Were You a "Starter Husband and how did it feel?

[kairosan]

I bumped into an article on msn about western women and the editors at MSN who thought it would be okay to write an article about it being " okay
" to practice calling their first marriage
"starter husbands". Winston, and crew what do you think about this matter and has the media gone to far
Read Article here http://lifestyle.msn.com/relationships/ ... id=8319179

[Winston]

Hi Kairosan!

How are your videos going? Have you seen any of my new ones?

You should share some of yours here.

As to that article, almost every article on MSN, especially about relationships, is junk and meaningless.

If you can't even get a date in the US, what's the point of thinking about marriage or "starter husbands"? lol

Generally though, I think couples should live together first to see how they get along, before being married.

But I'm not sure I believe in marriage anyway.

And you?

[kairosan]

Well Winston, I have been working at night which reduced my chances of making newer videos. Howevever, I will be making new video with a friend of mine about life, dating in America, and video games and etc.

Now back to the main question: I belive in the institstution of marriage only if it works. In the 21st century, marriage is look over as just a tradition more than an activity that proves to God one union and commitment towards one another. In the West, marriage could also be seen as a liability hence, shifting in the opportunity for women to work and provide for oneself. In America, marriage comes with love, romance and committal values that snyc a union with emotional and financial benefits.

In the Eastern countries for instance: Japan, the Japanese perceive their marriages as if thier wives are "new mother" allowing them to take care of finances in the house. Also Japanese men usually work longer hours which restrtians them from any or no energy to have sexual intercourses with their own spouses. This is why porn and love hotels are popular in Japan. The father usually could cheat on thier wives come home and sleep without being mentally disturbed at night( the wife knows the husband was cheating anyway)
But somehow they remain married....but theirs a catch! Usually the Japanese look at marriage as a business. One clear example of this would be foreign exchange student from japan going to Europe or amerikka and noticing how the host family mother and father seem to be more in " love" and romantically involved than their own parents back home...wonder why ahh. The father works; goes home and ignores the wife goes to room and beats off. Another thing you may of find funny is that in japan these days, Japanese couples stay in separate rooms. I see most couple by homes with 3 br houses out there. One for the baby, and two for each parent. Messed up huh?

Mean in America you have devorces at 50 pr%....

[kairosan]

Btw I haven't seen any of your videos yet. I will hop onto it and watch them. I will find a way to share my videos on here...just show me how. Oh two things I've been meaning to tell you

1: I have a friend who will be doing future YouTube videos with me who I think should wake up from this nightmare of dating American women. You see, he's lonely and lives by himself in my city. Also he had an American girlfriend back in 08 who dumbed him for some douchbag who own shit. Been with this girl for 3 years. Appearently it's 2010 and he believes he should give up on looking for love. He wants to just deticate himself to his drawing pad and family members which he claims are the only ones who love him. If I gave him a way to contact you, could you convice him otherwise? He never left the country btw so he wouldn't know jack about what he has been missing for 2 years! He considers himself a geek and seems to accept that he's not good enough for these sick messed up fake finimistc physcos!

[Winston]

Btw I haven't seen any of your videos yet. I will hop onto it and watch them. I will find a way to share my videos on here...just show me how. Oh two things I've been meaning to tell you

1: I have a friend who will be doing future YouTube videos with me who I think should wake up from this nightmare of dating American women. You see, he's lonely and lives by himself in my city. Also he had an American girlfriend back in 08 who dumbed him for some douchbag who own shit. Been with this girl for 3 years. Appearently it's 2010 and he believes he should give up on looking for love. He wants to just deticate himself to his drawing pad and family members which he claims are the only ones who love him. If I gave him a way to contact you, could you convice him otherwise? He never left the country btw so he wouldn't know jack about what he has been missing for 2 years! He considers himself a geek and seems to accept that he's not good enough for these sick messed up fake finimistc physcos!

Well, just check and subscribe to my new channel at http://www.youtube.com/user/globaldating

Yeah just refer your friend to my website, which is this one. Give him the link. He can go from there.

To paste youtube videos here, just paste the link. That's all.

How do you know so much about Japan by the way? Have you been there?

My advisors told me that Japanese people deep down are miserable and repressed. I would not try to emulate them. They are a workaholic business culture where things are highly regimented. (e.g. meeting girls is only allowed at organized parties, not in public places) Not relaxed, open or social. I wouldn't use that country as an example.

[kairosan]

Thanks for that advice Winston and I will post videos on ur forums in the near future. Yes your right, japan is a bad example of social and dating life in foreign countries. I have told my friend about Phillipino women and the dating potential in that particular country. Hesitate to think out of his head, my friend Reply "......I don't do long distance relationships" as I looked at him believing for a moment there wasn't any hope for this guy. I will send him the link via myspace for him to view....but can't garentee if he'll look at it or not. I will attept and see what he thinks.