Eric wrote:Actually,these are none of America's real and MAIN problems. The main problem here as I see it, and my own brother made this observation...as did my father, was that America's become all about luxury, avoidance, feeling good, minimizing pain while making everything perfect. That is basically a problem because you need to maintain certain hardiness to thrive and even function. You'll slip into various neurosis and mental dysfunctions while losing the vigor in your life. I believe the whole country''s affected by this, while it is human nature - for some reason in America ''luxury' is given an all time high priority; this is especially dangerous for men...while men are the 'active' ones going out and doing, it is toxic and antithetical to life.
Combined with the materialism that's offered, instead of real satisfying and fulfilling goals...America's just a depressing overall place.
It's however a playground for women though, who do well and seem to love this pilfered, luxurious environment. Look around at how many vibrant women you see -now look around at how many vibrant men.
I rest my case.I believe this place has actually been manufactured to be a "p***y bin", if that makes sense. ...And it really is.
Materialism is definitely a religion of America.
I think this is partially true, and partially not. USA is sort of schizophrenic in this regard, and in some ways it goes back to individualism or not. USA actually has one of the biggest DIY markets around, and in other countries large stores like Lowes, Home Depot, etc, don't exist. Albeit in general large department stores also don't exist, but those same countries, Costco might be popular. As a society, we actually do take quite a bit of pride in doing our own home, car, etc, repairs quite a lot, and we do them a lot more than other societies, not due to high labor prices per se, but high business prices due mostly to regulations businesses need here compared to other countries. But I do think on some level, psychologically we do like to do this kind of stuff out of an individualistic mindset. Truthfully, a lot of people in Asia, etc, are totally clueless about how to fix anything. It's not their job, pay someone else, oh well. This is not to say life is easy, or has always been easy for said people, but I think comparatively, life in USA can be stupid hard, especially compared to life in another higher income industrialized country. We're one of the few countries that needs DIY... everything, or else you go bankrupt unless you make very serious money. So then when you get home from work, you then need to work on your family members' cars, fix the house, whatever, thus you're basically working every waking hour at times with said projects.
I think in a lot of ways, though, there's a sort of divide between the "luxury class" of people, and the "worker class" of people. In that seemingly, even aside from income made or not from working, or not working, there's desk jobs vs physical labor jobs or businesses. And on both sides, there's a sort of disdain for each other. I feel in my field, as a "construction worker" I'm looked down upon, actually oddly enough by people specifically in coding and software development, who think they're the smartest ever but couldn't even install a RAM stick in a computer, since their knowledge of basically doing work in the physical world with real life objects is so little. I mean, shit, maybe I'm dumb for not being able to code 'hello world' or something. Who knows. But one interesting point is seemingly, this class of people are almost aristocratic, and have the pampered luxury life of ease you describe, even if it's financed by endless streams of debt. And their life of the easiest thing even goes onto kind of absurdity, with people I know now spending their time not even playing video games, but watching livestreams of other people playing video games for hours on end.
As far as I understand it, the class divide between physical laboring working people, and this aristocratic class wasn't always so great, as in, during the times when most people were doing physical labor in factories, etc. But I think now without this unity, there is a class divide happening now in USA, with disdain on both sides for both types of people and their perceptions, right or wrong, about their work and intelligence.
That said, the biggest thing I notice in USA, actually isn't the youth, but the "Baby Boomer" population and actually their laziness. Most Boomers I know think walking a hundred yards is like asking them to run a marathon or something. And the obsession with even parking spots here in USA. I remember vividly people messing up my driving to park on the street to go to a gym, when they had a giant mostly empty parking lot, simply as street side was closer. Which is hilarious in the context of a gym. In Taiwan and Vietnam you see 70+ year olds happily riding bicycles and walking miles everyday. In this way, yes, I do agree about the laziness and neurosis it causes. I think about my church, and our community center we used to have before we sold it. It was about a quarter mile or so walk from the church. When it was built in the 1920s, this was considered a totally reasonable walking distance from the church. But no more, and it was sold in large part as the walking distance was too far, and my fellow church members looked at me as if I was insane for walking said quarter mile rather than moving my car there and trying to play with parking it in a somewhat complex manner. But on a lot of levels I actually do wonder if it's a nutritional thing or something, as I notice in myself terribly low energy and motivation in the states compared to overseas. I'm guessing it's fluoridated water, but hey.
