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Here are some signs, which can enlighten you that she is not attracted to you:
She looks very frustrated when she first sees you. She does not smile;
Even after you spend some time together, she still does not want to hold hands. When you try to touch her, it looks as though it irritates her... Here I should say that it is wrong to think that Russian women don't like "holding hands". They do, but only if they like you. I remember my close friend told me about one of the foreigners who visited her. She said, "you know, when he tries to touch my hand, I feel repulsed..." In another situation, when she liked a guy, she would love "holding hands"!
Here are some other Red flags:
During your stay, your Russian friend will prefer to spend all of your evenings in night-clubs or restaurants, instead of spending â€œquality timeâ€� together with you getting to know each other (donâ€™t confuse this with her attempting to be hospitable and showing you the town);
Will try to make you buy as much stuff for her as possible, will complain and show her dissatisfaction in case you donâ€™t get her something she wants;
Will show a change in her mood very often (ex. Will be happy and excited when you are in public, but sullen and silent when you are alone);
Will act like she is very busy and could devote only a short time to you, in particular meeting you at restaurants or bars only;
Will be reluctant to discuss your future together, and make serious plans;
Will have sex with you on the first date, but wonâ€™t kiss you on the lips or will accept sex passively (remember â€œPretty womanâ€�? )
Also, I wish to assure you that if your Russian friend will be willing to have sex with you on the first date, it does not prove anything. She may really like you, or she may just believe that it is the only way to get abroad.
One more point: on our Womenâ€™s forum we discussed if any of our women were really â€œin loveâ€� when they agreed to marry their husbands, 95% admitted that they were not in love. Some said that they developed love and respect throughout their life with their spouses. Those, few who replied that they did fall in love before the marriage, were met with distrust and disbelief. Many said that it is impossible to fall in love with a stranger whom you met on-line. Surely, many (if not all) of these women assured their future husbands that they were â€œin loveâ€� before the marriage. This is something to think about!
There is a lot to consider in developing any relationship. Of course, itâ€™s nice to be very positive and open to the possibilities, but in order to avoid great disappointment afterwards, I would advice you to use your judgment, insight and maturity when arriving at this crucial step in your relationships.