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This is something I wanted to share with you guys. Maybe a lot of you feel the same way.

Besides all the problems we talk about that AW have I've always felt that they're just not a good fit for me.

Here are the reasons why:

1. I don't have a typical American mindset; we're the greatest, every other country is a hellhole, etc.

2. I don't watch TV. I hate it with a passion. If I do watch it I watch Telemundo, France 24, NHK, or House Hunters International and it's seldom that I do that.

3. I don't vote and I'm not patriotic.

4. I don't listen to mainstream American pop music.

5. I enjoy listening to music from other cultures and electronic/ambient/lounge music.

6. I'm intellectually curious. While there are AW who are as well, I believe, the number is rather small.

7. I'm not into watching sports. It's insanely boring and I get no mental stimulation out of it.

8. I'm not a drinker. I like wine but no beer or hard liquor. I guess this is not manly to the average American broad.

9. I have nothing to do with American culture. I feel like a foreigner in the country I was born in.

10. I'm passionate about travel and learning about other parts of the world.

From this list could I have a successful relationship with an American broad even if she were the ideal woman I'm looking for? I don't think so. The way of thinking is too different. You don't find too many American girls that think outside the box. The majority of them are too entangled with this poisonous culture.

Until now, the best conversations I've had have been with women from other cultures.

I'm just curious. Do any of you guys feel the same way?

OTB wrote:This is something I wanted to share with you guys. Maybe a lot of you feel the same way.

Besides all the problems we talk about that AW have I've always felt that they're just not a good fit for me.

Here are the reasons why:

1. I don't have a typical American mindset; we're the greatest, every other country is a hellhole, etc.

2. I don't watch TV. I hate it with a passion. If I do watch it I watch Telemundo, France 24, NHK, or House Hunters International and it's seldom that I do that.

3. I don't vote and I'm not patriotic.

4. I don't listen to mainstream American pop music.

5. I enjoy listening to music from other cultures and electronic/ambient/lounge music.

6. I'm intellectually curious. While there are AW who are as well, I believe, the number is rather small.

7. I'm not into watching sports. It's insanely boring and I get no mental stimulation out of it.

8. I'm not a drinker. I like wine but no beer or hard liquor. I guess this is not manly to the average American broad.

9. I have nothing to do with American culture. I feel like a foreigner in the country I was born in.

10. I'm passionate about travel and learning about other parts of the world.

From this list could I have a successful relationship with an American broad even if she were the ideal woman I'm looking for? I don't think so. The way of thinking is too different. You don't find too many American girls that think outside the box. The majority of them are too entangled with this poisonous culture.

Until now, the best conversations I've had have been with women from other cultures.

I'm just curious. Do any of you guys feel the same way?

I have met hundreds of American women that think and act like you too. Just do not expect them to do the typical things men here want like have very long hair, white legs (whatever the f**k that means), cook for her husband everyday, put out everyday, have children, stay at home barefooted and sexy, usurp financial control to the husband, want equal sharing on household decisions, etc.....

OTB wrote:This is something I wanted to share with you guys. Maybe a lot of you feel the same way.

Besides all the problems we talk about that AW have I've always felt that they're just not a good fit for me.

Here are the reasons why:

1. I don't have a typical American mindset; we're the greatest, every other country is a hellhole, etc.

2. I don't watch TV. I hate it with a passion. If I do watch it I watch Telemundo, France 24, NHK, or House Hunters International and it's seldom that I do that.

3. I don't vote and I'm not patriotic.

4. I don't listen to mainstream American pop music.

5. I enjoy listening to music from other cultures and electronic/ambient/lounge music.

6. I'm intellectually curious. While there are AW who are as well, I believe, the number is rather small.

7. I'm not into watching sports. It's insanely boring and I get no mental stimulation out of it.

8. I'm not a drinker. I like wine but no beer or hard liquor. I guess this is not manly to the average American broad.

9. I have nothing to do with American culture. I feel like a foreigner in the country I was born in.

10. I'm passionate about travel and learning about other parts of the world.

From this list could I have a successful relationship with an American broad even if she were the ideal woman I'm looking for? I don't think so. The way of thinking is too different. You don't find too many American girls that think outside the box. The majority of them are too entangled with this poisonous culture.

Until now, the best conversations I've had have been with women from other cultures.

I'm just curious. Do any of you guys feel the same way?

Except for the TV and wine part, I am the same. I dont have an interest in most TVshows, just a few. The only sport which I will watch on TV is cycling, and only one event: Le Tour De France. In particular, I think football is an idiotic sport. Baseball is tolerable yet very slow. I'm not Patriotic for whatever reason. I like to travel.

I also prefer women who are thin, arent flaky, arent confrontational, and accept me as the person I am. With an AW, for the most part, you will find that she will always challenge you on your beliefs and opinions. I dont think it is intentional. I think it is just they are trained by society to try to put men down whenever they can. So even if she actually does agree with you (as much as their brains can hold on to a single belief), they will challenge you on it just because it will create drama. I never experienced anything like that in Europe.

Most AW are also always looking for a reason to flake on you. There is always some reason why as a man you arent good enough for her. Even after months of her trying to get your attention and flirting from afar, after you start to make moves and try to get close, the flaws she was aware of in your personality which were fine before all of a sudden become dealbreakers. As if they never had any clue. But if they can't find a flaw, they will invent one. I think this comes from an intense sense of insecurity, neuroses, and deep down self loathing that makes them want to sabotage anything that would be good for them.

OTB wrote:This is something I wanted to share with you guys. Maybe a lot of you feel the same way.

Besides all the problems we talk about that AW have I've always felt that they're just not a good fit for me.

Here are the reasons why:

1. I don't have a typical American mindset; we're the greatest, every other country is a hellhole, etc.

I agree. I'm not American in any way. I have more of a European viewpoint. I'm monarchist, a traditionalist, and I do not like America. I think that America isn't the best and that it isn't even in the top 30 countries. Every time I hear someone say America is the greatest or the best I get a little irritated.

OTB wrote:2. I don't watch TV. I hate it with a passion. If I do watch it I watch Telemundo, France 24, NHK, or House Hunters International and it's seldom that I do that.

I hardly watch television, I would rather watch in online. I hate the majority of crime shows because it's nothing but meaningless violence, feminists portraying men as bad, glorification of crime, and a snapshot of the overall toxic American society. The number of reality television shows keeps increasing and I hate reality tv.

OTB wrote:3. I don't vote and I'm not patriotic.

I vote even though my votes are meaningless because I don't vote for the two-party dictatorship. I have no patriotism, no allegiance, and no loyalty to America. I have allegiance to myself and loyalty only to myself. I will not be loyalty to a country that is corrupt, toxic, is a police state, a tyranny, and doesn't do anything to help it's people.

OTB wrote:4. I don't listen to mainstream American pop music.

I don't like the majority of mainstream American music. It's mostly about sex, violence, breakups, one night stands, feminism, is mass produced, and fits a general message. The majority of mainstream music has subliminal messages and is the music the thought police want people to hear. The majority of my music isn't widely popular or it's international from outside the Anglosphere.

OTB wrote:5. I enjoy listening to music from other cultures and electronic/ambient/lounge music.

I'm very similar.

OTB wrote:6. I'm intellectually curious. While there are AW who are as well, I believe, the number is rather small.

I also like reading about nonfiction. The majority of AW like to talk about their one night stands, creeps, partying, sex, drama, or completely frivolous things. A majority don't actually talk anymore but are always on their phones texting or sexting.

OTB wrote:7. I'm not into watching sports. It's insanely boring and I get no mental stimulation out of it.

I'm also not into sports. I also get very bored and no mental stimulation. It doesn't hold my attention at all.

OTB wrote:8. I'm not a drinker. I like wine but no beer or hard liquor. I guess this is not manly to the average American broad.

I don't drink that often and I don't want to date a girl that drinks more than I do. Most American/Anglo girls are binge drinkers.

OTB wrote:9. I have nothing to do with American culture. I feel like a foreigner in the country I was born in.

I also have nothing to do with American culture. I hate American culture. I also feel like a foreigner in the country I was born in. I don't belong in America and all my life I never had friends, a girlfriend, and very few people ever showed a genuine interest in getting to know me. I hate living in America more than words can describe and I can't wait until I relocate abroad.

OTB wrote:10. I'm passionate about travel and learning about other parts of the world.

I'm also interested in travel and like learning about other parts of the world. I would like to move abroad to Eastern Europe assuming I marry a girl from that region.

OTB wrote:From this list could I have a successful relationship with an American broad even if she were the ideal woman I'm looking for? I don't think so. The way of thinking is too different. You don't find too many American girls that think outside the box. The majority of them are too entangled with this poisonous culture.

Until now, the best conversations I've had have been with women from other cultures.

I'm just curious. Do any of you guys feel the same way?

I agree and feel the same way. I doubt I could be in a relationship with an American girl even if she was my ideal type. Most American women are part of the poisonous culture and even if they meet most other criteria, they will either have patriotism or a love of the American pop culture which is a turnoff for me. I can't be in a relationship with someone obsessed and totally loves America because I don't love America. I also wouldn't want to deal with the girl's American family because many Americans try to sabotage relationships, cause problems, or are patriotic. Foreign girls wouldn't have any or too much interest in America and their families will have greater cultures and appreciate a good man who marries their daughter. I can only date foreign girls.

OTB wrote:This is something I wanted to share with you guys. Maybe a lot of you feel the same way.

Besides all the problems we talk about that AW have I've always felt that they're just not a good fit for me.

Here are the reasons why:

1. I don't have a typical American mindset; we're the greatest, every other country is a hellhole, etc.

2. I don't watch TV. I hate it with a passion. If I do watch it I watch Telemundo, France 24, NHK, or House Hunters International and it's seldom that I do that.

3. I don't vote and I'm not patriotic.

4. I don't listen to mainstream American pop music.

5. I enjoy listening to music from other cultures and electronic/ambient/lounge music.

6. I'm intellectually curious. While there are AW who are as well, I believe, the number is rather small.

7. I'm not into watching sports. It's insanely boring and I get no mental stimulation out of it.

8. I'm not a drinker. I like wine but no beer or hard liquor. I guess this is not manly to the average American broad.

9. I have nothing to do with American culture. I feel like a foreigner in the country I was born in.

10. I'm passionate about travel and learning about other parts of the world.

From this list could I have a successful relationship with an American broad even if she were the ideal woman I'm looking for? I don't think so. The way of thinking is too different. You don't find too many American girls that think outside the box. The majority of them are too entangled with this poisonous culture.

Until now, the best conversations I've had have been with women from other cultures.

I'm just curious. Do any of you guys feel the same way?

When I read that list, it was like reading about myself lol. But for the tv part, I don't watch much either but once in a while I will. But I'm definitely not a couch potato. There are so many useless tv shows. I've considered to cut off my cable tv because it's a waste. I have hundreds of channels to choose from, yet there is never anything worth watching. All there is out there are stupid reality shows. I can't stand them. So lame.

I also hate mainstream music. I don't ever listen to the radio and this is no lie but I don't even know the radio stations here in my city, with the exception of one, which is an electronic dance music station. American culture is crap and as far as having a relationship with a woman with similar traits....it's extremely tough to find them but some do exist. It just isn't enough to bank on. Forget women here man, start looking abroad. You'll increase your chances of success dramatically.

OTB wrote:This is something I wanted to share with you guys. Maybe a lot of you feel the same way.

Besides all the problems we talk about that AW have I've always felt that they're just not a good fit for me.

Here are the reasons why:

1. I don't have a typical American mindset; we're the greatest, every other country is a hellhole, etc.

2. I don't watch TV. I hate it with a passion. If I do watch it I watch Telemundo, France 24, NHK, or House Hunters International and it's seldom that I do that.

3. I don't vote and I'm not patriotic.

4. I don't listen to mainstream American pop music.

5. I enjoy listening to music from other cultures and electronic/ambient/lounge music.

6. I'm intellectually curious. While there are AW who are as well, I believe, the number is rather small.

7. I'm not into watching sports. It's insanely boring and I get no mental stimulation out of it.

8. I'm not a drinker. I like wine but no beer or hard liquor. I guess this is not manly to the average American broad.

9. I have nothing to do with American culture. I feel like a foreigner in the country I was born in.

10. I'm passionate about travel and learning about other parts of the world.

From this list could I have a successful relationship with an American broad even if she were the ideal woman I'm looking for? I don't think so. The way of thinking is too different. You don't find too many American girls that think outside the box. The majority of them are too entangled with this poisonous culture.

Until now, the best conversations I've had have been with women from other cultures.

I'm just curious. Do any of you guys feel the same way?

Describes me almost perfectly, just substitute Canada for the USA. The "cultures" are almost the same anyways.

OTB wrote:This is something I wanted to share with you guys. Maybe a lot of you feel the same way.

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I'm just curious. Do any of you guys feel the same way?

With this list, enjoy your freedom while you can.
Mid-30s or so, you'll go from hunter to hunted and women will begin to feign a keen interest in your formerly "dull" habits.
That background noise you will hear happens to be the theme from "Jaws".
Some of the things a female will do to get your swimmers (and cash) would shock/disgust you and the courts will uphold it.
Search engine: stolen sperm

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Ghost wrote:I haven't been attracted to an AW in over 2 years and I'm happy about that. Even "attractive" ones have no appeal ultimately and almost always are f***ed in the head, massive sluts, landwhales, mentally ill, single moms, tattooed all up and down their backsides, etc.

I avoid American women like the plague and I see a lot of women in the US who look like the woman pictured below.

OTB wrote:This is something I wanted to share with you guys. Maybe a lot of you feel the same way.

Besides all the problems we talk about that AW have I've always felt that they're just not a good fit for me.

Here are the reasons why:

1. I don't have a typical American mindset; we're the greatest, every other country is a hellhole, etc.

2. I don't watch TV. I hate it with a passion. If I do watch it I watch Telemundo, France 24, NHK, or House Hunters International and it's seldom that I do that.

3. I don't vote and I'm not patriotic.

4. I don't listen to mainstream American pop music.

5. I enjoy listening to music from other cultures and electronic/ambient/lounge music.

6. I'm intellectually curious. While there are AW who are as well, I believe, the number is rather small.

7. I'm not into watching sports. It's insanely boring and I get no mental stimulation out of it.

8. I'm not a drinker. I like wine but no beer or hard liquor. I guess this is not manly to the average American broad.

9. I have nothing to do with American culture. I feel like a foreigner in the country I was born in.

10. I'm passionate about travel and learning about other parts of the world.

From this list could I have a successful relationship with an American broad even if she were the ideal woman I'm looking for? I don't think so. The way of thinking is too different. You don't find too many American girls that think outside the box. The majority of them are too entangled with this poisonous culture.

Until now, the best conversations I've had have been with women from other cultures.

I'm just curious. Do any of you guys feel the same way?

Seems like you and I were separated at birth. I feel exactly as you do on all counts!

Author wrote:1. I don't have a typical American mindset; we're the greatest, every other country is a hellhole, etc.

As per my observation, more and more Americans think of their country as inferior and undercivilized. This is something I've started noticing within the past five years. In a way it's enouraging that we realize that we're not necessarily the best by definition. But in a way it's disappointing because it means something is not right that makes people change their mind so radically.

Author wrote:2. I don't watch TV. I hate it with a passion. If I do watch it I watch Telemundo, France 24, NHK, or House Hunters International and it's seldom that I do that.

Same with me. But it's because I'm rather used to Russian environment, so I keep living "in" that environment remotely, via Russian television.

Author wrote:3. I don't vote and I'm not patriotic.

This is not good. Until you move abroad (if you decide to do so), it's in your best interests to make your voice heard, and voting is a way to do so. Perhaps that's where our troubles come from - not caring about making their voice heard. Hence a result: a corporate-run media promoting tasteless 'culture' to people who don't care. Is that what you admire? I don't think so.

Author wrote:4. I don't listen to mainstream American pop music.

Neither do I. Well, sometimes I force myself to listen to KTU while driving, but I don't get as much enjoyment from it as I do from Russian pop culture, maybe also Israeli one. The old Ameriacn stuff, like Sinatra or Presley, are worthwhile. But presently I don't her many attractive things among the new hits (with some very rare exceptions). Russian pop culture has managed to preserve itself in a much better shape.

Author wrote:5. I enjoy listening to music from other cultures and electronic/ambient/lounge music.

Ah, for me not really... Only the cultures I have some affinity to, such as Israeli. Or Russia's neighboring ex-Soviet Slavic cultures, such as Urkainian or Belarusian (that's where I come from). While I enjoy lisening to older French stuff, especially Joe Dassin. But this is more like classics already; besides (Dassin happens to be American as well). But I'm not really interested in modern foreign cultures at all. Unless I find something specific which I enjoy.

Author wrote:6. I'm intellectually curious. While there are AW who are as well, I believe, the number is rather small.

So, why don't you concentrate on looking for them, rather than running away to the uncertain?

Author wrote:7. I'm not into watching sports. It's insanely boring and I get no mental stimulation out of it.

Who said other cultures don't enjoy sports? Perhaps they prefer different kinds of sports, e.g. soccer rather than American football, but, generally speaking, craziness about sports is not unique for Americans. With all that, I'm not a sports fan either.

[qutoe="Author"]8. I'm not a drinker. I like wine but no beer or hard liquor. I guess this is not manly to the average American broad.
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If you acquaint yourself with Russians, you would discover for yourself that American's "drinking" is rather a big joke. I'm not a drinker either; and, ironically, this alienates me from my native culture more than from American culture.

Author wrote:9. I have nothing to do with American culture. I feel like a foreigner in the country I was born in.

Is there any underlying reason for that? Other than degradation of the modern-day American culture, do you have similar distaste to American mentality of previous generations?

Author wrote:10. I'm passionate about travel and learning about other parts of the world.

And who said Americans don't travel? Learning about other parts of the world won't prevent you from being a foreigner in those parts of the world.

Author wrote:From this list could I have a successful relationship with an American broad even if she were the ideal woman I'm looking for? I don't think so.

You've got to decide on your priorities. Years ago, perfect Russian was one of the most important requirement I would expect from any female who would get in a relationship with me. Now, however, I realize that as long as I want to build a relationship locally where I live (rather than importing a bride from the FSU), I should rearrange my priorities. While having some Russian background is still important to me, including some solid knowledge of the language, I don't expect that knowledge to be on the exceptionally high level (although I won't mind that, of course, other conditions being equal). So, think for yourself what you want the most. If you hate American culture so much that you don't care about cultural/language incompatibility with foreign women, by all means go for it. But if you do, it shouldn't be because Winston Wu wants you to. Only if you sincerely believe that this is your way. Which may or may not be the case. Perhaps you're much better off doing some research on where and how to get through to those rare type of American women who are as intelligent as you are.

Like I posted in another post women are realizing feminism sold them a bad bill of goods that has no future long term, I read somewhere in a recent pole 84 or so % of women want to be stay at home moms.

Most of the women I speak with today are saying it's time to get back to our root's which is our family tree's. A lot of people are starting to figure out the nanny state is just a bunch of lieing bullcrap that has completely debased out civilization on many fronts.

The biggest problem facing all of us coming up in relationships now and of the future are environmental, take if you ever want a real relationship that grows with children the #'s ecologically are frightening to say the least for future generations.

With the way the world is today it might just be better to be a shallow soul and screw them, leave them, because trying to build a long term relationship no matter where you go may have no real future.

I don't want to sound negative but if things continue unabated there is not going to be nowhere near 7 billion of us here at the end of this century.

I figured most of you would feel the same way. Some of you even felt it was like reading about yourself. So you completely understand where I'm coming from.

@Adama

With an AW, for the most part, you will find that she will always challenge you on your beliefs and opinions.

Yeeess! You said it Adama. This is one thing that irritates me immensely about AW. I know from experience. Especially the ones who feel empowered by their degrees and career. They like to challenge you to see how smart you are , to see if you'll hold your ground, or to find your weaknesses. Just a game to find something that'll make them feel superior to you.

@skeptic

3. I don't vote and I'm not patriotic.


This is not good. Until you move abroad (if you decide to do so), it's in your best interests to make your voice heard, and voting is a way to do so. Perhaps that's where our troubles come from - not caring about making their voice heard. Hence a result: a corporate-run media promoting tasteless 'culture' to people who don't care. Is that what you admire? I don't think so.

Most people say this. How it's so important to vote. Like Tsar said, your vote doesn't count. It's an illusion that has been sold to the masses. There are other reasons why I don't vote. But in a nutshell, I feel it's not necessary....for me.

OTB wrote:I figured most of you would feel the same way. Some of you even felt it was like reading about yourself. So you completely understand where I'm coming from.

@Adama

With an AW, for the most part, you will find that she will always challenge you on your beliefs and opinions.

Yeeess! You said it Adama. This is one thing that irritates me immensely about AW. I know from experience. Especially the ones who feel empowered by their degrees and career. They like to challenge you to see how smart you are , to see if you'll hold your ground, or to find your weaknesses. Just a game to find something that'll make them feel superior to you.

They'll never miss an opportunity to put a man down. You may come to find out weeks or months later that the she actually shares (as much as women can have values) the same opinion on the matter she attempted to chastise you about.

It isnt even about the topic. It is about being right and putting a man down. Anglophone women are truly sad, pathetic creatures. I include women who are foreign and settled in Anglophone countries with that. Some of them may sweet, but many others adopt that bitch attitude quickly, especially if they are unattractive. That pent up anger they have over their perceived lack of sexual power is finally allowed to be unleashed once they reach the shores of female supremacy.