After all my research - I must conclude a couple things. First, I believe the posts sympathizing mainly came from women. Women have an entirely different way of thinking that doesn't involve logic or linear thinking. I've had many, many conversations with women - and have concluded this is the case. It's nothing to hold against them - it's just how they think. I think this is "what they want to come across as" ....and they are attacking you, because they're really trying to say "You're not seeing the real me", completely negating the validity of what you're saying - which is how they're acting/behaving. And yes, American women do act like you described, probably 98% of the time.
There is a huge problem with American women being selfish, self-absorbed, narcissistic and shallow - acting promiscuously also. It's feminism. You have to understand how they think, they don't know they're in it so they have no point of reference - this is just how they think. They weren't brought up "right" or to be a good 'woman', but to get their needs met, be independent - and hold man at bay. I've listened to this feminist argument again, and again of "It's you"..."don't generalize all women, there are some good ones out there". No, that isn't true. This is excuse making. I've gone up to, time and time again, different girls and chit chatted with them. Even saying hi - you get the 'creep' response, or the "I'm better than you" one. People will make excuses for their behavior. This is the mark of the un matured person.
Just say the hell with it man, and get to banging them- treat them like they want to be treated! That's it. You can't change someone into something else, you've got to take them as they are. If you find a good one, then there you are.
maybe you should first take a look at yourself. are you coming off as too intimidating? maybe too creepy? otherwise, no one in their right mind would need to file a complaint against you.
This is the same as found in black lives matter supporters when they get mad. It's always you, you, you. It's because they base their entire structure identity off of fighting something else, that's how it exists.
Blacks are always complaining about racism - when no racism exists anywhere, but it's because its' what they SEE. If they see it, they're going to say it's you. You can never explain to them why you're NOT racist - they'll still insist that it's there, that you were/are racist. It's like walking around with a chip on the shoulder, the blind person can't see they are blind.
AW have this attitude bad. They've been mismanaged/mind controlled. To see things through a certain paradigm - You can't change their paradigm. Just treat them as they want - bang them, have sex & fun with them. This is what they want, although they won't explicitly state it. Feminist AW are confused. ..they'll want a sort of relationship, probably, but won't be straightforward about that, either.
To let you know, I don't even approach AW like that anymore, try to be nice to them etc. I approach them like with a smile, sexy...almost like you don't respect them, Alpha. They like that, they like it because it short circuits the courting rituals that men & women use...but can't agree any longer on anything. It cuts right to the biology. They like that, because it nullifies and gets under all the conditioning, there's no room for them to say "Oh, he's a creep, he's trying to be a gentlemen to me." It gets right to it, it's honest, women and human beings appreciate honesty. I feel like all women respond to this. It's also sad we can't treat them like a gentlemen, but o'well feminism.
It's ironically - the only thing they respect and like.
Cheers!
Or you can keep trying to find a non-fem American woman. That's rare, and the whole point of this convo.
Misery and happiness are only states of mind.
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