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The woman I'm talking about is Thuy Vo. I'm officially done with her. Once I asked her some more in-depth questions, her true colors began to show.


1. She had one Vietnamese ex and two foreign ex-boyfriends, both American. She lost her virginity at the age of 16 to the first American, who she told me was 34 when they dated. She was in love with the first foreigner for 8 months. When I stated to her clearly that she must go away if she's just looking for fun or sex, she said "stop talking like this unless you want to break up."


2. I asked her whether she would still love me and stay with me if I had no money and no job. She said "not sure, because you can't take care of me." Then I asked her what she would do if that were the case, and she said that she would simply find another guy (another Caucasian most likely).

3. I looked up the Vietnamese dating site on www.statmyweb.com, and found out that her profile is ranked #1 under most popular links. Lots of guys thirsting for her that's for sure.


4. I thought her profile disappeared from the website for quite a while or maybe she even deleted it, but yesterday I made an account on that website posing as a woman to check on her activity, I set search from "Vietnam Only" to "All Countries", and found out that she had simply changed her country of residence to Thailand.


5. I haven't even met her and she has already asked me for sex and to send her pictures of my privies.




Over the course of our relationship:

-We had nothing interesting to talk about, just sending random emoticons on Viber and Skype back and forth

-"Where are you", "What are you doing?", "You go out today?", "You go to school today?" was about all she asked me

-Constantly asked for photo evidence of my daily life

-I am having an urticaria outbreak due to a seafood allergy, but I told Thuy on purpose that it was a very serious skin condition that could be chronic and could eventually affect my respiratory system. I wanted to see how much she really cared about me, and all she replied was "Oh."

-She constantly jokes with me that she's out with another guy, having sex with another guy...... And keeps asking me about "what if" scenarios (to be honest at this point I'm suspecting IF she's just joking with me)

-When I told her I was a virgin, she said "you don't know anything about sex, so I will find sex with other boy". I told her she could teach me, and she told me to watch porn films instead WTF.....



So, I will look for other options/other members as time passes. The chance of scoring a really good one is about 1 in 50, and the chance of scoring one that's marriage material is 1 in 100. I actually stopped going on that site for quite a while, but when she displayed those major turn-offs, I began searching for new ones. As of now my situation in real life is pretty messed up, so I need to have the practical side of things settled as well.


So, what do you guys think of this woman? She has already said she's broken up with me, so yeah.


BTW in case you guys need more information, here is evidence from that web statistics site: http://www.statmyweb.com/site/vietnameselove.com (scroll down and you will see the link to her profile, which is thuyvo20)

I asked her whether she would still love me and stay with me if I had no money and no job. She said "not sure, because you can't take care of me."

Well, at least you know it was a real female....

she said "you don't know anything about sex, so I will find sex with other boy"

who's honest about at least two things.

I'm officially done with her.

Over the course of our relationship ...

I haven't even met her

She has already said she's broken up with me

This is what "relationships" are, these days?
Could be worse, you could have been one of the thirsty idiots sending money & gifts to her.

Motherfuck! She's the most popular page! Popular Pages of Vietnameselove.com


There are 10 most popular pages where users visit.


1. http://www.vietnameselove.com/thuyvo20


I'd say she's either a player or a robot, but good luck anyway.

I've learned a few lessons:

1. Don't go after girls with profiles that have many comments from guys

2. Don't go after girls that have more than 5 photos in their profile (player/narcissism)

3. Don't go after girls that have photos where they dress really skimpy, use special effects, or have that expression if you know what I mean

4. Meeting a nice girl ON THE GROUND in that location is 1000 times better than using online dating, but as of now I ain't got much of a choice

5. Don't go after girls that have barely anything or nothing written about themselves in their profile




Some Ways I Use To Test A Woman's Loyalty:

1. Asking her whether she would leave me if I had no money and no job/career

2. Telling her I am very ill and it could get worse

3. Telling her some negative traits of myself



Can you guys think of any more?



Thuy failed #1, 2. I haven't used 3 on her.

Did you bang her though?

I haven't even met her, how can I be with her in bed?

Then I wouldn't even mess with it. Not worth it.

I cant find her. I even signed up.

Arabian_prince wrote:I cant find her. I even signed up.

Her profile is white only. Don't fret, at least you're not Black so you can get other girls easily. You can't win them all if you're not White, but if you're not Black, at least you can win some.

Under the search criteria, go from "Vietnam" to "All Countries". You may have to scroll down a little to find her profile. ]

http://www.vietnameselove.com/thuyvo20 (tell me what you think)


Also, will you start using that site? Can you tell me the name of your screen name on there? Mines is Zionas.

shes ugly, dump her.

Yeah, just say no to ugly-fuglies. Ugly chicks are for Black men, and Black men need to say no to uggos too. Celibacy is better than ugly chicks.

Please don't be racist. I think the average black male is still in a better position (at least in the Anglo world) than the average Asian male.

I think Thuy Vo is more 'cute' than 'hot', especially her eyes.


Sometimes I don't know what kind of woman I should go for The really hot ones are mainly out of my league, and having a smoking gorgeous partner has some issues as well, that's why I like to go for average/decent looking women.

What matters more to me is personality. I would like my GF/wife to be kind, caring, loyal, and supportive. We need to be able to talk to each other on an intellectual and emotional level. Don't care that much about height or body shape, as long as she isn't too fat or super skinny to the point where she's not good to touch and feel anymore.

A lot of guys on here keep classifying the appearance of girls on a scale from 1 to 10, but looks can only take you so far in a serious relationship. If you are just looking for fun and for an ego booster, I guess personality/character would not matter as much. I'd rather have an average looking woman (5 to with a good heart and a bright mind than a 9 or 10 that just follows me around and ain't give much a darn about trying to understand me.



So far, I can say these things about Vietnamese females (including Vietnamese-Chinese):

1. They are more friendly and communicate more openly than Chinese females from the Westernized cities

2. More and more are starting to value education and career, showing the speed of Vietnam's development (and move towards capitalism)

3. Most live with their parents throughout university and even a couple years into their own job/career-possible hindrance if the parents are as nasty as my family

4. Really social and like to go out with friends (especially to social events and cafes)-another possible hindrance, if her friends are crappy people

5. Many dislike Vietnamese males (me too) and prefer foreigners or have already dated quite a few foreigners, OR at least open to dating a foreigner

6. iPhones are all the craze over there (just like in China a while ago)

7. Many are actually quite intelligent, especially the ones that want to have their own job/career or are interested in exploring the world

8. If you cheat on them, things will turn out to be pretty bad (one told me about a British teacher who worked at the same English school as her, he got into a fight with his Vietnamese girlfriend, they broke up, she went to his boss and exposed him as having no degree)

9. Both cute and hot types, but more are leaning towards cute


Can anyone else share their experiences with Viets?



My Preferences In Women (based on nationality):

1. China / Vietnam

2. Other Asian countries (don't know much about Middle East)

3. Eastern European / Russian

4. Western European

5. Others


Anglo not on the list

Bao3niang wrote: Please don't be racist. I think the average black male is still in a better position (at least in the Anglo world) than the average Asian male.

I don't care about dating in the anglo world, and wow, fat chicks, big whoop. I have it sooo much better than Asians because I can get big ole fat miss piggies. Nah. I like Taiwanese and Japanese girls only.

Dude run from any girl like this. Why the f**k would you even think about talking to this girl anymore. If you are having a hard to meeting more women using online dating check out the guide I just wrote. Its far from perfect but there is no reason you can't be talking with 20 more girl who dont belong on the island of misfit toys. WTF is wrong with you to even keep talking to this crazy girl.