Not even close, and they weren't falling into my lap, they were falling into my CAR. My experiences in the US were like many on here until I bought an expensive car and grew out my hair into dreads, then everything suddenly changed like magic. Outside the US, with the exception of the Phils, I simply had one decent girlfriend in each country I lived.Winston wrote: How did you get the strippers to go out with you? It seems that everyone wants you Terrence. Girls seem to fall into your lap everywhere. lol
(BTW I didn't buy that car to pick up women. I bought it because I learned the hard way that driving up to a studio in a Geo Metro to pitch a show would get you laughed out of the lot whereas driving up in a cool car would get you taken seriously. That, however, is another story. I will write a thread about it later in the Love, Dating Relationships etc. forum)
I get what you mean, but that's saying unattainable like a vial of plutonium. What are you going to get from it but cancer?Winston wrote: Why did you ask me such a narrow question? I didn't come all the way to America to go to strip clubs. I came here for the nature and fresh air. I've already told you that a BILLION TIMES! Going to a strip club while here is just a side show benefit to take advantage of while here. You should have deduced that.
Besides, the fact that AW are so damn unattainable to me makes them more desirable because of that, like you are reaching for an unattainable trophy, and when you touch it, it gives you a high, even if you don't get it in the end. You know what I mean?
I get that, and I got that, as mentioned before after buying the car. So was it me or was it the car? Even then, it was all meaningless hookups and not one decent woman anyone would want to spend time outside of bed with. It's not worth it.Winston wrote: In addition, deep down, we all want validation, and it would heal many of us from our hurt and rejection if somehow we found an AW to validate us and accept us, even if we know they are no good. It's a way to make up for the past you know?
The validation one gets from real feminine women abroad cannot be compared to getting validation from anything in US. That's like feeling brave and strong because the wild mountain lion didn't attack you but chose to walk away.
NO. That's my whole point. They are toxic and there is no benefit to be derived from doing so that couldn't be achieved with a run of the mill hooker. A hot woman is a hot woman anywhere. Even a hot French or German woman, while still western, would be 20X better than a hot American woman! I already mentioned one path. Buy an expensive car and some flashy clothes and you will date hot AW, but that's like SO WHAT? Your time would still be better spent on hot women from just about any other location in the known universe.Winston wrote: Anyone here would be glad to date a hot AW if they could, just for the experience if nothing else. Come on. You know that. Get real.
I can't agree with that one.
Going to a strip club to talk to and touch, if they allow that, a hot girl is all fine. Falling in love and hoping for anything more than that is a huge mistake. I don't think I said or implied that you went to the US to visit strip clubs, but if you went there for the nature and fresh air, DO THAT. Take lots of pictures. Write about your experiences. Tell us what it is like on the ground, the situation with the economy, the mental state of the people, but leave the girls alone before you destroy the credibility, if not the entirety, of this movement you have been successfully building.Winston wrote: Also, strip clubs are the only place I know of in the US where hot girls will talk to strangers. Outside of them in the US, girls keep to themselves and don't talk to strangers and act very snobby and closed. The only friendly people that talk to strangers here are older men and women. We all know that and have been over this many times here.
So in that sense, going to a strip club to talk to and touch a hot girl is better than nothing. Come on now. Can't you see the obvious big picture?