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The avatar picture is of my ex-fiancée Anya. I met her through mutual friends @ Navy Pier. She was the most gorgeous girl I ever met in my life. She was fresh off the boat (or plane I guess) and had the most infectious smile. I made her laugh hardcore and she loved my baby panda jokes. She always had thing for Asian guys and I asked her out on a date and the rest is history.

I dated her for about 15 months. Then she had to go back to Colombia. I miss her till this day and I still love her.

Wow, she's gorgeous. Too bad she had to go back to her country. Do a lot of Latinas like Asian men, Phil? I heard some of them do. Too bad, the ones I meet are not so friendly for some reason??

She is smoking. Maybe you could reconnect.

Anya told me there wasn't any Asian men back in her village. She always thought Asian guys were handsome. It all really depends on the girl. So always go out and meet new people, you never know. South American women for sure have friendlier personalities than the American ghetto trash you find lurking around the malls.

I hope she comes back to Chicago. I would literally f**k her brains out. I miss that p***y.

Wow! O.O

Women of Latin descent definitely tend to be the hottest

Top of the line, only thing i dont like are silicons, I know they are all obsessed with silicons

I hear Colombian women are super affectionate and even aggressive too.

I wonder if I could have hooked up with one like that in my earlier years.

What do you think? How far could I get with my looks in Colombia?

The f**k you asking me for? I'm a straight male. I could give two shits less what you look like. True manliness is = wealth & self-sufficiency.
You follow that equation and you'll get any p***y you desire.

Personally, looks are overrated for males. It's all about confident swagger and ballsy outlook on life.

I've f***ed plenty of Mexican and Filipino chicks, but Anya was my first South American p***y experience. And I'm totally addicted.

Banano wrote:Top of the line, only thing i dont like are silicons, I know they are all obsessed with silicons

Is this mainly the Colombian girls? I've seen mainly on the Latin Cupid site a lot of Colombian girls that were stacked top heavy and proud of it, most with small waists. Sounds like fun....

philosophical_filipino wrote:The f**k you asking me for? I'm a straight male. I could give two shits less what you look like. True manliness is = wealth & self-sufficiency.
You follow that equation and you'll get any p***y you desire.

Personally, looks are overrated for males. It's all about confident swagger and ballsy outlook on life.

I've f***ed plenty of Mexican and Filipino chicks, but Anya was my first South American p***y experience. And I'm totally addicted.

In general, I think that looks matter more to women than they let on. Of course it isn't everything, and they do care about wealth.

At least on online dating sites, there is no question that the best looking guys get a lion's share of responses from women. If you look average, you don't have much luck. Ask some of the guys around here. I will acknowledge that in real life your personality matters more.

As far as me, I make around $140,000 /year and I own my own house outright. I haven't noticed that it makes any difference to women though. Women may hook up with a rich guy, but it is the ripped pool cleaning guy they are banging.

philosophical_filipino wrote:I've f***ed plenty of Mexican and Filipino chicks, but Anya was my first South American p***y experience. And I'm totally addicted.

More supermodels come from South America than anywhere else, those women have the best bodies in the world. Check out the women below who are from Brazil.

jamesbond wrote:

philosophical_filipino wrote:I've f***ed plenty of Mexican and Filipino chicks, but Anya was my first South American p***y experience. And I'm totally addicted.

More supermodels come from South America than anywhere else, those women have the best bodies in the world. Check out the women below who are from Brazil.

The question is whether or not an average American can hope to pull a woman of that quality in Brazil. No way it is happening here.

Wow. Talk about a lucky catch. I envy the OP. I've never been able to enjoy beautiful women like her, that I truly was attracted to. With the ones I got, I always felt like I was settling for second best, and most of the time, wasn't completely into them. Sometimes I couldn't stay hard because the chemistry and gut-level sexual attraction just wasn't there. I guess some of us, like myself, will never get to taste p***y paradise. Even if I went abroad, all of my mental junk will just get in the way of enjoying it. I would probably start self-sabotaging because I would feel like I didn't deserve her.

Hook has a point. It ain't happening here. I really do sometimes wonder if women like the OP's ex are reserved for men who are extremely good looking and/or are financially loaded. At times I feel like giving up on women completely because I'm neither of those. Wow, I guess America has really f***ed me up beyond repair, where you are never good enough for a woman.

The question is whether or not an average American can hope to pull a woman of that quality in Brazil. No way it is happening here.[/quote]


Not easy to be honest unless its p4p, there are so many good looking guys in Brazil, unlike PH or Thailand, they dont give a f**k that you are American, middle/upper class in particular.
You can get chick from favela or lower class goodies+you NEED to know some Portuguese


Look is important as you said in online dating the best looking guys get all the girls, this can be tested easily (females under 30 in particular that are still slutting around, they go for a guy they think is hot, since they are just after f**k money dont mean that much), real world dating is pretty much the same

[quote="jcris7"]Wow. Talk about a lucky catch. I envy the OP. I've never been able to enjoy beautiful women like her, that I truly was attracted to. With the ones I got, I always felt like I was settling for second best, and most of the time, wasn't completely into them. Sometimes I couldn't stay hard because the chemistry and gut-level sexual attraction just wasn't there. I guess some of us, like myself, will never get to taste p***y paradise. Even if I went abroad, all of my mental junk will just get in the way of enjoying it. I would probably start self-sabotaging because I would feel like I didn't deserve her.

I feel your pain....settling for 2nd best is suffering , many guys settle for 2nd best out of desperation but I just cant, i feel like im being ripped off