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I'm online dating again and I'm noticing in general for example, a woman of say 30, is willing to date a man that is roughly 8 or ten years younger, and maybe 4 years older. Then a women who's is say 38, will date a guy 28 to about 38 - 40. None of these women seem to have kids, maybe this is part of the reason because they know their eggs are rotting and decayed and need some invigorating.
Am I out of line thinking men should date women whom are within 10 years or so younger than them? Maturity levels surely would depict this as preferential, at least in days gone by. But I guess since the rise in princess syndrome, women have become more immature and seek to find their mental equals.
It makes dating quite tough as I'd rather wack off than date most women my age (I'm 42) who don't know how to take care of themselves physically. I guess if a guy wants a white lady he's best going Eastern European. I like Asian ladies as well, but Asian family/culture has it's own set of roadblocks.
Statistics would say that these picky, bitchy, princesses (especially urban types) will eventually breed themselves out. But who has the time to wait it out? I just don't think we were born in a favorable generation guys.

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It's so beta to marry a woman who's even one day older than you are. I'm going by the rule: half my age plus 7. I'm 47 but could pass for 40, so I'll be holding out for mid to late 20s.

Don't restrict yourself based on the opinion of what others think is good for you. Do what you feel is right, as long as it isnt immoral. Any age woman you want is fine, as long as she is of legal age.


Just think of it this way. At least we havent been drafted to fight in their international wars? Men in those previous generations had to worry about being shipped off to a foreign country to fight their brothers and to get murdered by the millions for lies. At least we don't have that problem.

Our war is spiritual and psychological. Our war is not against women.

MarcosZeitola wrote:You would be surprised at the number of women that would like to be with, or even prefer, a well-kept older man. A handsome man in his forties or even fifties could get a cute girl in her twenties. To some, it's even their primary attraction. They're done with boys, and who can blame them?

I just wish that I could find those cute young girls.

MarcosZeitola wrote:You would be surprised at the number of women that would like to be with, or even prefer, a well-kept older man. A handsome man in his forties or even fifties could get a cute girl in her twenties.

Winston is living proof of that!

MarcosZeitola wrote:You would be surprised at the number of women that would like to be with, or even prefer, a well-kept older man. A handsome man in his forties or even fifties could get a cute girl in her twenties. To some, it's even their primary attraction. They're done with boys, and who can blame them?

Asia yes,America, no...unless she is the sugar daddy type

MarcosZeitola wrote:You would be surprised at the number of women that would like to be with, or even prefer, a well-kept older man. A handsome man in his forties or even fifties could get a cute girl in her twenties. To some, it's even their primary attraction. They're done with boys, and who can blame them?

That sounds like great news to me since I'm a 42yr old single Black American man (who has never been married and has no children). Although some people have told me I don't look my age but at least 10 years younger. However, I believe the best possible regions of the world that to find young cute to hot women who prefer handsome older men are mainly in Southeast Asia (Thailand, The Philippines, Vietnam, Indonesia, etc.), Latin America (Colombia, Brazil, Peru, Costa Rica, etc.), and Eastern Europe (Ukraine, Russia, Czech Republic, Romania, Bulgaria, etc.). The other nice thing about these areas of the world besides having cultures that are more accepting of younger women/older men couples, is that they tend to be more traditional or conservative when it comes to gender roles. Although in my case many parts of Western Europe wouldn't be so bad for me to go to find young women such as United Kingdom, Germany, France, The Netherlands, Sweden, Belgium, etc. even if these countries are more highly influenced by liberalism and feminism (though not as bad as the U.S.).