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Some guys on this forum have a strong or sometimes even exclusive preference for a certain race of women.

I am absolutely obsessed with Latinas and have even stated that I don't realistically see myself with any other type of woman.

@WilliamSmith adores Black women and it seems that recently his love for them has become more exclusive.

@Outcast9428 exclusively likes Asian women.

@Tsar strongly prefers Eastern European women.

But hypothetically what if there were a glitch in the matrix which made it impossible for you to date your primary preferred race of women? Like if, for example, the simulation programmer/matrix demiurge decided that he wanted to mess with you for some reason and reprogrammed all women of your primary preferred race to despise you? What other type of women would you primarily go after then?

As for me, if I couldn't go after Latinas, I'd probably go after mixed light-skinned Black women with big butts or Turkish women. Or maybe even Moroccan women who seem quite curvaceous and attractive, but I'll have to look into them a bit more first.

I've already talked about how I have an appreciation for light-skinned Black women with wide hips, thick booty and cute faces and how I believe that Black women are underrated in terms of beauty. I am also impressed by Turkish women who look exotic by European standards, many of whom are quite curvaceous, and who even resemble Latinas to a degree. I visited Turkey in the early 2000s and often watch videos of Turkish women dancing. Being an Eastern Mediterranean people with a small amount of Eastern Turkic admixture, they have radiant brown skin somewhat darker than Western Mediterraneans, have a fiery passionate disposition, and are often built like Latinas.

Indeed, even Doosh V said that many Turkish women look like they could be Colombians. I can definitely see the resemblance in the bodies and skin complexion but I observe that Turkish women tend to have a somewhat harsher facial structure than Colombians. That is because most Colombianitas are triracials with some degree of indigenous and African blood which serves to soften the facial features. But Turkish women are still extremely attractive in their own right.

Here are some videos of Turkish women dancing. Look at the curves and hot bodies of some of them! Look how fiery and passionate they are!

And look at how the icecream man dude in the first two videos absolutely kills it with the ladies. Dude has charisma. Respect to the man in the icecream van!










What about you guys? Tell us what kind of girls you'd go after in this kind of hypothetical scenario!

Lucas88 wrote: ↑

December 14th, 2022, 9:34 pm

@Tsar strongly prefers Eastern European women.

I actually don't have a strong preference for all Eastern European women. My preference is mainly Russian, Belarusian, and Ukrainian women. Serbia and Bosnia and maybe a few other countries in Eastern Europe and the Balkans would be my second choice for European women.

Lucas88 wrote: ↑

December 14th, 2022, 9:34 pm

What about you guys? Tell us what kind of girls you'd go after in this kind of hypothetical scenario!

I honestly don't know.

Any race of girl would be acceptable if she was beautiful enough and met my criteria and I felt she should have beautiful offspring. Asian, Latina, Central Asian Turkic ethnic groups, and some Arabs would be considered.

However, I wouldn't ever consider a Jew as a viable partner and I probably wouldn't choose an African girl because their features don't appeal to me.

I would probably go for an Eastern European girl as my second choice because I respect and admire countries like Hungary and Poland so much. If it couldn’t be Eastern European girls I’d go for Latina girls. Western European girls are a last resort though. I think pretty much any woman would be preferable to British, German, or Swedish girls.

If I were single, maybe that would be white. Honestly, though, I cannot say Asian is my 'primary preferred race of woman' for looks. It's either white or Asian for the most part for looks, counting East Asian, Asian subcontinent, middle east, and Europe, and only a small sliver of those. I was picky about looks when I was single and looking for a wife.

I prefer certain Asian cultures because it seems like the dominant culture has some values that were present in pre-1960's America, like women valuing raising children, being diligent about the home, male leadership in the home, etc. Having that cultural backdrop to reinforce common faith and values seems to be a positive thing. Also, if a wife is from a pro-marriage culture where parents, cousins, etc. reinforce the importance of staying married, working things out, that would be great.

In my wife's culture, they have carefully prescribed rules as to what to do in meetings of extended family. They have a meeting to comfort the relatives of the deceased. Relatives take turns offering words of encouragement, etc. in order of their relationship or rank in the family, with grandparent's generation (including great aunts and uncles), and various other groups being given a chance to offer words of comfort...or give advice. That advice can get kind of personal. And at another type of funeral/wake type meeting, I heard a little gray-headed granny chew out the children of the deceased and say not to treat their daddy like they did their mamma.

In the immediate family-- parents, I mean, if they have a conflict, one sibling says to another, "Tell your mother that you are going to X and you won't do Y anymore." They tell each other what to say. If the other person said it, it would seem weird and artificial. Anyway, honoring your parents, your mother who bore you, etc. are common bits of advice. I do wish 'Obey your husband' were said more frequently in these gatherings. That would be a plus, though it's possible one might hear such advice in these family gatherings.

In collectivist cultures, relatives often get involved in each other's lives and give advice, etc., crossing western boundaries. It hasn't been a huge issue for us since we lived in the US or in the big city and just sort of did our own thing and visited relatives. But when we visit and get around extended family, I found one problem with advice from extended relatives, when we visit the village and the uncle says, "You can rest hear and then go tomorrow, then do this and that." I planned to just ignore some of that, but we'd hired a cousin who was with us as a driver, and he thinks it is a done deal and just goes away to sleep.

But I find dealing with these cultural peculiarities probably would be less of an issue for me, personally, than dealing with some of the typical attitudes of an American woman. An American woman would have to be very countercultural against feminism, etc., maybe someone from a very conservative church to compare.

The culture a woman is raised in isn't everything. Individual personality is also important for being able to get along.