Gen Y's Version of `American Beauty`: How To Be Single

[E Irizarry R&B Singer]

S_Parc, this movie makes American Beauty looks like a fraudulent attempt at being a documentary.
`How To Be Single` actually is a documentary because it was so REAL and nothing exacerbated nor embellished.
It's rated as a comedy, but there wasn't anything funny about this f***ed up movie.

The cheating, the white-knighting, the hedonism, the lack of accountability, misandry, simpleton mens' mentality, What a f***ed up movie!!!
There was a fat White English bitch whom was in NYC on a work visa (and later in the movie, it's revealed that
she's actually rich), and she corrupted a Portland Oregon White woman that relocated to NYC to cheat on her long-tome boyfriend that was back home.

They would go to pop and punk clubs in Manhattan and pimp white knights for free drinks. The fat English w.hore
was stereotypically a mudshark dancing and making out with Black guys on the dance floor. Yet when other dudes
tried to push up on her at the club in order to show LTR interest in that fat sow, she would literally push them away
because she wanted to be single. She had the audacity to call up all three of the Portland transplants' ex's to meet
at the same club so they can fight over her. DUDES, this movie renders EVERYTHING WE TALKED ABOUT AD
INFINITUM. Even after that, the transplant chick tells the fat bitch that she's an asshole and a phony in but so many
words yet she comes kowtowing back to the fat bitches door weeks later to say that she misses her and that they
are best friends. What a dumb cunt and that signifies that it's women over men first mentality (the opposite of bro's over
ho's).

The longtime boyfriend, AT FIRST, wasn't stupid because he knew that his ex was cheating on him in NYC YET
he accepted her back and she had the audacity to become put off by the fact her ex that she initially cheated on
wanted breakup sex with her towards the end of the movie. Then at the end of the movie, she feels that staying single
for a long time is the best thing ever. Sick shit.

Then one of the other White b.itches in the crew got pregnant BY A SPERM DONOR'S SPERM FROM A CLINIC and the guy that was with her
didn't know and he stayed with her even AFTER THE KID WAS BORN and the bitch had a nerve to say in the hospital bed that he needs to bond
with it immediately (not verbatim). Dude was such a MANGINA.

One of the transplant's ex's was a PUA, Tom, he owned the bar. He let a b.itch bum off of his wi-fi for free without buying shit in his bar
and had the nerve to sit there in PUBLIC PAJAMAS. I don't know what the actual name is. Shows again how AW
dress in public - in those - pajamas.

What else? ....then the Black dude felt weird about the transplant's bonding with his daugther because she was singing the exact same song
that the late mother of his daughter would sing to the daugther so he kicked her out of the relationship. He returned back weeks to months later
to say sorry, but once a Black guy (no matter how nice and hawt he is) breaks up with a White American non-mudshark-type of woman, it's a wrap forever.
He was weird, too, because he kicked her out over something so innocent and second nature for the White transplant from Oregon girl singing to
his daughter.

See, what else? Yes, I don't know if the writers of the movie frequent this site, but that movie literally mirrors the most asinine dysfunctional
contemporary American dating to light. The movie was so real that I hated it. I hate some movies out there, but I really hate this movie because
it depicts what we men go through here in the U.S. of Gay. Signing off......

[Slick]

All modern mainstream literature is garbage, especially "Fifty Shades of Grey", "Hunger Games", "Twilight" (you get the picture)

[Eric]

All left hand- path practitioners see nothing wrong with focusing on the individual. The way they see it - "they are getting their needs met... so why aren't you?" They force you to think like they do. If you dont, then poo on you, you loser!
They say if you don't like it then go somewhere else. Except for they are exporting this shit over the world. You See...this is the type of evil it is. The Bible tells it like it is, basically. It's going to bring total global destruction, eventually.
Basically every society knows & understands the ego is bad for harmonious relations. The finer emotions are downplayed in the west, you'll notice.

This is the 'evil' this way of being produces... it could be said it's selfish. Empathy, loyalty, friendship are absent. They don't figure in. It's why the world's flooding with evil, pornography, single parenting...broken kids, selfish people, hedonism, violence, inequality, drugs. And no ONE sees a problem with it - "they are just living their lives." See?

It's literally choosing for the power of the individual or, the collective. This is an individual country. I've thought about it many times... but something pulls me back. Probably a close personal family experiences with a family member who impacted me with this type of mentality.
I don't know, at the end of the day - you do what you do.
It really f.cked with me today, because I was at a Cafe and I got in a convo with a Muslim guy (I used to live in Turkey, and I guess I cling to it)... totally different vibe & down to earth, friendly way of seeing things (much like this forum)... and then 3 of his friends rolled up. I got plenty of stares from paranoid judgy Americans sitting there staring at me out of the corner of their eyes, thinking I must be conspiring with ISIS, or something. It was extremely uncomfortable, and really, really sucked. .. but I sacrificed as best I could to ignore it & not give up my integrity with my new friends - who gave me more 'friendship' in 30 mins than I've sucked from this place in 3 years.

Sometimes, I wished I never would've been over there. Or, wish I'd be better at not trying to please everyone I'm with, which could be and probably is, the biggest problem.
I find I get my ass kicked a lot for being obstinate, not letting go and trying stupidly to hold onto what's "right" in a place where it's not right and no longer matters. Why? Hanging on to weakness. Wtf is the point of that. Nothing.
I'd behaved stupidly all these years. These people owe me nothing. I owe them nothing, I never did, never have. I CHOOSE if I want to.