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I was reading another forum...and I came upon this

it was talking about filipinas who married koreans...and it was mostly filipinas talking to each other

and this came up

im married to a korean too, and as far as i know , mostly filipina wives of koreans didnt marry the korean for money and to have a better life but they married theyre husbands because they love each other.

Anonymous1 wrote:certain countries

I was reading another forum...and I came upon this

it was talking about filipinas who married koreans...and it was mostly filipinas talking to each other

and this came up

im married to a korean too, and as far as i know , mostly filipina wives of koreans didnt marry the korean for money and to have a better life but they married theyre husbands because they love each other.

Let's not fool ourselves here. The vast majority of filipinas who go online to meet a foreign man are looking for a package deal. But make no mistake, part of that package is to get a better life. I'll use a baseball analogy. Don't think most filipinas are looking to walk up to the plate and hit a grand slam. Most are happy with a single or a double meaning they want a normal life with a nice guy they can fall in love with. It's a fair statement.

Sadly in Philippines, most girls would go up to the plate and strike out if stayed in Philippines because it's difficult to overcome poverty and get a good job (even if you are educated).

Anonymous1 wrote:certain countries

I was reading another forum...and I came upon this

it was talking about filipinas who married koreans...and it was mostly filipinas talking to each other

and this came up

im married to a korean too, and as far as i know , mostly filipina wives of koreans didnt marry the korean for money and to have a better life but they married theyre husbands because they love each other.

Let's not fool ourselves here. The vast majority of filipinas who go online to meet a foreign man are looking for a package deal. But make no mistake, part of that package is to get a better life. I'll use a baseball analogy. Don't think most filipinas are looking to walk up to the plate and hit a grand slam. Most are happy with a single or a double meaning they want a normal life with a nice guy they can fall in love with. It's a fair statement.

Sadly in Philippines, most girls would go up to the plate and strike out if stayed in Philippines because it's difficult to overcome poverty and get a good job (even if you are educated).

pete98146 wrote:

Anonymous1 wrote:certain countries

I was reading another forum...and I came upon this

it was talking about filipinas who married koreans...and it was mostly filipinas talking to each other

and this came up

im married to a korean too, and as far as i know , mostly filipina wives of koreans didnt marry the korean for money and to have a better life but they married theyre husbands because they love each other.

Let's not fool ourselves here. The vast majority of filipinas who go online to meet a foreign man are looking for a package deal. But make no mistake, part of that package is to get a better life. I'll use a baseball analogy. Don't think most filipinas are looking to walk up to the plate and hit a grand slam. Most are happy with a single or a double meaning they want a normal life with a nice guy they can fall in love with. It's a fair statement.

Sadly in Philippines, most girls would go up to the plate and strike out if stayed in Philippines because it's difficult to overcome poverty and get a good job (even if you are educated).

many filipinas married to koreans or japanese did not meet their husband online

Our survey results of ladies on our site suggest that most on our site are looking for a quality relationship with a normal, faithful, genuine, caring person. Money isn't the top priority. https://www.christianfilipina.com/forum ... hp?id=6019

Anyone who said you had to be careful of dating online are right on the mark. Of my meager results putting needless effort into dating sites, 90% of my convos eventually boiled down to asking for money. I tell them all that they didn't have anything to offer, as I didn't want sex[from most of them]. And they really don't.

Most if not all of those are from DIA, but I registered on Christianfilipina.com and got NO responses at all!

Money is ALWAYS an issue with foreign women, unless they're middle class or better. And then there's the tendency to say one thing and then do a 180.

DIA is a waste of space. Lived in China for 4 months, met 0 DIA ladies.

Be careful of who you chat to because I met some incredible Chinese women, but their life stories were tragic beyond belief.

Really it's best to avoid the ladies with complicated backstories.

Finally, when women start turning you down.... that's an EXCELLENT sign! It means you're chatting to the right kind of ladies. Never forget:

IF SHE'S SPECIAL, SHE WON'T BE EASY.

C.J. wrote:Anyone who said you had to be careful of dating online are right on the mark. Of my meager results putting needless effort into dating sites, 90% of my convos eventually boiled down to asking for money. I tell them all that they didn't have anything to offer, as I didn't want sex[from most of them]. And they really don't.

Most if not all of those are from DIA, but I registered on Christianfilipina.com and got NO responses at all!

Money is ALWAYS an issue with foreign women, unless they're middle class or better. And then there's the tendency to say one thing and then do a 180.

Hi CJ,

Can you please contact me with your user id# or email address, or contact our customer service directly? We have never heard of someone who got no responses at CF and I'd like to take a closer look to see what could be going on.

xiongmao wrote: Finally, when women start turning you down.... that's an EXCELLENT sign! It means you're chatting to the right kind of ladies. Never forget:

IF SHE'S SPECIAL, SHE WON'T BE EASY.

Bingo, very very good advice.