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Good video where they interview Japanese girls and ask them if they like western men.

I have seen this video before, it was taken in Tokyo/Osaka. In general Japanese people are not so discriminating as it is often claimed and in both large cities are now more women living than men. Not difficult to talk to them.

However in smaller cities and rural areas there are only few Japanese young females living. It is not really so easy to find a reasonable Japanese woman for a long-term relationship anyway if you do not consider to continue to live in Japan and/or if you have a problem about language and /or cannot find a job with good income.

Openly said, most foreign men in Japan do not stay for long, a few years and after they are gone, often the Japanese wife is refusing to relocate to his country = finally divorced.

As I explained in some other comments in other threads, Japan is not such a good place to look for a wife as a foreigner. Many more Japanese men are married to foreign (often Asian) women in Japan than Japanese women are married to foreign men.

Yohan wrote: ↑

July 21st, 2022, 11:50 pm

Openly said, most foreign men in Japan do not stay for long, a few years and after they are gone, often the Japanese wife is refusing to relocate to his country = finally divorced.

No matter who he marries, a man should make sure a woman is willing to follow him if he moves to another city or country before tying the knot. I had a co-worker in Indonesia whose husband was going to work at a consulate or embassy in the US. She was leaving her job for that. Someone asked if she was going to go with him, and yes she was. A female co-worker said made a comment along the lines of of course she would, a wife should follow her husband.

Even if that's a counter-cultural idea, the individual woman you (single men reading) should marry would be the kind who thinks she should follow you and be a support for you and keep the marriage together. If a woman isn't willing to leave her job to keep her marriage together if her husband is working to provide for her, her priorities are way out of whack.

I think I watched that video once, but the objective answer is definitely YES, tons of Japanese women are interested in "Western" guys still. It's certainly going to be easiest if you're white and have a basic knack for coming across as an adequately masculine gentleman (and ideally have some Japanese language fluency, or at least an interest in learning assuming you want to stay there for the longer term).

A frustrating fact where I personally am 100% on the side of their ultra-nationalists, yet the fact remains: Japanese politicians betrayed their own nation and opened them up to potentially devastating levels of foreign immigration. This is a disaster for Japan as a nation, and I wish there was some way to stop or reverse this.
But as an expat, Japan is a country where it's very doable to naturalize there if you actually like their language and culture enough to make that commitment. I have no idea about its political future.
On the positive side: It's a country with a beautifully varied geography from the snow-capped peaks and northern landscapes and wildflower fields of Hokkaido, to everything in between, all the way down to the more tropical southern islands on the archipelago.

But yeah, back to the thread topic: Tons of Japanese women are still interested in romantic/gentleman/masculine white men, possibly other "Western" men, but a lot of them have had a bunch of dumbasses into white/jew lib BS, AV, hentai and globohomo going there over the years, so have been disillusioned with their more idealized image they might've had in maybe the 90s or earlier, but don't doubt it that a lot of Japanese women are still interested, especially if you can bring a bit more of the ideals from their retro fantasies.

The short answer is:
No.

The slightly longer more nuanced still rather short answer is:
Some are, if you can find them before the next guy does.

But those who wanna go down the wife route had better watch Japanese Comedian Meshida's vid I just discovered today

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flowerthief00 wrote: ↑

July 26th, 2022, 1:10 pm

The short answer is:
No.

The slightly longer more nuanced still rather short answer is:
Some are, if you can find them before the next guy does.

Bullshit.

Reality = weak, unmasculine white lib men, AV perverts, or hentai anime freaks who just show up being white and expecting to get laid are not in demand with Japanese women (nor are kikes calling themselves "white" even though they're not), but those of us who can actually call ourselves masculine white men with a straight face are in BIG demand with the subset of Japanese women who have an interest in gentlemanly white men who are adequately sexually assertive.
I'm not making this stuff up, but if you want validation I even saw jewtube videos out there with many Japanese women openly stating that they had a lifelong fantasy of being with a masculine gentlemanly and romantic white man.
There's in fact a phenomenon in Japan where white men who actually know what they're doing with women end up capable of laying so many women that the Japanese women who like this sort of man will try to get at the ones who aren't in the PUA category into a relationship before those men have the chance to stay in Japan long enough to become "spoiled" and end up like some of the ones over there who notch up over 100 women. And @Outcast9428 before you start yelling at me, I'm not in this group myself because I'm a romantic myself and not knockin' 'em over like bowling pins, but this is just me telling the actual reality of how sexual dynamics actually work there.
But I'm not picking on Japan: While they do have a major problem with introverted submissive collectivist low-t gender confused men there despite their bad-ass masculine past and beautiful traditional history, the demand for non-jewish white men who can actually call themselves men with a straight face is probably 10x higher amongst Chinese than Japanese!!
Chinese tiger women are wonderful too, if it wasn't for my passion black women I'd probably be one of the most voracious lovers of Japanese and Cantonese women. Mandarin speaking Chinese women are pretty too, I just can't stand 蝗語 "Mandarin" even though I know so many people cursed with that non-Chinese mongoloid horse nomad bastard language are wonderful people even though that awful language is such a blemsih on the otherwise unparalleled beauty and grandeur of Chinese history.
I've heard the Philippines and some other countries have women who like white gents even more, but don't have personal xp.

Ask Modern Life Dating or Ryan Boundless...they know.

WilliamSmith wrote: ↑

July 26th, 2022, 10:27 pm

Reality = weak, unmasculine white lib men, AV perverts, or hentai anime freaks who just show up being white and expecting to get laid are not in demand with Japanese women (nor are kikes calling themselves "white" even though they're not), but those of us who can actually call ourselves masculine white men with a straight face are in BIG demand with the subset of Japanese women who have an interest in gentlemanly white men who are adequately sexually assertive.

Lol of course women all over the world will like Chad. We might as well not be talking specifically about Japanese women then.

An affirmative answer to the question can only be grasped at when you lay on heavy like molasses the qualifiers. Must be "masculine", must be "gentlemanly", must be "romantic", must be "adequately sexually assertive"... can't be "white lib","AV pervert","hentai anime freak" "introverted submissive collectivist low-t gender confused", etc. Lol want to add any more qualifiers to what counts as a Western guy?

Oh, trust me, Japan doesn't begin to cut a pickle to the Philippines when it comes to the attention a Western guy can get from women.

Their brothels don't even like us

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kangarunner wrote: ↑

July 26th, 2022, 10:48 pm

Ask Modern Life Dating or Ryan Boundless...they know.

Dating coach types are the LAST ones you should listen to on such a topic. They have a financial incentive to spin the truth a certain way.

flowerthief00 wrote: ↑

July 28th, 2022, 12:02 pm

WilliamSmith wrote: ↑

July 26th, 2022, 10:27 pm

Reality = weak, unmasculine white lib men, AV perverts, or hentai anime freaks who just show up being white and expecting to get laid are not in demand with Japanese women (nor are kikes calling themselves "white" even though they're not), but those of us who can actually call ourselves masculine white men with a straight face are in BIG demand with the subset of Japanese women who have an interest in gentlemanly white men who are adequately sexually assertive.

Lol of course women all over the world will like Chad. We might as well not be talking specifically about Japanese women then.

But they definitely don't have to be as macho as "Chads" (e.g. some Dolph Lundgren type, or some dreamy hunk like Patrick Swayze from Dirty Dancing or something like that), and tons of guys who are way more on the modest or even nerdy side of the masculinity scale but who are at least decent gentleman still do really well there and can get pretty and appealing Japanese women (girlfriends or long-term relationships or wives), who a lot of them would've considered at least a bit out of their league in their country or origin.
I did add the qualifier "adequately sexually assertive," meaning you have to actually do something to close the deal rather than just expecting Japanese women to throw themselves on you like starving tigers the way a lot of Chinese women did (and I've heard Pinays seem to like white men a lot too, but don't have much xp with them personally). Thankfully for China, Emperor Xi wisely tightened up the borders and threw out a lot of the useless sexpats and other foreign subversives, but that's another topic.

As for Japan:
I didn't add that many restrictive qualifiers, just shared that "those of us who can actually call ourselves masculine white men with a straight face" are in demand with a pretty significant subset of Japanese women, but I actually should scale that back to "adequately masculine," meaning faggots or men who dress up in women's clothing really aren't going to have an edge, but even some modest George McFly type still might.
It helps if you actually like Japan (IMO you shouldn't even be there at all if you don't, same for any other country) and if know at least some Japanese, because that broadens your options from just the hotties with white fever (who I personally like, as long as they're not trying to publicly embarrass the native men) over to nice more traditionally minded girls who would've been open to a Japanese man if so many of them hadn't been shuffling around ignoring their own women and going to perverted brothels or getting extreme porno out of vending machines and leaving the native women to wither on the vine.

flowerthief00 wrote: ↑

July 28th, 2022, 12:02 pm

An affirmative answer to the question can only be grasped at when you lay on heavy like molasses the qualifiers. Must be "masculine", must be "gentlemanly", must be "romantic", must be "adequately sexually assertive"... can't be "white lib","AV pervert","hentai anime freak" "introverted submissive collectivist low-t gender confused", etc. Lol want to add any more qualifiers to what counts as a Western guy?

For one thing, the term "Western" is utterly meaningless to begin with because jews have turned the "West" into a collapsing Mystery Babylon filled a gibbering discordant bread and circus mob like the late collapse-phase Roman Empire, but suppose we're talking white men (not that other men can't do well there, but I'm obviously white and not some black expat scoring Japanese hip-hop fan-girls or bar girls in Okinawa, so I obviously can't comment on what it's like for them ):
Just look at the list of supposedly restrictive "qualifiers" you're questioning as though I was being overly restrictive!!

On the positive side: "Adequately masculine / sexually assertive" white men wasn't raising the bar that high!

On the negative disqualifier side: I listed degenerated garbage like transgenders, jews, perverts addicted to schoolgirl gangbang or incest or bdsm pornos, disgusting hentai anime perverts, or whining white libs who bitch and whine nonstop about how "Japan is racist" because they think there are too many actual native Japanese living in Japan, or because of the mind-rending horror that some nice family owned tea-shop owner put up a "Japanese customer only please" sign in their shop.

I was not trying to encourage guys who don't even like or respect Japan to go there! I like Japan, so naturally I don't want a bunch of sexpat cockroaches, perverts, jews and homosexuals going in there, and there are already way too many jews like that vile scum Debito Narudo or that mutant toad-faced kike untermensch Julian Ryall:

EXPEL the BARBARIAN! —Why Does Japan Put Up with Expatriate Hack Julian Ryall, Who Campaigns to Destroy It with Mass Immigration?

https://www.unz.com/article/expel-the-b ... ight=japan

Any country that actually does let in garbage like all those groups had better get their ass in gear to throw such degenerates out, and if Japanese patriots don't get their ass in gear and do that, then Japan is going to go completely down the !@#$ing tubes and be subverted and ruined from the inside out by jewish influence. Japan is actually at risk of becoming the first great Asian nation to be utterly destroyed by jewish influence.

Conclusion:
If it's a bunch of "Western" sexpats whining that Japan isn't a cornucopia of easy lays and whining that the "racist" Japanese don't want ugly pervert white/jew/"Western" sexpats in their brothels, yes, I agree, they shouldn't go to Japan!!! Or if they already are in Japan, they should get their sorry asses the hell out and don't let the kamikaze rip their sorry asses a new one on the way out!

flowerthief00 wrote: ↑

July 28th, 2022, 12:02 pm

Oh, trust me, Japan doesn't begin to cut a pickle to the Philippines when it comes to the attention a Western guy can get from women.

No argument there! That's what I've heard about Philippines even though I don't know that much about it personally yet.
But this thread was "Are Japanese Girls Into Western Guys?," not "which is the easiest country for "Western" untermensch, trannies, p4p incels, AC/DC faggots, and anti-Japanese jews to have it the easiest."

I think I would believe Yohan view point since he actually lives in Japan.

chanta76 wrote: ↑

July 31st, 2022, 9:54 pm

I think I would believe Yohan view point since he actually lives in Japan.

@Yohan's a good man from what I see, but he moved to Japan something like 40 years ago if I remember rightly, and is a monogamist, so that is all very worthwhile if that was his goal, but doesn't necessarily provide deep insights into who can score with modern-day Japanese women, and why.

Off the topic of Yohan entirely (i.e. nothing at all against him), foreigners just living in Japan yet being clueless about women and/or Japan and/or Japanese women specifically doesn't grant any one some kind of magic insight into it, just because they live there. There are tons of expats who go over to Japan and live there, then do nothing but bitch, whine, and moan nonstop about how Japan is racist or doesn't let in enough trannies, jihadis, or however, even though those expat roaches won't get their sorry asses out of Japan if they supposedly don't like it. Yohan is not one of those though, he is an actual worthwhile individual who lives in Japan and speaks Japanese, so that's great.

I definitely agree with Yohan and some of the others that Japan isn't some kind of easy picking ground for women for every rando. (Philippines sounds best for that from what I've heard, but I don't know that much yet about that interesting country first-hand.)

In case any one actually had any doubts about this, this was originally a Madame Lily / Madame Riri (マダム リリー) post if I remember right and was on that rocket news site, but it was taken down by them, but some left-wing jewy SJW type blogs left up a reprint that was bitching about it because they were indignant about funny 30-something unmarried Japanese women fantasizing about whose children they wanted to have, and they all described white European extraction gents, LOL.
@Outcast9428 you might find this interesting.

My bodice-ripper romance novel collection takes the prize for the funniest stuff I've ever heard women blurting out about their sexual and romantic fantasies, but this article also contained some of my favorite quotes by women revealing the fundamentals of their sexual psychology, which I put in bold.

Recently, 30-something Japanese women actively seeking a marriage partner were interviewed to see what nationality they would most like to father their children. Did your country make the list? Read on to find out!

Here are the top five results with a comment from an interviewee on why they want their baby daddy to be from overseas, their own language skills notwithstanding:

5. England
“The most gentlemanly country in the world has got to be England. So if you are getting married with kids in mind, then an English gentleman would be a good choice. Like Professor Layton from that game series, I’m waiting for the Englishman who can solve the mystery of my heart!”

4. Germany
“Germany has long been number one at churning out smarties like Ferdinand Braun, who invented the cathode-ray tube. While they do seem to like beer a bit too much, German kids are intelligent and good-looking, kids a mom could really be proud of. I wonder if there is a German guy out there for me who could be at times as passionately unstoppable as a Panzer tank and at other times hold me as comfortably as the seats in a Benz…”


3. Italy
“The country that really knows how to treat ladies is without a doubt Italy! If I were married to an Italian guy, not only would be have fun together, but we could raise cheerful, chatty kids. Like Girolamo Panzetta, I want my kid to be a little big of a bad boy, rich and manly!”

2. France
“France is the most fashionable country in the world! If the father was an artistic Frenchman, the kids he would father would have to be amazing. Aren’t elegant people overflowing with ambition like Napoleon the best? I want to fly into his arms, shouting ‘Put out the fires of revolution in my heart, you military genius!'”


1. America!
“Well, the men of the world’s only superpower have to be the best. Especially if I could have a talented cutie like Justin Bieber as a kid, that would be so great. I can just imagine my life baking cherry pies every day in Beverly Hills, surrounded by a gaggle of blond kids… Man, that would be great.”

This also shows how if you learn how to speak Japanese, a whole new world of entertaining things women say opens up to you.
Personally, my love of black American women is known, yet Japan is probably one of the world's greatest cornucopias of high-IQ female nerds in the world in this day and age, LOL. I'm still planning to go sailing there, even if I never go as far as to go expat to Japan.