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I've realized that Filipinas that want white foreigners as husbands or boyfriends prefer ones that are only average looking. The reason for this is if they are too handsome, they will assume you've already been with a lot of girls, which they won't like of course. If you are average, they will be satisfied since you will be still be taller, whiter and richer than Filipino guys, so it will be enough for them. If you are only an average white dude, your height, eye color and features will still be considered much more attractive than the local guys. It will be plenty to give some desperate local Filipina the 2 most prized possession in the Philippines: A baby with a foreign father, and the free money that comes with it.

The other problem they want average white guys is Filipinas don't want to feel too ugly compared to the white guy they hooked up with. Since most Filipinas are not attractive, and have very low self confidence, a white guy that is too tall or good looking would be too much for them to handle unless, they themselves are very attractive, which is rare. The whole short, brown, and poor vs tall, white, and rich thing is too much for most Filipinas to handle, so they settle for some average white guy that couldn't get a girl back home to save his life.

If you are a better looking guy, you can score the better chicks, but many girls won't trust you because of your looks. Other girls will be so shy and not confident around you they will just say forget it, I can't meet you, sorry. I've experienced this a lot and it sucks.

You could always try to appear less handsome by your choice of clothes, hairstyle, grooming and appear less confident etc a little like movie stars do for a role. Always happy to help.

I agree with you. I had tons of Filipinas flirting with me everyday in Cebu even when my wife is with me. The last time I had a white woman flirt with me was 13 years ago. About half of Filipino guys leave their wives for younger women which is a huge problem for a single mom with kids in a third world country. Filipinas want a guy that doesn't drink, smoke, gamble and that won't run off on them. Also, most Filipinas want a guy under 6 feet tall. Tall white guys have long penises which is painful for them.

Tall white guys have long penises

Is that a scientific fact or their perception?

ryanx wrote:

Taco wrote: Tall white guys have long penises.[/quote?

Is that a scientific fact or their perception?

Tall guys in general have bigger equipment and Filipinas know that. Its ok as long as the Filipina is taller than average.

Taco wrote:

ryanx wrote:

Taco wrote: Tall white guys have long penises.[/quote?

Is that a scientific fact or their perception?

Tall guys in general have bigger equipment and Filipinas know that. Its ok as long as the Filipina is taller than average.

That very well may not be true. Compare a map of average penis length by country to one of average male height by country. For example, I think Mexico and Colombia are at or near the top on the first one but only fall in the lower half of the second.

Taco wrote:

ryanx wrote:

Taco wrote: Tall white guys have long penises.[/quote?

Is that a scientific fact or their perception?

Tall guys in general have bigger equipment and Filipinas know that. Its ok as long as the Filipina is taller than average.

Thanks goodness we have finally addressed the real reason some Filipinas prefer foreigners - "dako otin."

But back to poor Will N and his problem of being too handsome. I have 3 comments in no particular order of importance:

1. Pinoys cheat shamelessly, so Filipinas grow up assuming that most men (handsome or not, foreigner or not) also cheat.

2. Let's face it - a lot of foreigners do come to the Philippines to play and most of the girls know it. So her assuming you are a player is not indicative of your overwhelming handsomeness. She knows that a foreigner has access to lots of girls and assumes he takes advantage of that.

3. Since white skin and long noses are by definition the epitome of attractiveness in the Philippines, most guys who don't get much of a 2nd look in their home country, are considered handsome (or at least better than average) in the Philippines. She's not obsessing about the guy's 6'2" height or massive physique. She's obsessing about the white skinned/blue eyed babies she hopes he will give her.

MarcosZeitola wrote:Filipina's have such a long history of getting it on with foreigners of all heights, sizes and ethnicities that I really don't believe it's much of an issue in the large scheme of things.

Ironic that the youngest guy posting has the broadest historical point of view.

Well done!

Will N Dodd is just a narcissist bitch with white privilege reeking on him. If anything he really looks down on the girls his banging or wants to bang and if he gets resistance he blames it on something else.

Blue eyes and a pointy long nose and your instantly called smoking hot. Seems they like you more if your around 45 years old. They get too jealous, and very clingy also. That's a good problem to have. Be grateful

If you are average, they will be satisfied since you will be still be taller, whiter and richer than Filipino guys, so it will be enough for them. If you are only an average white dude, your height, eye color and features will still be considered much more attractive than the local guys.

I mentioned this in a rather softer fashion and get called out for being Eugenic and have a superiority complex. Pssshhh

Yet I see some agree.

Rock wrote:

Taco wrote:

ryanx wrote:

Taco wrote: Tall white guys have long penises.[/quote?

Is that a scientific fact or their perception?

Tall guys in general have bigger equipment and Filipinas know that. Its ok as long as the Filipina is taller than average.

That very well may not be true. Compare a map of average penis length by country to one of average male height by country. For example, I think Mexico and Colombia are at or near the top on the first one but only fall in the lower half of the second.

Yea I've never read anything where height was a factor in genital size. Majority of porn stars are of shorter stature anyways. Of course this lends to the abnormal effect and camera work though.

I have read a study where people with Index fingers that are shorter than ring fingers could be associated with larger members

Have you stopped looking yet?

Rock wrote:

Taco wrote:

ryanx wrote:

Taco wrote: Tall white guys have long penises.[/quote?

Is that a scientific fact or their perception?

Tall guys in general have bigger equipment and Filipinas know that. Its ok as long as the Filipina is taller than average.

That very well may not be true. Compare a map of average penis length by country to one of average male height by country. For example, I think Mexico and Colombia are at or near the top on the first one but only fall in the lower half of the second.

Penisology was not my major in college so I could be wrong. I'm just guessing the average NBA player is hung like a horse. Like former NBA player John Salley, 6'11' center for Detroit.

John Salley's Huge Penis
http://www.tmz.com/2013/10/15/john-sall ... ard-stern/

hammanta wrote:Have you stopped looking yet?

Hahaha

I'm a good-looking guy (even brutally honest American women tell me that) and indeed, most Pinays suspect that I'm some kind of playboy. But they're still willing to give me the benefit of the doubt. My good looks have helped me a lot more than they've hindered me. What matters most is showing them that you're a good man.