[Obituary] HA pioneer and long term poster just left us

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[Obituary] HA pioneer and long term poster just left us

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https://www.legacy.com/us/obituaries/la ... d=35284257

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For those who didn't know him IRL, this was @Jester.

As one of HA's most prolific posters, I know he engaged with practically everyone who has more than 4 years of history on this forum. I know a few of us met him in person, in the US, Mexico or here in the Philippines. I probably hold the longest stick as I welcomed him as my flatmate in Davao for almost a year.

He had a flamboyant personality, to say the least, but also legions of demons inside of him...like all of us poor b**tards, really.

With him, every conceivable nuance of a man's personality was dialled up to the extreme. He could act as your best friend, sharing his bottle of gin and his treasure chest of memories and folk wisdom one moment and then cuss you to the high skies, as if you had just gunned down all of his kids, right the next. His family legacy, his youth, his maturity, his family, every country he had visited, every person he had met...everything was a blessing and a curse, etched in his memory, like a map of an impossible land, and worth recounting on those long, gin-powered nights at the Davao condo.

He certainly had a crazy diamond shining over him. I would sometimes catch flashes and glimpses of his thousand contradictions, sometimes seeing my own reflected on his. We both knew we were two complicated men who wound up in the Philippines to heal, to be at peace with ourselves. We both learned that, for all its tropical sun, friendly girls and cheap booze, there was very little the Philippines could have done to keep our demons at bay.

Perhaps more honesty could have helped, both of us. More friendship and less stubbornness could have helped. But hey, here's to a man who probably didn't have a boring moment in his entire existence and, like any man who has decided to kick the bucket, leaves us down here, cherishing whatever moments we spent with him.

He will be missed. Someone up there please tell him that he forgot his frigging Pandora Box of contradictions here, with me. With all of us poor b**tards, really.

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Oh my gosh, I was afraid it would be Jester. Anyone looking at my post, please don't neglect to scroll up and read PD's stunningly eloquent obituary. Yes, Jester left an unforgettable impression, one of the posters who made this forum. When he was active, he was about as prolific as Winston if not more so, writing easily with great flair, complete candor and a wonderful sense of humor. We're talking about a very intelligent guy here -- graduated from Princeton at age 20. I think William Smith would have found a kindred soul.

I was afraid that one of my last exchanges with him had fed into his apparent tendency to extremism. He had made what I thought was a great joke, asking, on behalf of himself and other gentlemen of a certain age, about women who were said to have "daddy issues," and how one might discern those who did. I responded with what I thought was a joke, suggesting that he treat all of them as a daddy would, including appropriate spankings, and see who responded favorably. A couple years later I learn in a PM from PD that his Philippina companions were getting something a little more than parental-like spankings.

Wish I had met him in person and known him better. RIP Jester.
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The obvious question to ask on occasions like this is - did he take the deadly vaxx? Apparently in this case he did. He is said to have got jabbed under the misapprehension you needed to to get back to the US and was dead a few hours later. If true, this is an obvious lesson. This game is for keeps. One slip and you can die the sorry death of a common sheeple. Just don't f**k up.
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You say man who has decided to kick the bucket - is it he take own life

so sad so sorry jester go he one of true core and soul on forum and so wonderful wit real talk balancing put elogy

please tell truth on wht hapen and shutup cornfed
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"Cheap booze", "bottle of gin", "gin-powered nights"--there you go. Stay off the hootch, get properly vaccinated, exercise daily, don't get fat, otherwise pay attention to health if you don't want to fall into depression and die at age 64 (3 years older than me). I am curious about Jester's health and especially his sexual capabilities towards the end. He was always talking about wanting a young hottie. What a mess if he got a hotty recently and then couldn't get an erection even with viagra. All men over 40 should practice sexual kung fu, even more important than PAG's gut biome hocus pocus. I'm having sex every morning with my Ukrainian girlfriend here in Chisinau. 40 minutes penetration just a few hours ago, with dozens of valley orgasms for me, because she was a little tense and so took longer than usual to cum. Usually we go about 20 minutes, not counting foreplay. Naturally, I never drink, because alcohol is a disaster for men's sexual power according to Taoist teaching.

Like PAG, I am also curious as to the exact meaning of "DECIDED to kick the bucket".
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Spencer wrote:
June 21st, 2022, 1:18 am
You say man who has decided to kick the bucket - is it he take own life

so sad so sorry jester go he one of true core and soul on forum and so wonderful wit real talk balancing put elogy

please tell truth on wht hapen and shutup cornfed
Cornfed is passing along a report from Eurobrat, who apparently is in touch with a relative of Jester's. The relative said that Jester, who was strongly opposed to the covid jab, decided to return to the U.S. and mistakenly thought American citizens needed the jab to get into the country. He got one and 12 hours later died of a heart attack. Fairly high probability that the story is true, but if skeptical you can PM Eurobrat.

But not to worry all you jabees. In the U.S. we don't consider you "vaccinated" until the magic potion has been in you for two weeks. So clearly there was no connection between the two events. Remember your corporate media talking points -- correlation is not causation. No matter how many hundreds of thousands of correlations materialize.
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I was also aware of the (probable) cause of death. I purposely omitted it in the (feeble) hope that this thread would be about remembering the man, or at least the poster, rather than the "deadly" virus and its even deadlier "cure".
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The obituary doesn't say why he died. What's the official cause? Did the coroner say anything? What was his last update and why didn't he tell us he was having health problems?

Alex told me that many have died of heart attacks who got vaxxed. If you are healthy it may not affect you, but if you have a pre-existing heart condition, it may take you out. The government is covering it up of course and labeling the deaths from the vaccine as unvaxxed. I don't know how they could get away with that. Wouldn't everyone in the hospitals have to be in on that?

If Jester died from the vax, won't his family sue the vaccine makers? Isn't there a fund to pay out vaccine injuries?
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Shemp wrote:
June 21st, 2022, 3:39 am
"Cheap booze", "bottle of gin", "gin-powered nights"--there you go. Stay off the hootch, get properly vaccinated, exercise daily, don't get fat, otherwise pay attention to health if you don't want to fall into depression and die at age 64 (3 years older than me).
Well, that's a piece of irony, because it looks like his heart attack was likely a consequence of the jab. Took the jab, dead 12 hours later. I deliberately omitted that detail because I was hoping the conversation to be about him, rather than the evils of Covaxx.
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I am curious about Jester's health and especially his sexual capabilities towards the end. He was always talking about wanting a young hottie. What a mess if he got a hotty recently and then couldn't get an erection even with viagra. All men over 40 should practice sexual kung fu, even more important than PAG's gut biome hocus pocus. I'm having sex every morning with my Ukrainian girlfriend here in Chisinau. 40 minutes penetration just a few hours ago, with dozens of valley orgasms for me, because she was a little tense and so took longer than usual to cum. Usually we go about 20 minutes, not counting foreplay. Naturally, I never drink, because alcohol is a disaster for men's sexual power according to Taoist teaching.

Like PAG, I am also curious as to the exact meaning of "DECIDED to kick the bucket".
I met him one last time in Angeles City, back in 2020. He wasn't exactly decrepit, but he didn't look peak health, either. He never told me he had heart problems. For how open he was in giving away life details, he never shared anything to me about his health. I have to assume he was living the life of a 60-yo in the Philippines, no more, no less.

Good for you, that you can still have a "40 minutes penetration" with your Ukranian gf. Maybe steer away from those jabs :)
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publicduende wrote:
June 22nd, 2022, 11:34 pm
...he was living the life of a 60-yo in the Philippines,...
Yes, you did mention "cheap booze" and "gin-powered nights", though still no discussion of whether he finally got the young hotty he was always taking about wanting.
Good for you, that you can still have a "40 minutes penetration" with your Ukranian gf.
She was tense that morning. Today it was the usual 15 minutes penetration, plus 3 minutes foreplay. (I secretly time everything, using my music player app, as part of my continued sexual kung fu research.)
Maybe steer away from those jabs :)
My J&J booster was in January, but I'm looking forwards to many more shots in the future, new vaccinations for all sorts of diseases that currently plague humanity. Speaking of the future, it would be nice if you and Cornfed could arrange to have your obituaries (including cause of death) posted in the forum when you depart this earthly existence. I'm busy nowadays and only visit the forum occasionally, but it should be interesting to watch all the antivax conspiracy cranks drop off, one by one.
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Shemp wrote:
June 23rd, 2022, 5:34 am
My J&J booster was in January
Yeah that's the way to cope. If you are too cowardly to disobey the establishment you may as well pretend you are doing the right thing, even to the extent of taking a clot shot that the establishment themselves admits is too dangerous to take. In for a penny, in for a pound. I recommend vigorous high intensity training exercise. That should allow you to convince yourself there is nothing to worry about.
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Anyone getting tired of this guy talking about his multiple 'orgasms' with his paid prostitute on a thread dedicated to the life and passing of a forum member?

BTW don't think you are safe because you're in Moldova. That is next in line.
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Shemp wrote:
June 23rd, 2022, 5:34 am
Yes, you did mention "cheap booze" and "gin-powered nights", though still no discussion of whether he finally got the young hotty he was always taking about wanting.
That was when we were still living in Davao, as flatmates. If you really want to know - yes, he had a 19-yo cute girlfriend who was living with us. No need for sexual kung fu to score in Pinayland :-)
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June 23rd, 2022, 5:34 am
She was tense that morning. Today it was the usual 15 minutes penetration, plus 3 minutes foreplay. (I secretly time everything, using my music player app, as part of my continued sexual kung fu research.)
I have to agree with @Voyager1, it's a little bit creepy that you have to give us the precise data points of your sex life with your girl. Good for you, not that we care that much...
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June 23rd, 2022, 5:34 am
My J&J booster was in January, but I'm looking forwards to many more shots in the future, new vaccinations for all sorts of diseases that currently plague humanity. Speaking of the future, it would be nice if you and Cornfed could arrange to have your obituaries (including cause of death) posted in the forum when you depart this earthly existence. I'm busy nowadays and only visit the forum occasionally, but it should be interesting to watch all the antivax conspiracy cranks drop off, one by one.
I am no antivax nutter, I am simply steering away from things whose cost-benefit ratio I can't understand and are being pushed onto me by Big Guv. Case in point, the man this thread is dedicated to, died because of the vax, not because of Covid.
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publicduende wrote:
June 23rd, 2022, 8:16 am


I have to agree with @Voyager1, it's a little bit creepy that you have to give us the precise data points of your sex life with your girl. Good for you, not that we care that much...
Well, it's better than a few years back when he was providing masturbation instructions using a dildo to heighten his pleasure. Frank needs to get his head around the TMI concept. Knock yourself out with sexual athletics, Frisky Frank, but please don't share.
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gsjackson wrote:
June 23rd, 2022, 10:26 am
…but please don't share.
And you can keep your face cream and other beauty advice to yourself (though I don't think you've been talking about that recently, however I don't follow the forum carefully any more so can't be sure).
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