Anonymous1 wrote:
by rating I mean all around would be seen as universally attractive...there are types out there who would be seen as pretty...even if they arent their type...usually women who are young...have money...and like to go out..would not be hanging out with creepy foreigner guys who think of themselves as PUA....I dont think many people understand this but there is a stigma against being with whore mongers..only hookers or hookers pretending to be normal hang around with people like E_Izziary....
actually korean guys sometimes do the pretend to be serious then dump after she gets pregnant thing....the thing is they are able to do it because there is no monger status with korean guys....actually from an insiders hint....korean guys are seen as perfect boyfriend/husband material by filipina women of all classes
as shown here
Im a filipino who has been around the Philippines....judging from what I see...I know what Im talking about
Btw for all those people pretending to have GAME while they are overseas...if you really have GAME then you wouldnt have any problem landing a decent girl in your homecountry
I dont think your friend who has access to the upperclass is telling the truth...I actually have family who are upperclass(meaning they make at least 300,000 USD a year, gated community, several maids, a driver) trust me I rarely see other foreigners unless its rich overseas friends they invite to the Philippines
I also have provincial family from the other side of my family
so I am knowledgable about both sides of that part of society....I dont have any poor family members in the city...in fact I very much dislike poor urban pinoys...I see them as different socially from me....they are the ones usually with mongers
1. Funny that Korean guys r not perceived as mongers, lol. Anyone who goes to Angeles City for a couple days would think otherwise, lol. Not only do they fill the clubs and KTVs, but some like to show-off by throwing crazy amounts of money at these gals. Second and even third tier cities all over Phils. tend to have special KTVs and hostess clubs geared to Koreans and Japanese. And some of the Asian guys who frequent such places end up marrying one of the hostesses. I personally know of examples down in Cagyan de Oro and in Cebu. The hostess type clubs may be more subtle but it's often P4P even tho some of the gals might not partake. Similarly, the mainstream mega bars in Angeles will have marked 'cherry girls' who also don't partake.
2. How much have u actually been around the Phils. Mr. Filipino? U seem intentionally vague about that and biased towards rural Visayas region. What makes it evident that u know what you are talking about? How much time have u spent on the ground in Phils and in what cities and/or areas? The rest of us who discuss Phils. are clear about this so come clean so we can better evaluate yr. claimed expertise.
3. I take issue with what u said about having GAME and going abroad. GAME is to some extent relative to environment. Why is it that in the USA I had no game but when I got to Taiwan, I soon felt like a very strong player? Why would even below average looking girls in US ignore me while plenty of much better looking Taiwan girls want to date me. Taiwan is not a poor country like Phils. Taiwanese gals don't generally date foreign guys for material reasons. Also, the girls there are on average much better looking than Pinoys and I would argue they are also better looking than typical American girls.
4. Last weekend, I visited the Angeles City Flying Club in Pampanga and also joined a friend who lives nearby for a feast at her house (birthday party). Her best friend and classmate who I also know and was there is just 18 but is an extremely classy and quite attractive. That girl was being courted by the son of CEO of one of the biggest mobile communication companies in the Phils. They live in a gated community next to Marquee Mall in Pampanga. But the girl's family has relatives in Australia and wants her instead to wait to 21, move to Australia after graduation, and date and marry a white Australian guy. Her family is certainly not upper class but her last suitor certainly was. He is still close to them and hangs in their group though.
Anyway, that girl is not into Korean guys nor is her family. Not every attractive Pinay wants to be with a Korean. Some don't find them to be rude and distant. These days, many of the better schools have a sizable percentage of Korean students. I've been told a few times that those K-students tend to keep to themselves and stay isolated from the Pinoy/ay students. A lot of locals who've been exposed to them don't really like them, their culture, or their food, even if they enjoy listening to K-Pop. Read what Lad, a local language speaking expat w/over 10 years on the ground in various parts of Phils says about the influence of American culture on this country. Of course I know Korean pop culture and guys are very much a fad these days, not just in Phils but in many countries. But not all girls are going to base or shape their dating/marriage choices on such fads, just a certain percentage.
5 The guy I mentioned is not my friend, just some anonymous poster here like u. Maybe he is lying, I wouldn't know. I brought him up cus he's just like u - another anonymous poster who claims to know what he's talking about; in his case based on having been in Phils. for a long time, in a special position, and with lots of higher level contacts, etc. Just like u, he's made claims and posted photos of third party Pinays. But not one regular here vouches for him just as nobody has vouched for you. His credibility is the same as yours - based only on what he claims as an anonymous newbie.
6. I do tend to agree with u that a lot of white guys here seem to go out with rather unattractive girls. But I also see Koreans and other Asians with bow wows too, just not as much or as blatantly as I do with white guys. However, in certain areas, I also see sometimes see whites and other foreign looking guys with very classy and attractive looking girls. The night I met Winston, I saw an Indian dude with a stunning NE Asian looking gal.
Some say that Phils, Cambodia, and even Indonesia tend to attract a subset of white guys who tend towards liking child like girls. Cus they often seem to choose tiny local gals who, partially because of their size, look more like children than adult girls. It's easy in all those countries to find available small local girls in the 18-21 yr. age bracket. But in west, u don't see white guys particularly favoring the smallest and most petite gals, only in SE Asia. Some kinda biased self selection at play methinks.
7. You should stop the condescending remarks about E_Izziary. He has a lot more cred here than you. Not all white guys fall into the monger slot. Some are well presented, very professional and/or fashionable looking, and young or youthful. Once in awhile, u might even see a pair of white Mormon missionaries here. I sure hope locals don't mistake them for mongers, lol!