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Ok,

So my trip to Cebu and Bangkok is booked for November. I'm super stoked for not only a great vacation but for bountiful amounts of women (both paid and unpaid).

If anyone recalls in a previous thread I was worried about whether or not me being younger (22) and heavily tattooed was going to hurt my chances of getting laid without paying in a more conservative cultured place. But you guys have reassured me that my chances are just as good.

So my question now, from a purely hedonistic fantasy realm; what are my chances of getting an older Pinoy woman into bed with me casually? I'm talking, 30-50 range. I've always had a thing for older women (not fetish wise as I like all women) but North American norms makes it really awkward unless you look like a model and she's an upper middle class suburbanite living out her fantasies.

Would it be extremely weird if I hit on an older woman in Cebu? Would the cultural differences make it even harder? Or would it be easier for the same reasons white guys get lucky with young women, but factoring in that the older ones never get attention? Should I try to use online dating sites to blatantly try to get laid?

I basically want no frills sex. I have no problems wining and dining the woman before taking her back to my hotel, but I also don't want more than a one night fantasy fulfilment before going back to the young cuties.

Opinions?

CJStyles wrote:Ok,

So my trip to Cebu and Bangkok is booked for November. I'm super stoked for not only a great vacation but for bountiful amounts of women (both paid and unpaid).

If anyone recalls in a previous thread I was worried about whether or not me being younger (22) and heavily tattooed was going to hurt my chances of getting laid without paying in a more conservative cultured place. But you guys have reassured me that my chances are just as good.

So my question now, from a purely hedonistic fantasy realm; what are my chances of getting an older Pinoy woman into bed with me casually? I'm talking, 30-50 range. I've always had a thing for older women (not fetish wise as I like all women) but North American norms makes it really awkward unless you look like a model and she's an upper middle class suburbanite living out her fantasies.

Would it be extremely weird if I hit on an older woman in Cebu? Would the cultural differences make it even harder? Or would it be easier for the same reasons white guys get lucky with young women, but factoring in that the older ones never get attention? Should I try to use online dating sites to blatantly try to get laid?

I basically want no frills sex. I have no problems wining and dining the woman before taking her back to my hotel, but I also don't want more than a one night fantasy fulfilment before going back to the young cuties.

Opinions?

Ha ha, do u even need to ask. Older women in a country where even most young women are unattractive and many of the poorer ones relatively easy for foreigners? As long as your target is not middle or upper class, overly conservative, or married, u should have a great chance w the 30-50 segment.

Bear in mind that I have no on-the-ground experience in the Phils (yet), but everything I've experienced and read on the internet indicates that your task should be a doddle, CJS. I find there are many, many ladies in the 30-50 age bracket desperate for male attention. The potential downsides are:
1. They may only be pretending to want a fling, but they actually want to hook a long-term partner - bait and switch. As a younger man you will be seen by them as very poor relationship material, so you may attract less of those types. If you get one into bed, they are reputed to get very clingy.
2. The women that do want to just have sex are likely to be single mothers (try finding Pinays over 30 who have not had kids - very rare), and thus have the saggy tits, floppy belly and loose p***y that often follows motherhood. Not all of them, but a large proportion. And they do tend to go to fat at that age. The only Pinay I've bedded had all of that. But she was passionate and enthusiastic.

Despite those disadvantages, I'll be fishing in that pool myself for some of my upcoming visit.

A note of caution: AVOID separated women like the plague. Divorce is illegal and adultery is a criminal offence in the Phils. You could go to jail for screwing a woman who hasn't even seen her husband for ten years!! Some get annulments, but they are very expensive, so if they've ever been married they are probably still married in the eyes of the law. Ok, it's unlikely you'd get caught, but why take the risk of being a victim of a sting or some such chicanery? There are plenty of single women to choose from.

CJStyles wrote:Ok,

So my trip to Cebu and Bangkok is booked for November. I'm super stoked for not only a great vacation but for bountiful amounts of women (both paid and unpaid).

If anyone recalls in a previous thread I was worried about whether or not me being younger (22) and heavily tattooed was going to hurt my chances of getting laid without paying in a more conservative cultured place. But you guys have reassured me that my chances are just as good.

So my question now, from a purely hedonistic fantasy realm; what are my chances of getting an older Pinoy woman into bed with me casually? I'm talking, 30-50 range. I've always had a thing for older women (not fetish wise as I like all women) but North American norms makes it really awkward unless you look like a model and she's an upper middle class suburbanite living out her fantasies.

Would it be extremely weird if I hit on an older woman in Cebu? Would the cultural differences make it even harder? Or would it be easier for the same reasons white guys get lucky with young women, but factoring in that the older ones never get attention? Should I try to use online dating sites to blatantly try to get laid?

I basically want no frills sex. I have no problems wining and dining the woman before taking her back to my hotel, but I also don't want more than a one night fantasy fulfilment before going back to the young cuties.

Opinions?

Um, your thinking of dating in America, where young men have no choice but to settle for a worn out broad. However, if you like middle aged women then that's fine, but you can expect more in other countries.

Twobrains wrote:Bear in mind that I have no on-the-ground experience in the Phils (yet), but everything I've experienced and read on the internet indicates that your task should be a doddle, CJS. I find there are many, many ladies in the 30-50 age bracket desperate for male attention. The potential downsides are:
1. They may only be pretending to want a fling, but they actually want to hook a long-term partner - bait and switch. As a younger man you will be seen by them as very poor relationship material, so you may attract less of those types. If you get one into bed, they are reputed to get very clingy.
2. The women that do want to just have sex are likely to be single mothers (try finding Pinays over 30 who have not had kids - very rare), and thus have the saggy tits, floppy belly and loose p***y that often follows motherhood. Not all of them, but a large proportion. And they do tend to go to fat at that age. The only Pinay I've bedded had all of that. But she was passionate and enthusiastic.

Despite those disadvantages, I'll be fishing in that pool myself for some of my upcoming visit.

A note of caution: AVOID separated women like the plague. Divorce is illegal and adultery is a criminal offence in the Phils. You could go to jail for screwing a woman who hasn't even seen her husband for ten years!! Some get annulments, but they are very expensive, so if they've ever been married they are probably still married in the eyes of the law. Ok, it's unlikely you'd get caught, but why take the risk of being a victim of a sting or some such chicanery? There are plenty of single women to choose from.

Agree here. The biggest issues in dealing with the 30+ ones is whether there is a husband and or kids in the background. But for a one night stand that's not much of an issue. I dont think age matters much in PI - just make sure they are of legal age.

davewe wrote: Agree here. The biggest issues in dealing with the 30+ ones is whether there is a husband and or kids in the background. But for a one night stand that's not much of an issue. I dont think age matters much in PI - just make sure they are of legal age.

"If" there is a husband and/or kids
However if she is a pro and is deemed to have been sex trafficked then no matter what her age the law always considers her a minor and you are liable for statutory rape.

There are some very hot older Filipinas on my dating site (address in .sig). They get very little interest compared to the younger girls, so they'd be overjoyed to get your emails. 35-40 is a good age.

The only thing is they're gonna be very clingy. Most Asian women are marriage orientated, and I'm not entirely sure how you find those who aren't.

CJStyles wrote:Ok,

So my trip to Cebu and Bangkok is booked for November. I'm super stoked for not only a great vacation but for bountiful amounts of women (both paid and unpaid).

If anyone recalls in a previous thread I was worried about whether or not me being younger (22) and heavily tattooed was going to hurt my chances of getting laid without paying in a more conservative cultured place. But you guys have reassured me that my chances are just as good.

So my question now, from a purely hedonistic fantasy realm; what are my chances of getting an older Pinoy woman into bed with me casually? I'm talking, 30-50 range. I've always had a thing for older women (not fetish wise as I like all women) but North American norms makes it really awkward unless you look like a model and she's an upper middle class suburbanite living out her fantasies.

Would it be extremely weird if I hit on an older woman in Cebu? Would the cultural differences make it even harder? Or would it be easier for the same reasons white guys get lucky with young women, but factoring in that the older ones never get attention? Should I try to use online dating sites to blatantly try to get laid?

I basically want no frills sex. I have no problems wining and dining the woman before taking her back to my hotel, but I also don't want more than a one night fantasy fulfilment before going back to the young cuties.

Opinions?

How much do you like pudding?

I think you will NOT have any problems in your "mission" good luck!

I would like to find another guy who wants to make a trip to the Phils because I am nervous about going alone. How about a travel section, Winston, so guys like me can find a travel partner or we can arrange member meetings?

Zero_Tolerance_Man wrote:I would like to find another guy who wants to make a trip to the Phils because I am nervous about going alone. How about a travel section, Winston, so guys like me can find a travel partner or we can arrange member meetings?

Will Dowd is heading over soon! Hook up with him. He knocked it out of the park when he was there....

Dude, I love hot MILFs more than anyone, but if you really want a mature woman, you don't want to look in the Philippines. Those women do NOT age well.

@Hero And To Whom Else It May Concern: (NSFW):

Me doing a 46 year old aerobic instuctor in Davao, Mindinao, PH in 2008:

http://www.4shared.com/video/SuRC-9wM/x ... _it_g.html

http://www.4shared.com/video/iXsJ1Rie/x ... _It_g.html

http://www.4shared.com/video/X31mMatq/x ... _it_g.html

You can find any kind of woman you want to date in Cebu for sure. The most aggressive flirtations will come from women about 18 yrs - 25 yrs. old. Women in their 30's will also find you attractive but you might have to make the first move. Also, don't be afraid to ask local people if they know any single women looking for a boyfriend. They'll be happy to hook you up with their friends and relatives if your game.

@E Irizarry: Well sure, a 46-year-old aerobics teacher is going to be an exception. But for the most part, I wouldn't bother with a Pinay that old.
How old are you, if I may ask?