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SingleAbroad.com is a travel information site for single men interested in visiting (as well as living) and meeting local women in Latin America, Eastern Europe, and Asia.

SingleAbroad.com structure
The main part of SingleAbroad.com is the detailed information about the best cities to travel. Each city has suggestions on the best ways to meet local women and hotels and entertainment suggestions.

Cities are also rated on on how good they are in terms of meeting three separate groups of women:

Local GF/wife material - local woman you would potentially want to have a serious relationship with or marry.
Local sex - local woman potentially opened to a one-night-stand.
Western sex - your average woman from a western country (may be married, in a relationship, or single back home; usually it does not matter to them when they are abroad) on vacation by herself or with "girlfriends". Often is looking to get drunk and/or have one-night-stands.

SingleAbroad.com is a unique travel site
Majority of travel resources are targeted at people traveling as couples or traveling with children. None of them offer any useful information regarding meeting local women.

The handful of resources targeting single travelers focus on Spring-break-type packages to Americanized tourist traps like Cancun (waste of time unless you are looking for a non-stop drinking party), backpacking through Western Europe and going to museums (worthless from the perspective of meeting local women), or things like trekking through Andes and saving wales (SA.com will have none of this nonsense).

Go to a bookstore and take a look through travel magazines. Every article is written by a spoiled western woman (or a girlie-man who might as well be a woman), and talks about things like the best shopping (they actually call it "retail therapy"), spas, romance getaways (where you spend several hundred $$ a day so your GF, not you, can have a good time), and other such BS.

The bottom line is most of the travel "advice" you get is the opposite of what you want:
1. Luxury pampering vacation BS - $200/night hotel rooms, luxury spas, massages, romantic walks on the beach, all that crap.
2. Fake spirituality vacation (fake because 9 out of 10 women only do it because it's "fashionable") - yoga, pilates, Nepal, finding yourself, spiritual enlightenment, god knows what else.

The goal of SingleAbroad.com is to give you the best unbiased information on where to travel so you can have a good time and meet local women.

Why you hear negative things about dating/marrying foreign women

Two groups of people are against western men dating foreign women.

- Feminist bitched (most western women pretty much). A man choosing a non-western woman goes against feminist core belief system, so obviously they hate it. They also have selfish financial reasons to be against it. Every time a western man making good money chooses a foreign woman, there is a western woman who will now not find a man who will financially support her. And trust me, feminist women do want your money (like your house post-divorce, child support, etc), despite all their "independence" rhetoric.

- Men who bought into feminist propaganda that listening to a nagging bitch (aka "strong woman") is an essential part of a "meaningful" relationship. These men usually have their balls firmly held by their feminist GFs/wives, so they just parrot whatever feminist women say. If you are in this group, then unfortunately you are f*cked pretty much (and not in the way you want). The only way you are going to improve the situation is if you address the underlying problem and try to unf*ck yourself. Going abroad and meeting women who are not the usual feminist c*nts you meet in your daily life would be a good start.

There is a group if men who can objectively compare dating western and non-western women - western men who moved abroad; and these men walk the walk, not talk the talk so-to-speak. Basically there is no such thing as a western man dating a western woman in Brazil or in Russia. The reason for that is very simple - western men in these countries have an easy option of dating countless local women who are much better than western women in every aspect that matters to a man. So dating a western woman in Brazil would be like eating garbage when good food is easily available.

Why you probably have no refence point of how nice non-western women are and what kind of garbage western women are

If you live in a large US coastal city, large western European city, or anywhere in Canada (yes, Canada is the worst except for Alberta perhaps), then there is almost a 100% certainty that every single woman you have ever dated was absolute garbage. In fact, odds are that you have never even had a conversation with a woman your age who was not garbage. What that means is that you have absolutely no reference point of women who are not garbage.

The only way you are going to get a reference point of how normal women act is by going abroad for a while. You don't have to join this site if you don't want to. Pick pretty much any country in Latin America, Eastern Europe or Asia and go there to a non-touristy city/town for a couple of weeks. You don't need to necessarily date women there. Just meet any normal people around you (and it should be very easy to do if you go to a non-touristy place), go do some things and have conversations with them. It may sound like a real hassle. But remember that marrying a normal western woman will be by far the biggest regret of your life. So you basically don't have a choice. If you don't do that, then you will almost certainly get suckered into marrying one of the garbage woman you are dating and eventually get f*cked over in divorce court.

If you are considering marrying and starting a family with a "career woman" over 30, then you need to act right away. Seriously, drop everything you are doing, get on the plane and go anywhere outside the "West" for a month. Once you come back you will break up with your GF and you will understand that you just avoided the biggest mistake in your life.

The main thing you will notice about foreign women is that they are very nice and they treat the men they are with very well. Being with a non-western woman is a positive experience; being with a western woman (outside sex perhaps) is a negative chore you put up with. Non-western women are also generally a lot more quite, non-aggressive, and non-confrontational. You may think that you prefer a "strong" and "independent" woman. If you think that way, then unfortunately you have been brainwashed and sissified by western politically correct media. Practically every man in movies and TV shows in the last 15 years is a sissy who says he prefers "strong" and "independent" women. Again, "strong" and "independent" women are fine and even somewhat convenient for casual sex, but they are absolute garbage when it comes to being wives.

Difference between Western women and non-Western women.

American women specifically and Western women in general have problems that turn men off:

Western women want men to serve THEM most of the time but are unwilling to put in the effort or TIME to make it an intelligent partnership.
Western women are coarse, vulgar, rude, or distinctly lack femininity.
Western women are argumentative, critical, and demanding (i.e. bitchy).
Western women are money-hungry and superficial.
Western women are generally mentally unstable.
Western women use sex as a weapon and reward to get things.
Western women are just bitter and show contempt for men.

Most of non-Western women in Latin America, Asia, and Eastern Europe are the exact opposite of Western women.

Non-Western women do not have anti-male bias and they are not pre-occupied with fairness and trying to prove themselves and to make a point.
Non-Western women are not self-centered and do not have high-maintenance, superficial, and stuck up attitude.
Non-Western women are a lot more mentally stable and they do not use sex as a weapon and reward to get things.

Think about this: what good is it having a western woman if she only views the relationship as a power play? Western women are not raised with the values that make the relationship work. Relationships with western women are all about what she can get from a guy and what she feels she is entitled to.

Ignore western women trying to discourage you from meeting non-western women. Western women feel very threatened by foreign women because they know they can not compete with them, so it makes western women feel worthless and obsolete. Western women know a man will always choose a non-western woman over a western woman if given a chance. It is like Chrysler's former boss Lee Iacocca making you feel guilty for you to buy American cars while selling you the worst junk cars.

Some men think their beat up Ford Escort is the best thing in the world. Why??
Because they never have the pleasure of having a Mercedes, Bentley, Ferrari!