Why are disabled guys more deep and intellectual?
Posted: October 30th, 2011, 4:18 pm
Back in 1995, my family visited Victoria, BC in Canada, and one night, after my parents went to bed in the hotel room, I went out looking for girls to talk to or nightclubs to go to. But I couldn't find any and the girls treated me like I was invisible.
Then, while I sat on the steps next to the Victoria ship harbor, a guy in a wheelchair passed by and we started talking instantly. He wouldn't stop talking but he was saying some of the deepest most meaningful stuff I ever heard before. I was glued to him. Hours went by and it was almost morning by the time I went back, which got my parents really worried. He was so open that he even admitted to having mutually masturbated with another guy (both helping each other) and that it was a truly intimate experience, even though he wasn't gay or homosexual. I was surprised by how open he was. But everything he said had so much substance, depth and meaning. You don't meet people like that everyday.
After that, I realized that perhaps guys who are disabled are forced to turn within and seek a higher/deeper meaning in order to cope with their predicament. After all, they can't work and are not accepted by women anymore, so going inward is the only place they can turn to. All that introspection enriches their soul and they become very deep, intellectual, philosophical, substantive, etc. Have you noticed this too?
I haven't met many disabled women, so I can't say if they are the same, but it seems to be true of disabled guys. What do you think?
Even though I'm not disabled, I've always felt alienated and on a different wavelength from other people, so perhaps that loneliness also forced me to turn inward as well? I am also sensitive and imaginative and philosophical by nature too, so those are factors as well.
Then, while I sat on the steps next to the Victoria ship harbor, a guy in a wheelchair passed by and we started talking instantly. He wouldn't stop talking but he was saying some of the deepest most meaningful stuff I ever heard before. I was glued to him. Hours went by and it was almost morning by the time I went back, which got my parents really worried. He was so open that he even admitted to having mutually masturbated with another guy (both helping each other) and that it was a truly intimate experience, even though he wasn't gay or homosexual. I was surprised by how open he was. But everything he said had so much substance, depth and meaning. You don't meet people like that everyday.
After that, I realized that perhaps guys who are disabled are forced to turn within and seek a higher/deeper meaning in order to cope with their predicament. After all, they can't work and are not accepted by women anymore, so going inward is the only place they can turn to. All that introspection enriches their soul and they become very deep, intellectual, philosophical, substantive, etc. Have you noticed this too?
I haven't met many disabled women, so I can't say if they are the same, but it seems to be true of disabled guys. What do you think?
Even though I'm not disabled, I've always felt alienated and on a different wavelength from other people, so perhaps that loneliness also forced me to turn inward as well? I am also sensitive and imaginative and philosophical by nature too, so those are factors as well.