You're talking out of your ass. In your mind, something is a fact if you believe it and state it as such. You have virtually no direct experience approaching women in Taipei. All u know is what third parties tell u. Believe what you want. But you're hardly qualified to speak with certainty as some kind of authority. You're like a professor who teaches business but has never even run a lemonade stand.Winston wrote:Repatriate,
I could use your logic and apply it to America too, and say: "Only nerds and losers think AW are unapproachable. Cool hip people have no trouble meeting and dating AW." But so what? It doesn't change the fact that they aren't that approachable, as we all agree here. You are arguing with no substance. The fact is, the guys here do not like the superficialities required to break into cliques. That's why we go abroad.
We all know that to have a social life in the US, you have to break into closed social cliques. It's the same in Taiwan. That dynamic in TW is the same as in the US. But the bottom line is that women aren't very approachable in either country. That's the basic fact. I never said that no one can get dates in TW. Neither have I ever said that no one can get dates in the US. So what are we arguing about? Are you being subjective in defending your ethnic TW national pride? I sense you have a bias here and are not totally neutral on this issue.
Did I meet my dates, physical encounters, and gfs through cliques? No, not many of them. I scored more than half on cold approaches. Same goes for many of my friends. How many cliques were we members of when we went to Taichung. If what you say is a fact, how were we able to pull that off? Do u have amnesia? Re-read those threads and look at the photos. Also, re-read my thread on approaching Taiwan girls. There are other posters who've had some success w/out cliques and another one who PMed me recently.
Yes Taiwanese and some foreigners will tell u about how closed and un-approachable Taiwanese are. But if you just closed your ears, got out of your parent's basement, went out w/out chaperons, and hit some spots in Kaoshiung, Taichung, and Taipei, perhaps you would observe a different dynamic. Today's club scene in Taipei is full of pick-ups and easy sex. During the daytime, more decent types can be found if you search and knock on doors. Who does this apply too? Many average and better Joe westerners up to 35 or so for one. It's also great for many ABCs and certain types of local guys.
If you find yourself out of the loop, just face the fact that for whatever reasons, most Taiwan girls just don't dig u Winston. So they treat u like shit when u approach them. U look like some pervy wanker to them, lol. No biggie though cus you're getting great attention from their mainland sisters. HA is about finding the right countries for your own case. Take off your subjective binoculars and realize that Taiwan may have great dating potential for certain guys who are not part of any cliques. The way u write about Taiwan reminds me of the way Lad writes about Thailand. You're both very extreme in your views which are shaped by emotionally charged personal failures. When considering the direct experiences of others, you discount those which contradict your own views and emphasize those which are in line. Get over yourself already and get your ass on the next plane to China.