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People here have to wake up to the truth that women in Europe are not easygoing and interested in sex as it used to be.

Go prove it to yourself. Use your dating profile online which gets no matches in America and buy premium to change your location to Europe.
Poor or rich countries in Europe, Britain or Romania, you will also not get matches, just as in America.
If the woman does not know you are American, she will swipe left on you even more likely than a woman in America, because in Europe all men also just work out always.

Even guys in Russia are learning toxic dating theories and do not get intercourse. This is not just America. Why cannot more guys here admit this? At least in America if you are odd you might be interesting to some intelligent girl. This does not happen in Europe. The probability you get dates from a Slavic is not much higher than some rich west European country. If you get no matches in west Europe, you will of course get none in east Europe. Women are disinterested in a relationship here far more than in America.

Well there is a "grass is greener on the other side" phenomenon where you always think that other places are more fun and friendly than your own. It's a pattern and trick of the matrix and is a type of Murphy's Law, which rules this reality.

However, I would disagree that women in Europe are less friendly than in America. Have you tried cold approaching girls in the USA and Europe and seeing from first hand experience? I am not talking about dating apps. I'm talking about cold approaches in person. It's been taboo to approach girls and pickup girls in America since 1993. Before that it was more acceptable and not as taboo. Nothing can be worse than that. Except for Taiwan where people are antisocial and not approachable and not open to meeting strangers. You can't get any lower than the lowest in this regard.

Even if women in Europe are not easy to get sex with, so what? I never said they were. I said they were more approachable and easy to chat up and talk to than in the USA. That is definitely true. See the video clips in the links in my signature below and you will see hard proof. Also see these two videos of me flirting and approaching girls in Moscow, which was a lot of fun. Each video is two hours.

Moscow - Part 1
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EkCKbkrpd1Y

Moscow - Part 2
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=62m125EiNVk

Also see these 700 photos of me in Russia and Eastern Europe in this album below. You can see that the girls there are a MILLION times more open, friendly, and approachable than in America. The difference is greater than you can imagine and more than words can describe. When you experience it, your mind is totally blown.

Russia and Eastern Europe Album
https://photos.app.goo.gl/F5tiRtjwxjgkXhpWA

Even if it's true that girls there aren't as friendly or approachable as before, it's still not like the USA. it doesn't feel illegal or wrong to try to meet girls there or talk to strangers. In the USA girls will call security guards or policemen on you if you approach them, especially in Seattle and Washington state where men who approach girls are seen as criminals. In Europe you are at least allowed to try. It doesn't feel wrong. Also European girls are curious and like to meet new people, whereas American girls are not. Big difference. Europeans are more down to earth too and authentic and easier to vibe with. I am the same way. That's why it's more natural to talk to girls in Europe than the USA. I am not fake and Europe is not as fake as the USA. It's very simple.

globalwonder wrote: ↑

July 15th, 2025, 3:22 am

People here have to wake up to the truth that women in Europe are not easygoing and interested in sex as it used to be.

Go prove it to yourself. Use your dating profile online which gets no matches in America and buy premium to change your location to Europe.
Poor or rich countries in Europe, Britain or Romania, you will also not get matches, just as in America.
If the woman does not know you are American, she will swipe left on you even more likely than a woman in America, because in Europe all men also just work out always.

Even guys in Russia are learning toxic dating theories and do not get intercourse. This is not just America. Why cannot more guys here admit this? At least in America if you are odd you might be interesting to some intelligent girl. This does not happen in Europe. The probability you get dates from a Slavic is not much higher than some rich west European country. If you get no matches in west Europe, you will of course get none in east Europe. Women are disinterested in a relationship here far more than in America.

Tinder is weird. I got a bunch of matches in Colombia. Then I tried it a year later in Colombia using the same pictures and hardly got anything. It's not a good way to judge how women perceived you. Also I think changing location gives your profile some kind of penalty - at least that's what it seems like to me.

Like Winston says, go in person to see the difference. When I was in Europe (Hungary), the women weren't throwing themselves at me, but they also weren't f***ing assholes to me like American women are, and this alone makes it a much better place to be from a mental health standpoint. I found the same to be true of Colombia, and both Europe and Colombia seemed about equal as far as the women not being bitchy. Perhaps South East Asia is better, but I haven't visited it yet.

Happier Abroad was only a compromise. If people are so upset, why don't they use whatever means they have to influence or slowly change the culture of things at home, no matter how small?

It's only men that have to move out of their home country just to find love or get laid.

vlkmo wrote: ↑

July 21st, 2025, 10:20 am

Happier Abroad was only a compromise. If people are so upset, why don't they use whatever means they have to influence or slowly change the culture of things at home, no matter how small?

It's only men that have to move out of their home country just to find love or get laid.

Why to stay alone in an environment which does not fit you? Culture in Europe, Australia, Canada or USA, nothing will change there easily.
The only what you can do is to move abroad and try to find a way of life which fits you better.

I did that, more than 40 years ago, and never came back to Europe.

HOWEVER it is wrong to move to abroad without anything else in mind except to find love or getting laid.
I wrote about that many times. If you look only for sex with women abroad, you will soon run out of money and find yourself back home with an empty wallet.

To spend a short time as tourist in another country is easy, but to relocate for long-stay can be difficult. Many men find themselves abroad suddenly in financial problems.

There are a few solutions between moving abroad or stay in your own country. Many men from Scandinavia for example are doing this in Thailand. Stay in your own native country which has a good social system like health care and retirement and work for about 7 months to keep those benefits and stay in Thailand for the remaining 5 months for holidays.

This helps a lot to be financially secure even in case of expensive medical assistance.

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About this thread, I would not say that European women are more unfriendly than American women.
People living in Europe and USA are not sharing the same value and life-style.

Men in USA are prudish, it is the largest Christian country in the world - however women in Europe have often plenty of boyfriends and really very low moral values.

US-citizens expect that everywhere everybody outside of USA share their values and show up to teach everybody what to do, USA is a rather intolerant society and expect everybody to respond to them in fluent English and to agree with their personal point of view.

People from Europe do not expect such a response and the majority of Europeans are not native English speakers either.

What is considered to be rather strange for all Europeans is missing social health care in USA, and how much legal and medical assistance are overpriced. Also to mention is this aggressive tip-mentality.

The reaction from women towards men is very different in USA and Europe if you approach them.

However the result is about the same. What I have seen in both regions myself, I would say, it is not easy for men - if you really find a nice girl and she finds somebody else who might be better, she will leave you anyway in no time.

Both, USA and Europe, are not good areas to look for a long-term relationship.

vlkmo wrote: ↑

July 21st, 2025, 10:20 am

Happier Abroad was only a compromise. If people are so upset, why don't they use whatever means they have to influence or slowly change the culture of things at home, no matter how small?

It's only men that have to move out of their home country just to find love or get laid.

Trying to change the culture of wherever you live is like pissing in the ocean — the average person has no ability to change anything by himself and will simply be swept along by currents far more powerful than his own will.

Societies are subject to cycles. There are always dominant trends far greater than any individual. It's better not to waste energy going against the current. Change may only occur once a counter-current has reached a sufficient level of critical mass. Until this condition is reached, resistance against the dominant trend is futile.

But what do you do in the meantime? You still have to make a life for yourself somehow, and HA might be the best option for you.

If you remain hellbent on bringing about change too soon — before the scales have been sufficiently tipped in the direction of a new and viable counter-current — then you become just another one of many angry and dissatisfied people screaming into the void while your own life goes nowhere.

It's doesn't matter. Any woman can become unfriendly and become a bitch.

Johnny FD in one of his recent videos was having a bbq in Kyiv. Then men paid for the food and drinks and the women did the cleanup. One Ukrainian woman who had lived in the West and had become westernized started bitching that the women shouldn't have to do the cleanup and stirred up a big kerfuffle.

Check out Johnny FD's channel

Winston wrote: ↑

July 20th, 2025, 2:44 am

Well there is a "grass is greener on the other side" phenomenon where you always think that other places are more fun and friendly than your own. It's a pattern and trick of the matrix and is a type of Murphy's Law, which rules this reality.

Winston, you should also bear in mind that people will always treat you differently depending on who you are.

There is such a phenomenon of local women treating foreign men from similar or closely related cultures better than they do their own men due to a certain perceived image. An example of this is American women giving British men a lot of attention due to the perception that British men are more sophisticated. My old boss, who's a rather average-looking British guy, told me that this was his experience when he visited the US. Conversely, American men might receive better treatment in some European countries due to a perceived chic, coolness, etc.

So this might explain why people report wildly different experiences of a particular country, like British men saying that they did well with the ladies in Tennessee, or American men reporting that they received much more attention from girls in Sweden than they normally do in their hometown in America.

How you are treated in any given place will largely depend on your phenotype, the culture you belong to, the language you speak, etc.

vlkmo wrote: ↑

July 21st, 2025, 10:20 am

Happier Abroad was only a compromise. If people are so upset, why don't they use whatever means they have to influence or slowly change the culture of things at home, no matter how small?

Because it's cowards talk.

You'll just stay where you are instead of finding something you want which is out there. What change are you making by just being sat on your arse at home?

It's only men that have to move out of their home country just to find love or get laid.

Well, you know that's just not true, most American women have sex with American men by around 90 plus percent. Most American men do not have to leave the country to have sex, that is just ridiculous.

On American women, I was at a university in the UK that had an exchange programme with the University of Iowa.

And I met many beautiful and friendly American girls, some of them even fancied me! And I fancied them! But they were there for one semester and well, it's all f***ing history!

I have met cunt American women when I have been living and working in the Far East! Mileage may vary and all that. With 'European' women, it would help if you could speak their particular language and align to their culture or values - trying to chat up a Brit compared to a Greek is going to be a lot different.