ILoveBlackAmericanWomen wrote: ↑December 31st, 2012, 7:27 am
I know people also take drugs in clubs. I think maybe they come there because it temporarily fills a void I guess?
I have never tried illegal drugs in my life, I have never tried alcohol in my life, I have never tried weed in my life, and I have never tried psychiatric medication in my life. I also have never tried coffee as a drink, and I am against caffeine in all forms. I am also against chocolate.
As I have grown older, I have become even more strongly against intoxicating oneself.
I regard the above toxic "pastimes" as clearly perversions. If one chooses to engage in them, he is on a path toward destruction, that is, he is moving away from a state of health and happiness, and toward mental or physical illness, or worse.
I am solidly against using toxic substances for pleasure and fulfillment, more than ever before.
When I was younger, I could feel that it was popular to drink and go to bars and clubs and parties. Before the advent of Tinder and the ease at which females could access men available via the swiping feature, going to bars and clubs and house parties was the "cool" thing to do, so I could feel the "pull" socially; the peer pressure or what have you was "in the air."
In recent years, I have developed a solid morality, a solid plan, that if followed, will produce the happiness and fulfillment that those who attend toxic social events are seeking.
What people want is to be accepted, loved, and specifically, to engage in harmonious sexual activity with a member of the opposite sex, to build a family, to be accepted by one's community, etc. That is the main thing in life.
Harmoniously mating with a fertile female is what a man wants. A genetically superior female who will totally cooperate with him is what is desired.
Due to the reach the Internet grants females, only the top men are seen as desirable, so the only way to compete in a given sexual marketplace is to be in the top 20% or whatever. So, as a man, you first need to ask yourself if you have any shot at being perceived as being in the top 20%. If you don't see that as being possible for you in the location you are in now, you need to change your location to one where you are perceived as of higher value.
And, if you are going to attract a healthy and happy, cooperative wife, you need to be healthy and happy yourself.
You don't want to engage in perverted activities. You need to acknowledge that partying is sinful, a perversion, etc. and will not lead you toward long-term happiness.
Having a one-night stand will provide very temporary pleasure, that's it. I've done it before, many times, but it got old fast.
After you have realized that casual sex is not fulfilling, you will attempt to create a better lifestyle for yourself, especially if you have the experience of developing a long-term relationship with a female, and actually making love with her. I have done this before.
Making love is much different from casual sex.
I define making love as having sex with someone who you know extremely well, and the person is serious about being dedicated to the relationship.
One of the main things in life is making love. Making love is insanely gratifying and meaningful. When you are in mental cooperation with the female, if you believe that she is dedicated to you, then the physical act of sex can become a spiritual, heavenly experience. The pleasure you feel will be incredible, out-of-this-world, without exaggeration.
You have to get to know the girl extremely well in order to make making love possible. Marrying the girl is ideal.
The ideal female is one who is a virgin, because you are her first, so she is much more likely to take you seriously, because she has no other men in her past experience.
You need to meet a girl who is probably very young, even underage.
You can legally marry an underage girl in many states, and have sex with her.
It needs to be planned and expected that the girl will stay home as a housewife, and you will provide for the family. The girl must be totally in harmony with this plan.
As a man, you will feel the best if you are the sole provider to the family. The more assistance you get from others, the worse you will feel. If you utilize welfare, or if the wife goes to work to help in supporting of the family, that will destroy your personal happiness.
You need to set up your environment so that you are biochemically and mentally in an advantageous situation, where everything is working in your favor.
The wife needs to provide only support and suggestions for improvement, but not push you to change in ways against your will; you need to be assumed as the leader of the family.
The wife needs to be sexually submissive, meaning, ready to engage in sexual activity. However, she may not feel like it, which is going against her physiology. Therefore, that gives rise to the idea of attracting an additional female, that is, to form a polygynous family.
This will allow every person in the family to engage in sexual activity only when desired.
By the way, everyone's sex drive will be high because they will not be stimulating their brain with the aforementioned substances that stimulate the same part of the brain as sex does.
And everyone will be eating the healthiest diet, which is a starch-based diet with the addition of vegetables and fruits--so each person will be of an attractive body composition. Also, each person will engage in physical exercise regularly, further improving his or her appearance and vitality.
You need to choose a location in which to live that is safe and conducive to health and happiness. We've learned a lot over the past year of how an environment can devolve into chaos. Factors which are important are:
- Democrat-run government vs. Republican
- Any BLM riots/looting?
- Legalization of shoplifting
- Second-amendment sanctuary? Can the people arm and defend themselves?
- Was the National Guard called in quickly after a riot broke out?
- Is weed legal? Weed should be regarded as toxic and unhealthy.
- Is homelessness tolerated and present? Homeless people should be despised and kept away from family-oriented environments.
- Are homeless shelters nearby?
- Are jails nearby? Criminals just released from jail may be unstable mentally, and therefore, not harmonious with a family-oriented environment.
- What do the people look like? Are they fat? Do they have tattoos?
- Are liquor stores conspicuously present?
- Are there bars and nightclubs?
- Do people blast socially-dysfunctional-sounding music out of their vehicle?
- Is there graffiti? Is there a phone number to call to report graffiti?
- Is the police force strong? Or defunded and weak? Does the DA prosecute all persons cited? Or does the DA let people commit crimes and get away with it?
- Is the state and/or city a sanctuary for illegal aliens, that is, does the local government not report illegal aliens who are convicted of a misdemeanor crime to the federal government (for deportation)? Or is the place like Texas, where all illegal aliens now go to jail for crossing the border illegally?
- Is the quality of schools in the area high? Are the schools very strict and discipline delinquent students efficiently? Do the children respect the authorities?
- Is law enforcement strict? Do people obey the law?
- Is there trash on the streets?
- Is human fecal matter on the streets?
- Is dog fecal matter in parks where it is supposed to be cleaned up immediately?
- In parks, do people smoke, even if there are posted signs that say, "No Smoking"?
- Is smoking legal in the area? How many people smoke? Or has the city banned it in public places, or even in apartments and other shared housing?
- Is the location conveniently located next to a freeway? Can unstable criminals easily access the area and vandalize or burglarize the area? Or is it difficult for outsiders to access?
- Is there public transportation, making it easy for mentally unstable individuals to access the area?
- Do people have a totally inclusive mindset toward outsiders, or do they have a very conservative, analytical attitude toward new people who show up in the area?
- Is there a "neighborhood watch" in every neighborhood?
- Maybe the area is so safe that people don't have to lock their doors. Is the neighborhood in such a great location that you can afford to relax and not be so vigilant all the time?
- Do the people grow their own produce? Do they have a passion for eating the freshest vegetables and fruits?
- What percentage of the population own their own houses? Do people love the area and own their house and live in it there because they love it so much? Or do they rent there because they are not sure of settling down there, because they don't think the location is that good?
- Do people get married often there? Do people who live there frequently post their wedding photos on social media? Do families take professional family photos?
- Do people have large families there? Are they able to fully realize their reproductive potential? Or do they have small families because of financial strife or other problems which limit them reproductively?
- Do the people discipline their children properly? Is there a consensus on how to discipline children properly? Or, is there no community communication regarding family discipline?
- Is everyone socially disconnected there and living on their own? Or is there a strong, social connectedness and feeling of community spirit?
- Is there a high percentage of households with a single female present with children but no man?
- Do girls of a young age get excited to be married? Or do they have sex outside of wedlock as a teen, losing their virginity to a dysfunctional male, thereby ruining their chances of marrying a great man?
- If girls there do get married at a young age, how young? Is it socially acceptable for a girl to get married upon reaching sexual maturity, or do people think that girls must suffer for years in celibacy until they are 16 or 18 (this is why girls covertly have sex with a dysfunctional male prior to marriage)?
- Is there an enthusiasm regarding reproduction? Do girls crave to produce their first baby and intend to as soon as they are married? Or does the society irrationally have a negative attitude toward teens and reproduction?
- Does the society believe that childbirth is a magical, pleasurable experience and is aware of diet's role in influencing it? Or do they believe that childbirth is a medical emergency and a painful, unpleasant experience?
- Does the society believe that watching electronic screens is detrimental to a person's attention span and ability to appreciate interaction with human beings? Do the parents raise the kids without screen use?
- Are children kept indoors because of the fear of "predators" in the neighborhood? Or, is the neighborhood trusted to be a hospitable place for children to roam and play about?
- Are the wives allowed to use social media? Do they keep in constant contact with random men via the Internet? Are they "spinning plates" with multiple men online in privacy, unbeknown to their husband? Or, do the wives have no social media, and stay away from the Internet, and mostly interact with people in person and their children, face-to-face?
- Is the community an extremely morally upright society that prides itself on truth, telling the truth, honesty, etc.?
- Are boys in gangs or confused as to what to do with themselves? Or are boys confident and focused and getting ready to marry and working on manifesting a home for their future family?
- Are there festivities in the area? Do the people celebrate life? Is there song and dance? Is there an enthusiasm for living, and among people of all ages? Is everyone in the area thriving?
- Is the location located in a place with decent weather? Is it not in an area associated with natural disasters?
- Do the service providers provide great-quality customer service?
- Are people at-ease and happy? Do they smile easily and giggle and laugh easily? Are they feeling alive and well? Are they optimistic?
- Did the community cower to the coronavirus? Did they close businesses? Are masks required?
Considering the above factors, and trying to situate oneself in an environment conducive to health and happiness, and living a healthy lifestyle, is better than seeking instant gratification through drugs, alcohol, casual sex, etc. and living in a chaotic area.
I am personally planning to create a great lifestyle for myself. I am already on the right track because like I said, I have never tried drugs, smoking, drinking, weed, psych meds, etc. I am about to break through and soon should be showing myself in videos living a great life, and I intend to teach others how to manifest one like mine also.
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