Why is it ok for women to bash thin guys.

[johnparker16]

It dosnt issue what figure or dimension you are. AW will always discover something incorrect with you and try to split you down with it. I am that big beefy guy, they want me more ripped and balding. I have tresses and this is a disqualifying element. There is no man that can please them and you will be better off not to even think of them as females. Choose a young lady from any where else on the planet just to discuss with, decrease your thoughts of ineffectiveness and just discuss with her, even if she is just a companion she will relax your thoughts.

[Capster78]

Speaking as a thin guy with a small body frame it gets rather old in America when 90% of them always tell you to GET BIGGER. Why is it ok in America for women to bash skinny guys even if they got some muscles like let's say Bruce Lee in his prime. It just pisses me off to no end that almost all Americans in general look at me like I'm a lower being because I'm the ONLY male in America that doesn't want to be bulky.

I'm naturally thin guy who works with what god gave him. Why the hell can't America and mostly women let me be happy with that if I'm a strong skinny guy? Sick of comments like "EAT MORE", "BULK UP" or "GO TO THE GYM".

I say I'm one of these natural thin types that workout but not to get big, but I'm really starting to have body image problems because America just doesn't stop hammering men with body images and women are so damn shallow.

This is more my body frame natural type.


Sadly FAT American women want this


Pretty much 100% all women who are 9s desire this type


Screw t, from now on the next time some woman feels the need to comment about my weight or height I'm GONNA DESTROY HER SELF ESTEEM like they do to pretty much all men. If she's fat I'm gonna comment on her fat ass gross body. I'm no longer going to give American women any respect at all. America really has mentally raped me to the point I understand why some American men snap and beat their women. US women never stop mentally abusing guys.

I am not sure why you are so worried about this. It seems that all the energy you spend being worried about this could have been used in the gym to solve your problem. It really is not that hard to bulk up if that is what you want to do. It is kind of like listening to the fat cow at your work complaining that guys dont like them because they are fat.. and that no matter what they do, they cant loose weight. Its kind of annoying and something you can solve yourself. Just pick do some research and put some time into the gym. Not only will this get your more attention from the ladies (which should be a secondary goal), it will also make you feel good about yourself and give you more confidence in everything you do. I noticed this when I decided to give it a try. I have always been a skinny guy all the way up until I was about 27 years old. Then I decided that I wanted to change that. So I did a lot of reading on how to gain weight and spent the time in the gym to turn that weight into muscle instead of fat.. It took me about a year but I went from 145lbs to about 180lbs in a year. I was pretty chisled at the time... it gave me the confidence to meet my current wife. Even though she is a filipina and they generally dont really care about how muscular you are.. she definitly loved it in bed and she always bragged about it to her friends which made me feel great...

It's the same thing Id tell a 300 lb american chich crying about her weight... stop crying about it and get your ass in the gym. Just because you can't loose all your weight in 2 weeks does not mean it's impossible.. it takes work! If your lazy and don't set reasonable expactations, your going to dissapoint yourself to the point where you don't change anything, in which case, the whole ordeal was a waste of time to begin with.

Now, I dont really lift anymore. I got my woman so I don't feel the need to be buff.. But I have another hobby now and that is running. I run between 15-20 KM a week (10-16 miles) a week. So I stay in shape..

In the end, you will find that you may have started out working out because you wanted to impress the ladies, but you actually did more than that. You improved your own self confidence which in turn shows up in other areas of your life. You will feel more confident at work, in your personal life.. and things will improved all around. At least that is what it did for me. And that confidence will show. Others will noticed and good things will happen.

[Capster78]

Oh, and a tip for you guys just starting out......

Please...Please....Please... don't think lifting weights is going to get you buff if your 300lbs of fat... I have never understood why a 300 lb fat dude is sitting down next to me benching 250lbs thinking he is all buff.....

Loose the weight first. You can do this by lifting if done properly in concert with cardio.. but you need to get your gigantic moon pie eating butt on the treadmill or stair stepper... or something before you can expect to see any results. All your doing is turning 300 lbs of fat in to 350 lbs of fat and muscle.

**end rant**

[Billy]

+1

[ringspun]

Its also ok for some to bash bald guys, yet you imagine if you pointed out a girls hair was thinning for some reason, you'd be the biggest asshole in town!

Do as I say not as I do comes to mind!