I lived with a Mexican family in Pomona, Ca for about 3 years and got close with the male owner of the home. He told me something close to what you wrote.ssjparris wrote:have2fly wrote:Who cares about richest or not? U.S. has tons of poverty! And it is definitely a part of "Capitalism" because without poor there will be no rich. Also poverty supplies the Army with fresh meat, who will go fight for nonsense cause if he is rich? no one. But this is OFF TOPIC.
On-Topic, I really like post by odbo! It is amazing and deep. That is exactly right - ASSIMILATE OR DIE in America! That was my experience. No one cares about you being different or me being an immigrant. "Do you have a lot of snow in Russia?" or "You probably drink vodka every day". That's all I get from Americans, I feel like some sort of gift brought from overseas, not a human being. "So when are you going back home?" That question f***ing kills me! I wish I could slap those people!
So outcome of this "assimilate or die" is that you have to become a bitchy arrogant narcissist person. Just as was described in odbo post. I changed myself as well because who needs a fun, kind, caring, sweet, romantic and open guy in America? NO ONE! SAAAAAAAAAAAAAADDDDDD!!!!! SO FREAKING SAD! I bet many truly decent girls that come here are quickly taken advantage of and change to be bitches too. But many also fall for entitlement quickly as they are being hit by hundreds of guys every day! Some ugly ass Russian chicks that NEVER being hit on before get laid in the U.S. the day they step off that airplane!
Also guys ARE VERY good looking in the U.S.! I guarantee it. I am looked upon as an extremely attractive guy on Russian dating websites, even if I don't list myself as being from the U.S. Girls wink and write me all the time! And what do I get on American dating sites? ZERO, big fat ZERO. Although those bitches go out with idiots, douchebags, losers, winers, tattoo-covered pigs drinking beer day and night... Wow! Great. Where is freaking morals? How come they don't understand how stupid they are???
As I wrote before in other topics, it is better to live abroad with your family. Pick Europe, it is as developed (if not more developed) than U.S., it will give you much more connected society (even Germany or Sweden will), it has great schools and education system, much better social protection - healthcare, pensions etc. Just think about it: you live a happy life with your Russian-Chinese-Mexican wife in the U.S. But what about YOUR CHILDREN? They are going to grow up in the STATES, in the society of loneliness and social segregation. Who you think your daughter will be? Your son? Do you want your children to grow up being the same senseless lonely persons you were? No, thank you.
Surely, not all women change completely upon arrival to the U.S. But you have to understand that a complete breakout of values, change in life understanding is going to continue for a few years. Many women will blame you! That is the worst! Because they would remember all Hollywood movies showing fun parties, expensive villas filled with rich people that enjoy a good time. Suddenly, even if you are rich, they will not understand this life of isolation, life without ever talking to your neighbors, life without true friends and meaningful conversations... She will think it's because you are a loser, but it's America! It's where people have fun, she just needs to find another man to enjoy it. In about 5 years she will understand how naive she was, but it will be too late for her to go back and too late for you to take her back as well, by that time she may become so bitchy and disenchanted in life - she will be ready to give up everything. I am not kidding - many immigrants are in the state of emotional collapse, especially those women that used to be kind and tender, their weak brain just can't handle such huge evil society pressuring her to become one of them! Borg mind?Exactly. However, not all of Russian women are sweet angels, there are many gold-diggers. When I see those gold-diggers being brought to the U.S., I just do facepalm.jpg. Why did you bring another bitchy gold-digger??? Those American men are retarded, what can I say. I am actually getting laid soon with one Russian girl, one of those gold-digging whores. Her husband is working overseas and is leaving in a week, he is paying for her house, 2 kids, her new car and she says he is dumb, so she wants to divorce him
Winston did talk about this emotional situation alot of foreign people have here in the states. it is really sad. i haven't experienced it alot from foreign people. they ALL say they like it her in the USA. i have noticed a change in them. they don't even realize the change.
for instance Mexican women are FANTASTIC inside there own country or fresh off the boat when they arrive in the states. BUT (and that is a big BUT) once they stay in the states for a few months they become unfriendly, racist, prejudice, give excuses when they are attracted to you. and see all men as predators in the USA.
i seriously see a HUGE change in them. this includes young asian women from all over asia, korea, japan. they become very defensive and create bitch shields and again the predator thing gets into their heads.
i have met the asians and mexican ladies that were fresh off the boat. have only been here for three weeks. WOW. what an open friendly kind gentle tenderness they have. a mexican lady let me sit right next to her. like touching alot actually. but in a friendly manner. so when i finally get money and passive money working for me. i am NOT coming back to america to live here at all.
thank you winston for the help. i genuinely appreciate it.
He said that Mexican girls from the countryside are the girls that you want to go after. He also said once those girls get to the states, they get fat from all the bad food (in Mexico they strictly eat unprocessed beans, lean meat, and lots of fruit and vegetables). And they get spoiled/F***up from American culture.
So as a result, this guy did not date any Mexican American women even though he easily could, he did try and date 2 different well off Asian women but found they were too crazy (as told to me) so he took himself out the dating market and uses massage parlors from time to time until he plans on retiring in Mexico.