marklambo wrote:
Here's a clip from the Montel Williams show talking about the "mail order bride" industry. We all know that there's no such thing as "mail order brides" since you're not actually "buying" the women but if you notice in the clips that all these feminists bitches keep claiming and assuming that those guys have "purchased" the women. They also automatically assume there are abusive and barbaric acts towards these foreign women that have been brought here by the guys. Total ignorance...
One of the women from the audience was saying how women have fought long and hard for their rights and how it's basically wrong for a man to go out there and try to find a woman abroad. You can really see the hatred in these ugly feminists . Notice how the old lady who's divorced asks why can't men on dating sites just look for women in other states.
This clip was interesting to watch but also irritating at the same time. American women just can't bear to see men in America happy.
I don't remember getting any flack for having married an Indonesian woman. But I could see how a woman who wants to get married and hasn't gotten dates or proposals, and sees a movement toward men going abroad to find wives wouldn't like it. That's threatening to them. I could see that. I can also see how a woman who buys into feminism and is happy that society is now set up to promote feminism would be upset that many men want no part of feminism and avoid it by getting wives from abroad.
But if you are a feminist, you get upset at men over stupid stuff. It's what you do.
It does irritate me to to see that when a man marries a foreign woman he met online, she gets labeled a 'mail order bride.' Why isn't he called a 'mail order husband'? I really don't think you could find a website that says, "Click here to order wife. Order now and you get a 50% discount." Some feminists think if you don't believe in their philosophy and you don't want to marry a feminist, then you must be abusive toward women.
I've seen that show 90-Day fiance, and it irritates me when people think the women or men who want to marry must want greencards. It makes more sense when they are talking about some young attractive foreigner wanting to marry an older lesser attractive American. But it doesn't make sense when they are both young and good-looking. And why would women who marry richer older men necessarily want a Green Card and not just to live off of a well-to-do spouse? Do they want to go to the US to get a job and work when they can go to the US not get a job and not work? Plenty of people do want to come work in the US, but most people in the world probably aren't dying to do so.