Happier Abroad Forum Community

I've been on some dating/personal(s) websites -- OkCupid, Plenty-of-Fish (left 'em now; for reasons that should be obvious). I'll be straight-up and the first to tell you lot that it's because, when it comes to dating, I'm doing as well as a one-fined goldfish being chased by a shark (or other small-fish eating marine animal).

Now, we all know that it's easier for a woman to attract a man than the inverse. At least it should be. So what did surprise me is the amount of female profiles on these sites.

I think I'm stating the obvious here -- mainly because another member mentioned this before -- but I find it funny when women don't reply to you, AT ALL. It's even better when the shit says they viewed your profile. Because the proof that they got your message is there, and yet . . . no contact.

A lot of their profiles are like, "I'm super friendly", or "I'll chat with anyone", right? Far from the truth, mates. I hit this one girl up on PoF and receieved no reply. Then I nicely gave her a tip about lying in her profile ('cause the bitch said she was 'super friendly'). Her response to that was, "Thanks for the tip."

Now, Blue tried to start some genuine conversation by asking what her favourite colour was. But alas -- I was shot down like an allied mustang over the beaches of Normandy during WW2.

So not only are the gals on these sites picky and stuck-up, they're also liars. Shocker! Not really.

The funniest thing of all? The fact that women can get/attract men easier than the inverse, yet have to use a dating site to meet them. Obviously, if you're a girl and single, there's something seriously wrong with you. You'd think that their bullshit 'standards' would be lowered. But no. Worst part -- you don't even know what the hell their standards are!

It's a bloody dating site for crying out loud! The point is to NOT be picky and expand your network and blah blah blah.

This makes me laugh. How about everyone else -- funny or die?

Lemme know!

I personally find it funny as shit that women on dating sites are so stuck up. They think their 'talk to the hand' attitude is going to land them a perfect guy.

All it does is drive good men away, and they end up with guys who are bad boys and thugs.

So much for perfection, eh?

The good news is that word about how bad dating sites are is finally reaching men, and I think in the near future you will see very few men on dating sites, with the end result that the supply of attention for a lot of women on dating sites is going to dry up.

Dating websites are a waste of time. You literally have to send at least 100 messages to 100 different women to get a decent number of replies. I had a friend who was into this crap a few years ago. He spent 2 months talking to a girl before finally setting up a date which didn't lead anywhere.

I can recognize an attention whore anywhere and it was full of them. Just look at when they joined the site, if it's been more than 3 months then it's clear they aren't in the dating business.

Andrewww wrote:Dating websites are a waste of time. You literally have to send at least 100 messages to 100 different women to get a decent number of replies. I had a friend who was into this crap a few years ago. He spent 2 months talking to a girl before finally setting up a date which didn't lead anywhere.

I can recognize an attention whore anywhere and it was full of them. Just look at when they joined the site, if it's been more than 3 months then it's clear they aren't in the dating business.

Dating sites are completely feminized. Its all about pleasing the females self-absorbed behavior patterns.

Men need to put their foot down and FORCE females to act like human beings if they want to be dated. I never approach a female; if she's interested she must approach me and do things that I find agreeable in order for the relationship to proceed.

Andrewww wrote:Dating websites are a waste of time. You literally have to send at least 100 messages to 100 different women to get a decent number of replies. I had a friend who was into this crap a few years ago. He spent 2 months talking to a girl before finally setting up a date which didn't lead anywhere.

I can recognize an attention whore anywhere and it was full of them. Just look at when they joined the site, if it's been more than 3 months then it's clear they aren't in the dating business.

A few years ago, a friend of mine used 3 different dating sites at the same time, (Match.com, Yahoo Personals and American Singles) he is good looking, works out at the gym and makes good money. He literally emailed 300 women and only got a response back from 20 of them. He went out on a date with 3 of them. One girl was fat, the other one was ugly, the third one was ok looking but was a single mother!

It took him six months from the time he joined till the time he went out on a date with those 3 women. Needless to say, he will never try online dating again! It is a complete waste of time and money. Your better off getting on an airplaine and going to South America, eastern Europe, Russia or the Philippines to meet women.

Blue, were you writing American women or Foreign women? If the latter, from which countries?

Why is it that even the foreign women on Plenty of Fish don't write back? Is there a logical explanation for that? Is there something particular about them or that site? Also, since that site sucks, why is it so successful?

Btw, I got like zero responses from OkCupid. Then finally I got one response, but it was a rejection. However, the bitch contradicted herself during our message exchange, which is typical for such bitches. For some reason, women often contradict themselves when rejecting someone. Here is what she said.

Venus:
sorry, you aren't my type.

Winston:
How do you know without meeting me? You go only on looks? Sheesh. TW girls are so picky. Just like American women. They reject 99 percent of guys.

Venus:
i've already like a guy 3 weeks ago from okcpid, and that's why i reject you. STOP BEING SO SENSITIVE!

Winston:
But you said earlier that it was because I wasn't your type! Why are you changing your reason now?

Winston wrote:Blue, were you writing American women or Foreign women? If the latter, from which countries?

Why is it that even the foreign women on Plenty of Fish don't write back? Is there a logical explanation for that? Is there something particular about them or that site? Also, since that site sucks, why is it so successful?

I'll tell you why these sites are so successful: Too many fellahs are diluted into thinking they'll work. There is no reason or logical explanation for why ANY women doesn't reply -- foreign or not. Though I'm mainly talking about Western women, I'm sure the foreign ones aren't that much better. If you want, I can show you some absolutely frightening profile that further support the message Happier Abroad preaches.