of them offline yet? Or talked to them on the phone? Good luck with that.

In 4 months of having the profile, haven't met a single one. I haven't wanted too, since i only want Asian girls, but I got a message from a local Japanese one and we are going to chat and meet I hope, I gave her my phone number. I am really only interested in Asian girls that are non-drinkers, non-smokers, no drugs, no tattoos, are not religious, and pay for themselves when we go out. So I am very picky, but won't settle for less.

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DCX_10 wrote:I was on POF many years ago. Most of the women are over-weight undesirable types. (And really there was never much connection.) There are a few outstanding ones. The best one I met is the one that got away. She is a tall German? Blonde who is a assistant professor at University of Michigan at Ann Arbor. She drove a nice mini. We had a great talk （including Bush, Iraq war, theory of uncertainty etc). We walked around Ann Arbor. We kissed. But somehow she figured out I was married, so that was that. Oh well. I wish her well.

I did spend a lot of time educating the general POF pubic on POF forums about Asia and the stereotype. I did have a few white girls who want to hook up with me, but I was too occupied with work at the time.

So in general, I was wasting too much time for nothing.

Since I now take a lot of trips to China, I am completely hooked on Chinese girls. Generally speaking, you have a far better chance of finding a Chinese girl of far superior quality (looks, age, body shape, health, education, culture, coolness, and yes now even wealth...). A female friend, the very hot 20 something in Shenzhen, insisted on buying me an iPad. (She is the one that owns an electronic factory in Shenzhen and has over 8 million yuan of property in Shenzhen.) I am not going to let her but it is very flattering. Come to think of it, maybe I should take the gift, just so I can say ....

How did you manage to land you a woman that would do that for you?

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DCX_10 wrote:How? By being her friend. Not just a FWB, but being a true friend. For example, I gave her advices on business and in life. I am like a (free) coach/consultant. She really SHOULD pay me something.

The_Hero_of_Men wrote:

DCX_10 wrote:I was on POF many years ago. Most of the women are over-weight undesirable types. (And really there was never much connection.) There are a few outstanding ones. The best one I met is the one that got away. She is a tall German? Blonde who is a assistant professor at University of Michigan at Ann Arbor. She drove a nice mini. We had a great talk （including Bush, Iraq war, theory of uncertainty etc). We walked around Ann Arbor. We kissed. But somehow she figured out I was married, so that was that. Oh well. I wish her well.

I did spend a lot of time educating the general POF pubic on POF forums about Asia and the stereotype. I did have a few white girls who want to hook up with me, but I was too occupied with work at the time.

So in general, I was wasting too much time for nothing.

Since I now take a lot of trips to China, I am completely hooked on Chinese girls. Generally speaking, you have a far better chance of finding a Chinese girl of far superior quality (looks, age, body shape, health, education, culture, coolness, and yes now even wealth...). A female friend, the very hot 20 something in Shenzhen, insisted on buying me an iPad. (She is the one that owns an electronic factory in Shenzhen and has over 8 million yuan of property in Shenzhen.) I am not going to let her but it is very flattering. Come to think of it, maybe I should take the gift, just so I can say ....

How did you manage to land you a woman that would do that for you?

I want that for myself!

mistletoe82 http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=29546781 (f**k n' chuck)
CityGirlJo (f**k n chuck)
Slainte80 http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=9278294 (f**k n chuck)
A+ Asian (no picture so that draws suspicion)
iamthegirlforyou viewtopic.php?t=12342 (hot White girl) - (but friends with benefits with her only! no relationship unless she wants you to lie to her saying that she's in the relationship just to get the p***y)
ManeRoyalty http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=30659555 (cute Filipina chubby) - (get in a relationship with her if she isn't too annoying)
AngieStar73 http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=19886705
uofmoo http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=7882504 (She looks like a squirter) - (don't get into a relationship unless she coerces and remember to pull out when cumming)


There. Fixed.

I decided to try my luck on POF again. I only joined 48 hours ago, and the usual nonsense is already happening again of course. I've tried to keep my profile as simple a possible, and not even put I prefer Asian girls so they think I have an Asian fetish. I put I prefer foreign women. I didn't even put I don't like drinking or tattoos.

I messaged a few cute Asian girls, and don't get any replies, and meanwhile, I get lots that apparently want to meet me, and sure enough, every single one of them are white cougars, same as the last time I was on it.

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=17098691

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=3488948

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=323543

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=41282905

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=34814886

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=42179268

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=11008558

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=27004708

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=1653467

These two girls just messaged me:

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=4633762

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=45948752

Not a single one really interests me...total BS. If I like white girls, maybe I would be happy to meet some of them, but they are all around my age and I just want young hot ones like I got in the Philippines or the ESL girls I got here. I'll keep my profile open so I can look and get messages, but won't put much effort into it.

Will N. Dowd wrote:I decided to try my luck on POF again. I only joined 48 hours ago, and the usual nonsense is already happening again of course. I've tried to keep my profile as simple a possible, and not even put I prefer Asian girls so they think I have an Asian fetish. I put I prefer foreign women. I didn't even put I don't like drinking or tattoos.

I messaged a few cute Asian girls, and don't get any replies, and meanwhile, I get lots of "women" that apparently want to meet me, and sure enough, every single one of the mare white cougars, same as the last time I was on it.

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=17098691

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=3488948

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=323543

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=41282905

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=34814886

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=42179268

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=11008558

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=27004708

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=1653467

These two girls just messaged me:

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=4633762

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=45948752

Not a single one really interests me...total BS. If I like white girls, maybe I would be happy to meet some of them, but they are all around my age and I just want young hot ones like I got in the Philippines or the ESL girls I got here. I'll keep my profile open so I can look and get messages, but won't put much effort into it.

jojo67 is cute.

Will N. Dowd wrote:I decided to try my luck on POF again. I only joined 48 hours ago, and the usual nonsense is already happening again of course. I've tried to keep my profile as simple a possible, and not even put I prefer Asian girls so they think I have an Asian fetish. I put I prefer foreign women. I didn't even put I don't like drinking or tattoos.

I messaged a few cute Asian girls, and don't get any replies, and meanwhile, I get lots of "women" that apparently want to meet me, and sure enough, every single one of the mare white cougars, same as the last time I was on it.

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=17098691

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=3488948

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=323543

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=41282905

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=34814886

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=42179268

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=11008558

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=27004708

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=1653467

These two girls just messaged me:

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=4633762

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=45948752

Not a single one really interests me...total BS. If I like white girls, maybe I would be happy to meet some of them, but they are all around my age and I just want young hot ones like I got in the Philippines or the ESL girls I got here. I'll keep my profile open so I can look and get messages, but won't put much effort into it.

I am into white girls but every single one of those chics are either too old, fat, or ugly. None would interest me either so I don't blame you for feeling that way. That's why I don't even bother with that site anymore. It's a total waste of time. Just like someone said before... "Plenty of Whales" is what it should be called.

Another good name for "Plenty of Fish" is, Plenty of Fatties!

Will N. Dowd wrote:I decided to try my luck on POF again. I only joined 48 hours ago, and the usual nonsense is already happening again of course. I've tried to keep my profile as simple a possible, and not even put I prefer Asian girls so they think I have an Asian fetish. I put I prefer foreign women. I didn't even put I don't like drinking or tattoos.

I messaged a few cute Asian girls, and don't get any replies, and meanwhile, I get lots of "women" that apparently want to meet me, and sure enough, every single one of the mare white cougars, same as the last time I was on it.

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=17098691

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=3488948

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=323543

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=41282905

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=34814886

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=42179268

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=11008558

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=27004708

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=1653467

These two girls just messaged me:

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=4633762

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=45948752

Not a single one really interests me...total BS. If I like white girls, maybe I would be happy to meet some of them, but they are all around my age and I just want young hot ones like I got in the Philippines or the ESL girls I got here. I'll keep my profile open so I can look and get messages, but won't put much effort into it.

Will ND

Im impressed with the amount of interest you get on POF, are you the guy who cleaned up in PH, 20 or so chicks in 3 weeks or something?
You must be good looking dude, no doubt,

you could bang a lot of women in USA only if you wanted to, I wouldnt bother with chicks abroad

Maybe the guy wants to bang higher quality women who don't have 50 other cocks stuffed in their vagina.

Looks don't do shit in USA. You should see the amount of good looking men walking around with fat women in North America.

I can't see any of those profiles. Maybe it's because I don't have an account ?

You don't need an account to see the profiles, try clicking on my original posts, not the quotes.

I still find it amazing on POF that not a single girl that likes me is the kind I like, and not a single girl I like and write to replies and likes me. I do have far higher standards than the average Canadian guy though. I actually find it depressing that white overweight white cougars like me. I think it might be better if they didn't, I don't know. I would rather look at asian porn than be with the women that like me on POF above. The 45 year old white woman that likes me looks good for her age, but I just refuse to be with a woman older than me unless she is very hot.

White women, especially from the anglosphere simply don't do it for me mentally either. I'm sure their are lots I would find physically attractive, but they would be probably 15-20 years younger than me and not interested in me and they would be dumbass anyways. I'm sure if I was in mainland or eastern Europe, I would find lots of white girls there that I like physically and personality wise, but I would still prefer Asian girls.