BlueEverglades wrote: ↑October 31st, 2013, 10:26 am
You may have seen my posts around but never really know who I am. I am a woman from Cuba, I left at 15 and now I'm 25. The situation in Cuba was really bad when I left and it got even worse. However I'm having problems adapting to U.S culture and find myself very lonely. This forum goes on and on about how lonely men are in America but we women can be as lonely or worse, a total misfit.
1. I find it hard to adapt because I'm required to act mostly like a man, compete with men, and be aggressive, 100% focus on myself like a total selfish %^&%. I'm not like that, all of my family have an introvert calm personality because of our European genes (Spanish, German and french) we like to take things slow, have friends rather than a lot of money and practice spirituality in our lives and this in America is apparently laughable. It's also laughable to live with your parents because living alone all day everyday it's so desirable....(sarcasm)
2. Many American women drink, curse and smoke like sailors and don't find either very appealing. Clubbing and whoring around are the main activities in Miami where I live .I don't have any American friends but I had an American boyfriend for a month and he was very cold and uncaring, we broke up shortly. I go to eat to restaurants alone, art gallerias, museums and nobody ever approaches me. I have a good body and face similar to Vanessa hudgens.. I know how to cook and take care of a home and treat a man with respect, whenever I see a man with a trashy woman holding hands I feel bad inside, like things are backward and there's nothing you can do about it...
3. I just never had the whole corporate America, competitive mindset drilled into my skull as a consequence as I am very much anti-establishment, anti-corporation and anti-mainstain and would go insane working in an office type of job for the rest of my life.
Every career I'm into is considered useless to society ( Literature, arts, nutrition, philosophy, theology, archeology, history) which are exactly the careers that make people think but in a money centered society thinking is not required and business, engineering, long medicine careers are not what I could consider enjoyable. I just hate the idea of a career that defines all I do forever into eternity. I don't feel like coming back to school...
I was dismissed from university because I fell sick of hypothyroidism and hormonal imbalances, eventually my body stopped ovulating for months, I never had such conditions in my home country. My health has suffered here tremendously. I have anxiety attacks when I realize how f***ed up this place really is...even just walking in the street I feel like I am from another time..my walk is slower, I actually look at other people and smile, I care for everyone's well being and yearn for meaningful connections but once again my qualities are not required here so I'm f***ed and hating every moment here, what do you have to say to me? should I move as well? which countries are better for women like me?
So I guess it isn't just men that are feeling alienated in America, it's women, too. Especially when now you see guys getting arrested by armed FBI and Homeland Security officers for mingling and socializing, and even women are getting arrested by the FBI for the same thing, all because of America's new laws against what now is defined as statutory stalking. America has become a prison country, where prisons are in fact commercialized as sources of income for the government.
There is a reason you got sick and stopped ovulating. American food is contaminated with toxic chemicals that are deliberately put into all foods by American food corporations and manufacturers. Toxic chemicals such as high fructose corn syrup, GMOs, and even chlorine and fluoride, to name a few, all of which destroy health, including the body's entire glandular system causing out of control, runaway obesity; there are people with glandular problems so severe that they can not consume more than even 150 calories a day without gaining weight.
Guys are afraid to approach women in America because they know that it's illegal under Federal law to do so. They know what awaits them if they approach a woman; 300 years to life in Federal prison and/or the death penalty, use of deadly force authorized.
And you are correct; in fact, American women curse like gangbangers (Gangster Disciples, Four Corner Hustlers, Latin Kings, MS-13, etc). America's entire nightlife atmosphere has devolved into only 2 genres of music; rap and country.
In case you weren't aware, rap is that violent gangbanger music that's nothing but profanity and yelling and glorification of the gangster life. Rap is popular in the United States because American millennials are a violent peoples. More than 90% of American millennials and post-millennials are in gangs. Every single college campus nationwide is nothing but gangs, violence, turf wars, many of them are more dangerous than Baghdad. Violent gangs such as the Latin Kings, MS-13, Los Zetas, Gangster Disciples, and Four Corner Hustlers have spread throughout all 50 states and are growing at record paces. Tell them you hate rap, and they label you a racist, hater, neo-Nazi, they accuse you of burning black churches and villages, Americans know how to inflate their huge, violent egos and make themselves look superior. America is in fact on track to become one of the Top 5 Most Dangerous countries by the end of the decade, potentially as dangerous as Venezuela, possibly even Iraq or Afghanistan.
Country is popular because line dancing (5, 6, 7, 8 ) is the new culture dance of the United States. With line dancing, everyone is dancing in their own personal bubbles, maintaining their 6+ foot buffer zones and ice barriers, and seeing only backs of other dancers.
Eres un poco mas joven que yo , yo vivo en Mexico , eres bienvenida acá si así lo deseas para tu paz mental ,oooo
en un par de ocasiones platique con el y me pareció un buen hombre.
