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I found the situation of the OP interesting as it seems to be the opposite of what should end up happening - sexually frustrated Chinamen going after African women (i.e., as in real African, not African-American).

Here are a series of video clips from interviews with Chinese girls who are asked if they would date a foreigner and what advice they have for foreign men who want to date a Chinese girl.

[youtube]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yiS5E9r6_Rk[/youtube]

Chinese women are not picky about looks.

More than one Chinese girl has told me "I will not be with a man that's too handsome", because they apparently wouldn't be able to handle all the attention he gets.

CannedHam wrote:

Chinese women are not picky about looks.

More than one Chinese girl has told me "I will not be with a man that's too handsome", because they apparently wouldn't be able to handle all the attention he gets.

This can sometimes really be a double edged sword, but not just in the sense that CannedHam brought up. Rather if [x group] they're only into rapport and familiarity, or some other random requirement, it can be harder for you to get your foot in the door, if you're not a fixture in specific settings.
In some places I've seen the hottest chicks with hideous twerps, but you find yourself out of that action because you're not part of a school or some favorable workplace.

Devil Dog wrote: ↑

February 18th, 2015, 9:12 pm

newlifeinphilippines wrote:I think hes probably right about chinese women from what ive heard about the women from a sex point of view, etc. Its the exact reason why i stay clear of even thinking of china AND vietnam (cause both are culturally the same). Even cambodians are probably closer to chinese thinking than phil so ive crossed them off (plus lots of mongers from thailand go there and the country sucks anyways).

Here is the problem with HA, good posters like Kai are ridiculed and run off for having opinions while "experts" like newlifephilippines machinegun post daily opinions how they "think" it "probably" is based upon "what I've heard".

nlp has not contributed as much real information in his 2100+ posts as Kai contributed in his first posts of this thread. But that is what HA has become, mostly just static thrown out by underachievers.

Some other dating guides to mainland Chinese women, though nowhere as good as Kai's.

Foreign men share tips on how to woo young women in China
http://www.globaltimes.cn/content/974401.shtml

Dating in China in 2020: The Good, the Bad, and the Ugly – Part I
https://ltl-school.com/chinese-dating/