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I usually don't judge people, let alone Winston, but since Winston was publicly asking opinions on how he would have fared with young girls in "Europe", I simply reminded him that he wouldn't be a good fit for the kind of "globalised" European girl who has developed insane aesthetic standards for how a man should look and behave.
You are right to say that Europe, both West and East, has changed quite a bit since 2003/2005. Plus Winston was hinting at the idea of living in one of the European capitals, where he could have a cultural life and meet more interesting people. Unfortunately, capitals are usually where the more sophisticated and demanding young ladies are.
In terms of lasting friendships, of course he could find more than one woman willing to be friend with him, but he would have to build up to it. I don't know where you hail from but, in Italy and most of Europe, one has to build a social circle to gain the respect and trust of a few people, including the ladies. What Winston has in mind, to woo young hotties with his "charm" simply by approaching them casually on a street (the pathetic PUA method), simply won't work - he would leave him sorely disappointed and full of bitterness.
Another thing he completely ignored is how expensive most European large cities can be. If he wants the kind of smooth, vibrant lifestyle he seems to dream on, his passive income won't suffice. He will need to secure himself a Visa and a job. Else he will be left with the option of roaming around like a backpacker, feeding off occasional and very transient human interactions and never really building anything solid in the ways of a friendship, let alone a relationship.
No PD. I didn't ask everyone how I would fare with young girls in Europe. I simply asked where I should go to get the optimum happiness. Not just in terms of girls. But in terms of everything. You MISUNDERSTOOD me yet again.
Sure I may not be a good fit for a European girl with high standards. But why shoot for those? Why not go for freespirit types? Or for down to earth types? European girls are not all the same you know. Ask
@growup. She knows it's wrong to generalize all women the way you do PD. You ought to learn from that and retract it and apologize for it.
Btw, why you keep talking about "young girls"? I date women in their 30's too. And I date average looking girls too. I am not like Eurobrat. You seem to get people mixed up. I am not as picky as Eurobrat. I am far more down to earth.
Also, you never answered my question PD. If I don't like Philippines culture or Asian cultures, why should I continue to stay? Even if I find a girl, I don't like the culture or weather or the collective mentality there. Do you hear me?! HELLO?!
I told you, my soul feels much more at HOME in Europe. Many guys I know feel the same. Who are you to tell me that you know my soul better than me?
Where do you get that I want to live in a European capital? I NEVER said that! You keep putting words in my mouth! Or you are getting me mixed up with someone else. You and Rock are the ones who like living in big cities. Not me! I am a small town guy, like most white men are who are genuine and down to earth. Most white people do not like big cities.
Can you memorize the above data so I don't have to repeat them? Be like Data from Star Trek. He memorizes everything and doesn't have to be told the same thing hundreds of times like you do!
You seem to think that Europe is all like London. WTF? I never said I wanted to live in London. Europe is diverse. Haven't you ever been to Latvia or Lithuania? Those are quiet countries with low population and lots of open land.
I got a lot of savings and steady income. I can live anywhere, especially Eastern Europe. Why not admit that? Why do you keep poo hooing everything and imagining that I am poor like you and cannot afford anything? Stop lying about me asshole!
I don't need a visa if I want to live for three months. We can stay for three months on a tourist visa. Then after that, we leave for 3 months and can come back again. That's doable.
Btw, not all my interactions are transient. 1 out of 20 or 1 out of 30 of them do lead to lasting friendships or longer connections. Stop generalizing. Nothing is 100 percent! The law of averages doesn't agree with you! Stop being SOOOOOOOOOOO STUPID PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
It's clear you have an agenda and bias. No honest person talks like PD. He is miserable and trying to spread his misery. A truly happy person would not try to spread doom and gloom and hopelessness and try to put fear into me from pursuing my dreams. Only a miserable person does that. Only someone who is an agent of the dark side does that.
Do you see the situation now
@growup? The man is BSing and making warped claims and extreme claims that are absolutist. And he keeps portraying a false image of me. I never said I only wanted young hot girls, or to live in big capital cities, etc. See he's even putting words in my mouth that I never said. See what I mean? How can that be right or honest? He also claims to know me better than myself, despite the fact that we only met once briefly.
What do you think of that? Isn't that totally pompous and delusional and warped and toxic growup?