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Before jumping to a conclusion and blaming the individual , not the society or women, I ask you to be an open minded person and think of the big picture and criticize the game, not just the players.


Tonight I went to a new year adult party. And boy, I was disappointed. I was probably the best looking guy in the party, not bragging but a fact. I'm tall, dark, and handsome. And the gender ratio was about 50/50. Despite all of the above, I couldn't get an average looking woman's attention. All of them were unapproachable. Nothing goes beyond friendly hello. Believe it or not, some of them didn't even say hello back.

What f***ing bunch of bitches. Even the ugly ones rejected my advances.


I'm tired of my therapist , friends, dating coaches, and people online keep asking me to change my views, my attitude, my approaches, my social skills etc . . . They want me to change to what AW want me to be. You can't be yourself and be accepted. That's now screwed up the dating scene in the US. It is all about what women want.

Here's a logical question: why would an attractive guy get rejected by most of women in social events ? If he's got all what they want.

The answer : is because women have way too many options.

Maybe you are not as attractive as you say you are.

Also, maybe they just don't want you. It is their choice. Deal with it.

Keep doing what you are doing and you will find your match. Many guys on here become bitter and women sense it and reject you, even if they may be interested in giving you a chance.

I'm sorry to hear of your misfortune during this holiday season, I know its difficult.

Most American women are not really interested in doing anything that's important, don't take it personally. That includes finding a husband and having kids. Unless of course their pissed out of their minds and then they might treat you differently. The main problem is American are so narcissistic they can never love anyone except themselves.

Perhaps the problem is your views and your attitude. Maybe you should change your approach, and learn some useful social skills.

Arabian_prince wrote:Before jumping to a conclusion and blaming the individual , not the society or women, I ask you to be an open minded person and think of the big picture and criticize the game, not just the players.


Tonight I went to a new year adult party. And boy, I was disappointed. I was probably the best looking guy in the party, not bragging but a fact. I'm tall, dark, and handsome. And the gender ratio was about 50/50. Despite all of the above, I couldn't get an average looking woman's attention. All of them were unapproachable. Nothing goes beyond friendly hello. Believe it or not, some of them didn't even say hello back.

What f***ing bunch of bitches. Even the ugly ones rejected my advances.


I'm tired of my therapist , friends, dating coaches, and people online keep asking me to change my views, my attitude, my approaches, my social skills etc . . . They want me to change to what AW want me to be. You can't be yourself and be accepted. That's now screwed up the dating scene in the US. It is all about what women want.

Here's a logical question: why would an attractive guy get rejected by most of women in social events ? If he's got all what they want.

The answer : is because women have way too many options.

You're crazy. I'm short with an above average looking face. I went to a club tonight in the US and made some approaches. I had some very cute girls into me, but I couldn't hold it because I went out with friends earlier in the night and got way too drunk.

As I said before, the US is not a difficult place to attract women. It IS a difficult place to find a quality woman though.

I haven't dated an AW in 7 years, loving and living life... save up some travel money and check out how the other 6.7 billion people live my friend.

loops77 wrote:Maybe you are not as attractive as you say you are.

Also, maybe they just don't want you. It is their choice. Deal with it.

Keep doing what you are doing and you will find your match. Many guys on here become bitter and women sense it and reject you, even if they may be interested in giving you a chance.

Wow, what a supportive person (NOT). Are you a PUA troll?

Dude, looks alone won't get you American women.

Status and money trumps looks in America.

Though being good looking doesn't hurt.

Looks go further overseas where you will have more social value.

Well, I noticed American women have changed alot in the last 7 or 8 years, of course, for the worse, as usual, he? I used to feel like I couldn't beat AW off with a stick, though none were into relationships at all, most just wanted attention from me and some wanted sex. But now, hell, AW ignore every man, including me too! I'm still a big hit with FW though, so I know its not me. To the poster, I don't doubt you at all man. I have been observing this for some time now. Believe me, there was a time, even in America, when women were all over me. And since about 2007 and onward, its like they just have no real drive anymore.

PS. To the respondents to this poster telling him he's crazy, well this just shows Americans to be the nut cases they really have become. What a bunch of feminist we have here... America really is down the shit hole...