Finding the Ideal Country for WanderingProtagonist

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Finding the Ideal Country for WanderingProtagonist

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So @WanderingProtagonist, tell us when you're in the mood to discuss it:

What are all the ideal qualities you'd like if there was a country where you could be happy (even if none you/we know of right now fit those ideal criteria or list of qualities)? :o

From memory, you don't like whites because of them being self-destructive cucks who sell out their own nations to jews (I agree, even though I don't hate them, but that also somewhat "breaks" us (i.e. whites) as a people IMO until if/when enough of them grow a pair and throw out the jews, but not sure if that'll happen in our lifetime).

And you have a lot to say about not liking blacks. (Also, I'm not being discouraging, but the countries I personally like the best, I agree wouldn't be an ideal fit for you because there's a lot of crime and people blasting music all over the place and driving like they're among the few who remember that "it's a man's world," with massive traffic fatalities resulting, and so on).

You don't seem to like Asians much either, LOL, though I still wonder if you might be happiest in some of those countries that are nice and comparatively pleasant and where anyone's modest earnings still go a LONG way compared with being stuck in Commiefornia or other places in the jewnited states.

You have expressed some positive interest at times in certain European countries, which could theoretically work out well too.

Back on Asia: I've noticed we both have said various times in our own rants that we both think homosexuals will cause the rot and collapse of a nation if they're allowed to run around engaging in their sexual perversions. However, even though I agree, you also say you don't even want your own kids from what I've seen you saying, so what I see as the horribly destructive threat of having faggots/transformers/etc around as a horrible threat to the children and families we need to protect from those perverts seems like it isn't as big a deal to you as it is to me, since you don't even want your own kids, so in theory you don't have to be as paternalistic about going to the most homophobic places, like me, LOL?
(I just mentioned that because Asia's full of effeminate men turning into faggots and trannies in droves, so while I wouldn't want myself to be a part of those nations largely for that reason, I don't see why it would be so much of a problem for you as an expat.)

Anyway, even if you thought I was wrong on some or all that, tell us what the criteria are about what the "ideal" country is you'd like to live in.

My thread about the politeness and civility subforum is suddenly full of posts about where you'd theoretically be happy, so it was time you had your own thread even if you're still busy yelling at me about other stuff in different thread. :D
If you're serious about "taking the red pill," read thoroughly researched work by an unbiased "American intellectual soldier of our age" to learn what controlled media doesn't want you to see 8) : https://www.unz.com/page/american-pravda-series/
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Gathering some data that you guys were all posting (for some reason, not that I'm complaining :mrgreen: ) in my "Politeness and Civility Subforum" thread:
WanderingProtagonist wrote:
December 12th, 2022, 11:10 am
Outcast9428 wrote:
December 12th, 2022, 8:12 am
@WanderingProtagonist @kangarunner

I know it’s off topic but I would agree, how come you haven’t tried getting a wife from Mexico WanderingProtagonist? You are so close to there you could just drive there? You could find a wife in Mexico and then move to a better state in America with her? I don’t really feel like all hope is ever lost.
That's pointless Going to Mexico for a girl when I live in California and it's full of people from over there. CA is the largest Latino state in the U.S. and the majority of them are from Mexico. Bringing another one back over here when we have enough of them as it is make no sense. Might as well just live over there and I seen photos of Mexico, it's one ugly dangerous looking country. Probably why so many of them want to get over here even though the U.S. is just as fkin ugly.
I personally don't like Latin America very much (which shouldn't be misread as saying it's unsuitable for anyone else or to be disocuraging), but I have my doubts.

However, you over generalized too much saying Mexico is an ugly dangerous country just because you've seen some photos of particular areas and there are admittedly crime problems. There's all kinds of unique and unusual places all over Mexico, some bad, some good, some havens for expats or retirees.
It IS dangerous if you just wander into the wrong areas (moreso for women than men, especially clueless gringo women), but again, this isn't just about Mexico but about writing off an entire country too hastily when there's all sorts of places in each one.

I still don't really get why anyone suggested Mexico for you though. You and I are very different obviously, yet neither of us is one of these "tradpill types" obsessed with fantasies about subservient women, even if you don't like "aggressive" women like I do, right? :)

What are your ideal qualities you'd theoretically like to have in a woman?

I'm not presuming anything about you, but it seems like the way you go off so expressively on some subjects, some sort of kept-down "traditional" little woman might kind of annoy you. (Maybe I'm wrong about that, but a wussy passive little woman would certainly not be a good match for me, LOL.)
If you're serious about "taking the red pill," read thoroughly researched work by an unbiased "American intellectual soldier of our age" to learn what controlled media doesn't want you to see 8) : https://www.unz.com/page/american-pravda-series/
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MarcosZeitola wrote:
December 12th, 2022, 11:27 am
I think what @kangarunner and @Outcast9428 mean is that Mexican women who are actually IN Mexico, tend to be more easy to talk to and likely will be a lot less picky than Mexican women who have become Westernized after living in America for too long, or perhaps having been born there. You cannot compare a Latina or Asian who is "fresh off the boat" to someone who's second or third generation. Like Europe has a shitload of Asians too, but most of them are third or fourth generation from former colonies so their minds are already 100% westernized.

The advice for you to head South of the border isn't as ridiculous as you're making it out to be. If I recall correctly, @fschmidt had bad luck with American women because he didn't vibe with them, seeing as though they were into degenerates and he wasn't one. So he headed down to Mexico, got a lady, had a family, lived a traditional and fulfilling life. He could have just said "screw this, Mexico is ugly, I've met Latinos before, they suck" and called it a day... if he did that, he wouldn't have a family now. He's infinitely better off having made that choice. I'm just saying... it might be worth a try. Talk to some of the forum members here who have experience in Latin America or Mexico. For instance, @Cornfed is there right now. Ask around. Do some research. Might be perfect for you. And feel free to send me a PM too if a Filipina might be more your style. Would love to help you out, get you started buddy. ;)
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I wondered too whether he might like the Philippines, since even if both he and I hate homosexuals and trannies, he is very outspoken about not wanting his own kids, so what's the big deal in that case if you're surrounded in faggots and trannies? :D
[ Edit: My point there, in case not clear, was: I myself have a lot of emphasis on the importance of protecting children and families from sexual perverts, so I personally won't tolerate legalized homosexuality in the countries I want to go live in, which is part of the reasons I like the most homophobic Caribbean and black African countries the best, but he doesn't even want his own kids, so what's the big deal about having a bunch of homos and trannies around? ]

Also, he mentioned getting swindled and saddled with a lot of college debt and he also doesn't like loud violent people making a scene (so I agree he wouldn't like some of my personal favorite countries), so it seems like low-cost Asian nations with adequate health facilities might suit him?

As for Mexico: He can correct me if I'm wrong (I'm sure he won't hold back since I've seen him going off on me all the time, LOL), but I can't fathom why anyone would ever put WanderingProtagonist in the same group as Cornfed and fschmidt. :?
I've never seen the slightest indication that WanderingProtagonist is anything like those two guys, so I don't get where people are coming from in suggesting Mexico just because of Cornfed and Schmidt going there... ??

WanderingProtagonist has also told us about his issues about problems relating to women after bad experiences (very common among worthwhile men in these times), and yet even if he says stuff about women engaging in degenerate behavior that he doesn't like, from what I've noticed he and I are the only ones I've even noticed standing up for women sometimes by pointing out that they don't want to be subservient chattels, and since most of them we know have no choice but to have their own job since no man is there providing, a lot of women don't even actually need a man if he isn't actually going to treat her as a woman, even if the women are lonely and unhappy.
I'm going off topic talking about women a lot again, but back to him: Does he actually want a "tradwife??"
We'll see what he says.
I don't know exactly what he wants in a woman, but seems like he talked about some interesting white girls at one point from some TV show he thought seemed ideal to him, and it seems to me he might like women who are a little more intellectual vs these "tradwife" types the incels are obsessed with? :?:
If you're serious about "taking the red pill," read thoroughly researched work by an unbiased "American intellectual soldier of our age" to learn what controlled media doesn't want you to see 8) : https://www.unz.com/page/american-pravda-series/
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WilliamSmith wrote:
December 12th, 2022, 10:37 pm
MarcosZeitola wrote:
December 12th, 2022, 11:27 am
I think what @kangarunner and @Outcast9428 mean is that Mexican women who are actually IN Mexico, tend to be more easy to talk to and likely will be a lot less picky than Mexican women who have become Westernized after living in America for too long, or perhaps having been born there. You cannot compare a Latina or Asian who is "fresh off the boat" to someone who's second or third generation. Like Europe has a shitload of Asians too, but most of them are third or fourth generation from former colonies so their minds are already 100% westernized.

The advice for you to head South of the border isn't as ridiculous as you're making it out to be. If I recall correctly, @fschmidt had bad luck with American women because he didn't vibe with them, seeing as though they were into degenerates and he wasn't one. So he headed down to Mexico, got a lady, had a family, lived a traditional and fulfilling life. He could have just said "screw this, Mexico is ugly, I've met Latinos before, they suck" and called it a day... if he did that, he wouldn't have a family now. He's infinitely better off having made that choice. I'm just saying... it might be worth a try. Talk to some of the forum members here who have experience in Latin America or Mexico. For instance, @Cornfed is there right now. Ask around. Do some research. Might be perfect for you. And feel free to send me a PM too if a Filipina might be more your style. Would love to help you out, get you started buddy. ;)
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I wondered too whether he might like the Philippines, since even if both he and I hate homosexuals and trannies, he is very outspoken about not wanting his own kids, so what's the big deal in that case if you're surrounded in faggots and trannies? :D
[ Edit: My point there, in case not clear, was: I myself have a lot of emphasis on the importance of protecting children and families from sexual perverts, so I personally won't tolerate legalized homosexuality in the countries I want to go live in, which is part of the reasons I like the most homophobic Caribbean and black African countries the best, but he doesn't even want his own kids, so what's the big deal about having a bunch of homos and trannies around? ]

Also, he mentioned getting swindled and saddled with a lot of college debt and he also doesn't like loud violent people making a scene (so I agree he wouldn't like some of my personal favorite countries), so it seems like low-cost Asian nations with adequate health facilities might suit him?

As for Mexico: He can correct me if I'm wrong (I'm sure he won't hold back since I've seen him going off on me all the time, LOL), but I can't fathom why anyone would ever put WanderingProtagonist in the same group as Cornfed and fschmidt. :?
I've never seen the slightest indication that WanderingProtagonist is anything like those two guys, so I don't get where people are coming from in suggesting Mexico just because of Cornfed and Schmidt going there... ??

WanderingProtagonist has also told us about his issues about problems relating to women after bad experiences (very common among worthwhile men in these times), and yet even if he says stuff about women engaging in degenerate behavior that he doesn't like, from what I've noticed he and I are the only ones I've even noticed standing up for women sometimes by pointing out that they don't want to be subservient chattels, and since most of them we know have no choice but to have their own job since no man is there providing, a lot of women don't even actually need a man if he isn't actually going to treat her as a woman, even if the women are lonely and unhappy.
I'm going off topic talking about women a lot again, but back to him: Does he actually want a "tradwife??"
We'll see what he says.
I don't know exactly what he wants in a woman, but seems like he talked about some interesting white girls at one point from some TV show he thought seemed ideal to him, and it seems to me he might like women who are a little more intellectual vs these "tradwife" types the incels are obsessed with? :?:
You write a lot more than I expected, I never tried to go off on you, I just go off on the topic not directly on you though. As for trad wife stuff, I only said that women don't want to be passive because of where I live and it seems that in every country where women were given "equal rights" or in some cases like America more power than men women only want to be submissive to certain type of men while they will make it hard for other males. Media is always portraying black males the same way, as these aggressive and overly masculine individuals which isn't remotely true of all black men, it's bullshit. But most black men I knew who dated white women that didn't display these mythological black male traits presented in porn, movies, sports, etc white women treated them like shit the same way they tend to treat their own men. They were expecting the men to be exactly like what they were forced fed in media.

In which case most of these white women are attracted to the hood nigga types hence why you have so many white women that try to imitate black women which is all the more reason why I hate these phony ass white women. I can't stand white women, at least in the 1990s they were better than this, and while I don't too much have much of an issue with gays entirely since I have chased after Transgenders before, the ones in places like the Philippines are less likely to bother kids, the ones you are speaking of are mostly liberal trans people from the West, those are the ones that try to pressure and push their way of life onto everyone but I don't think these people are like this in every country since trans people in countries like Japan for instance would probably be a lot more shy and distant from the masses.

They tend to stay out of people's way in some of these countries where they are less militant with their views. If you went to a place like Korea and if it had sissified queers and shit everywhere, they probably would be less likely to bother you, and they most likely aren't trying to groom kids into that life like they in the West. Granted having these people, cucks, and other losers being in control of society isn't the best for any nation period. Which is why these people should never have any authority or power at all because lord knows they wouldn't be able to run a successful nation. A nation full of trans, gays, etc would turn to shit fast with them in control. I'm against these people in a sense that they do create shit societies, and I hate them equally as much as I hate cuckold type males whether they engage in the act of cuckoldry or they just have a cuckoldry sense of living.

The West is where they breed the most aggressive socially engineered people that want to corrupt and brainwash everyone to follow the same path, failure to do so resutls in the same lame ass attacks "You're a bigot, a racist, a phobe,etc". Of course black nations may be anti-gay/trans but that doesn't mean that suit well with black gays and black trans people elsewhere in the world that probably hate those African nations and have strong negative views about them since you have plenty of homosexual blacks in this world including some living in certain parts of Africa because I've seen videos of this on youtube, and there are documentaries about it as well so yes there are gays over there trying to legalize it unlike Muslim countries where they will kill them if they tried doing this.
I personally had a falling out with women to be fair, the type of women that exist today vs the 90s just don't appeal to me much at all. The West creates nothing but annoying hood females of all races, long gone are the days of the side pony tail girls that looked like Stephanie from Full House, now you get white girls who only like you for fetish reasons, think they can replace the sisters by stealing their dances, and talking like them. I became appalled with white women the day someone posted that tik tok video that said "Russian Twerk Squad" After that, I lost total interest in these people and just felt how could black males even be attracted to white women when they are just a phony ass second hand black woman. I would not mind a traditional woman at all, the only time I was turned on by female aggression is just sexual wise, but I could never deal with a boss bitch type, of course if you find yourself with a hyper aggressive woman William even you will probably get annoyed with this. Black men will make a lot of excuses about dodging black women.

As far as settling in a specific country go. I don't know anymore. I'm a very sick man physical wise so there isn't a lot I can do. I can barely even work anymore, having children would be one hell of a burden for someone who has little to nothing to offer or give them. I also don't want to raise kids I have to overprotect out of fear they might turn out like these garbage liberals, I mean if I had a daughter that ended up doing porn I'd probably take my own life vs trying to talk her out of it. And if my son decided he wanted to be a girl even if it was never forced upon him by anyone. I would feel like a failure knowing that my protection failed just like my mother failed raising the religious boys she always wanted. Neither me or my brother are religious, but my mother is very religious and tried her damnest to raise us upon it...When we rejected, I feel that we both hurt her a lot, and I carry so much guilt because of this.

Aside from that, I know I can be a verbal pain in the ass when I post on here, and I sound as mean spirited as Kratos from God of War back when he use to kill GODs intentionally vs his passive ways in the newer games to avoid destroying anyone. For what it's worth I appreciate people trying to be helpful on here, but I don't want anyone to waste their time trying to help me "improve" upon my life and finding happiness. The way I see it, I was born into the world unhappy, I'm going to die unhappy as well. I know it doesn't have to be this way, but you can tell how I'm different from other men, why I never spend time on these forums fussing about why everything sucks, why women only want Chad this or Tyrone that. It's because I spent years living in the same state and have grown to accept these realities. Women in the states are repulsive and passed their repulsive ways down to women elsewhere in the world...otherwise why does a Russian twerk team even f***ing exist? The garbage attitudes, the way they act, how they look, the way they talk...I don't care about pursuing love here like I did in my teens and early 20s...Going to Mexico is just out of the question since I'm honestly afraid of traveling all by myself anyway. I'm sure it has some areas that look free of problems, but to me Mexico is just an even poorer version of America without the "diversity" bullshit since we have plenty of Hispanics from there living here now.
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WanderingProtagonist wrote:
December 13th, 2022, 6:33 am
WilliamSmith wrote:
December 12th, 2022, 10:37 pm
MarcosZeitola wrote:
December 12th, 2022, 11:27 am
I think what @kangarunner and @Outcast9428 mean is that Mexican women who are actually IN Mexico, tend to be more easy to talk to and likely will be a lot less picky than Mexican women who have become Westernized after living in America for too long, or perhaps having been born there. You cannot compare a Latina or Asian who is "fresh off the boat" to someone who's second or third generation. Like Europe has a shitload of Asians too, but most of them are third or fourth generation from former colonies so their minds are already 100% westernized.

The advice for you to head South of the border isn't as ridiculous as you're making it out to be. If I recall correctly, @fschmidt had bad luck with American women because he didn't vibe with them, seeing as though they were into degenerates and he wasn't one. So he headed down to Mexico, got a lady, had a family, lived a traditional and fulfilling life. He could have just said "screw this, Mexico is ugly, I've met Latinos before, they suck" and called it a day... if he did that, he wouldn't have a family now. He's infinitely better off having made that choice. I'm just saying... it might be worth a try. Talk to some of the forum members here who have experience in Latin America or Mexico. For instance, @Cornfed is there right now. Ask around. Do some research. Might be perfect for you. And feel free to send me a PM too if a Filipina might be more your style. Would love to help you out, get you started buddy. ;)
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I wondered too whether he might like the Philippines, since even if both he and I hate homosexuals and trannies, he is very outspoken about not wanting his own kids, so what's the big deal in that case if you're surrounded in faggots and trannies? :D
[ Edit: My point there, in case not clear, was: I myself have a lot of emphasis on the importance of protecting children and families from sexual perverts, so I personally won't tolerate legalized homosexuality in the countries I want to go live in, which is part of the reasons I like the most homophobic Caribbean and black African countries the best, but he doesn't even want his own kids, so what's the big deal about having a bunch of homos and trannies around? ]

Also, he mentioned getting swindled and saddled with a lot of college debt and he also doesn't like loud violent people making a scene (so I agree he wouldn't like some of my personal favorite countries), so it seems like low-cost Asian nations with adequate health facilities might suit him?

As for Mexico: He can correct me if I'm wrong (I'm sure he won't hold back since I've seen him going off on me all the time, LOL), but I can't fathom why anyone would ever put WanderingProtagonist in the same group as Cornfed and fschmidt. :?
I've never seen the slightest indication that WanderingProtagonist is anything like those two guys, so I don't get where people are coming from in suggesting Mexico just because of Cornfed and Schmidt going there... ??

WanderingProtagonist has also told us about his issues about problems relating to women after bad experiences (very common among worthwhile men in these times), and yet even if he says stuff about women engaging in degenerate behavior that he doesn't like, from what I've noticed he and I are the only ones I've even noticed standing up for women sometimes by pointing out that they don't want to be subservient chattels, and since most of them we know have no choice but to have their own job since no man is there providing, a lot of women don't even actually need a man if he isn't actually going to treat her as a woman, even if the women are lonely and unhappy.
I'm going off topic talking about women a lot again, but back to him: Does he actually want a "tradwife??"
We'll see what he says.
I don't know exactly what he wants in a woman, but seems like he talked about some interesting white girls at one point from some TV show he thought seemed ideal to him, and it seems to me he might like women who are a little more intellectual vs these "tradwife" types the incels are obsessed with? :?:
You write a lot more than I expected, I never tried to go off on you, I just go off on the topic not directly on you though. As for trad wife stuff, I only said that women don't want to be passive because of where I live and it seems that in every country where women were given "equal rights" or in some cases like America more power than men women only want to be submissive to certain type of men while they will make it hard for other males. Media is always portraying black males the same way, as these aggressive and overly masculine individuals which isn't remotely true of all black men, it's bullshit. But most black men I knew who dated white women that didn't display these mythological black male traits presented in porn, movies, sports, etc white women treated them like shit the same way they tend to treat their own men. They were expecting the men to be exactly like what they were forced fed in media.

In which case most of these white women are attracted to the hood nigga types hence why you have so many white women that try to imitate black women which is all the more reason why I hate these phony ass white women. I can't stand white women, at least in the 1990s they were better than this, and while I don't too much have much of an issue with gays entirely since I have chased after Transgenders before, the ones in places like the Philippines are less likely to bother kids, the ones you are speaking of are mostly liberal trans people from the West, those are the ones that try to pressure and push their way of life onto everyone but I don't think these people are like this in every country since trans people in countries like Japan for instance would probably be a lot more shy and distant from the masses.

The West is where they breed the most aggressive socially engineered people. Of course black nations may be anti-gay/trans but that doesn't mean that suit well with black gays and black trans people elsewhere in the world that probably hate those African nations and have strong negative views about them since you have plenty of homosexual blacks in this world including some living in certain parts of Africa because I've seen videos of this on youtube, and there are documentaries about it as well so yes there are gays over there trying to legalize it unlike Muslim countries where they will kill them if they tried doing this.
I personally had a falling out with women to be fair, the type of women that exist today vs the 90s just don't appeal to me much at all. The West creates nothing but annoying hood females of all races, long gone are the days of the side pony tail girls that looked like Stephanie from Full House, now you get white girls who only like you for fetish reasons, think they can replace the sisters by stealing their dances, and talking like them. I became appalled with white women the day someone posted that tik tok video that said "Russian Twerk Squad" After that, I lost total interest in these people and just felt how could black males even be attracted to white women when they are just a phony ass second hand black woman. I would not mind a traditional woman at all, the only time I was turned on by female aggression is just sexual wise, but I could never deal with a boss bitch type, of course if you find yourself with a hyper aggressive woman William even you will probably get annoyed with this. Black men will make a lot of excuses about dodging black women.

As far as settling in a specific country go. I don't know anymore. I'm a very sick man physical wise so there isn't a lot I can do. I can barely even work anymore, having children would be one hell of a burden for someone who has little to nothing to offer or give them. I also don't want to raise kids I have to overprotect out of fear they might turn out like these garbage liberals, I mean if I had a daughter that ended up doing porn I'd probably take my own life vs trying to talk her out of it. And if my son decided he wanted to be a girl even if it was never forced upon him by anyone. I would feel like a failure knowing that my protection failed just like my mother failed raising the religious boys she always wanted. Neither me or my brother are religious, but my mother is very religious and tried her damnest to raise us upon it...When we rejected, I feel that we both hurt her a lot, and I carry so much guilt because of this. Aside from that, I know I can be a verbal pain in the ass when I post on here, and I sound as mean spirited as Kratos from God of War back when he use to kill GODs intentionally vs his passive ways in the newer games to avoid destroying anyone. For what it's worth I appreciate people trying to be helpful on here, but I don't want anyone to waste their time trying to help me "improve" upon my life and finding happiness. The way I see it, I was born into the world unhappy, I'm going to die unhappy as well.
Don't be defeatist, my friend! Things might look bleak now, but they can always improve. The right mindset is important to achieving success. People here give a crap about your wellbeing and so that is why they are trying to help.

Here are some of my own suggestions for improving your mental state:

1. Weight training. Bulk up, become fit and strong. For yourself, not for the benefit of anyone else. Physical exercise releases endorphins which will inevitably improve your self confidence and your mood as well.

2. Meditation. Meditation is an art of clearing your mind through relaxation and breathing exercises. Some nice incense and relaxing music can help with the experience. Practice short Meditation at first and then let the sessions extend. It's very relaxing and can help clear your mind of negative thoughts.

3. Psychedelics. Something to consider. I took them and they felt like a complete negativity detox for me. @Tsar can attest to this as well as @Lucas88. All of whom I have recommended psychedelics to and both of them spoke of its positive effects. See my thread on Entheogens and Spiritual Experiences. I'll copy the link over here: viewtopic.php?style=11&f=15&t=45587

4. Creative Stuff. You tried stuff like creative writing? Art? These things can be very edifying. I've also got a thread on creative writing for fun. Some writing prompts to have some fun with. viewtopic.php?style=11&f=1&t=46631

I disagree with all of these guys. I don't know if the location is necessarily the problem, and whether relocation is the solution. This is something that has to be rectified from within. If the issue is women, then I think you need to learn your true value and realise it isn't defined by a relationship. It's okay to be alone. I have no issue being alone for the rest of my life. First and foremost you need to improve your mental state. Increase your confidence and feelings of self worth. Read my philosophical thoughts on love for more information. viewtopic.php?style=11&f=32&t=46722
Loving yourself is important when it comes to finding a romantic relationship. Women are quite intuitive and can sense lack of confidence and negative vibes etc. This is the thing you need to improve upon.

We know you can do it, buddy! We're all rooting for you!
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Pixel--Dude wrote:
December 13th, 2022, 6:52 am
WanderingProtagonist wrote:
December 13th, 2022, 6:33 am
WilliamSmith wrote:
December 12th, 2022, 10:37 pm
MarcosZeitola wrote:
December 12th, 2022, 11:27 am
I think what @kangarunner and @Outcast9428 mean is that Mexican women who are actually IN Mexico, tend to be more easy to talk to and likely will be a lot less picky than Mexican women who have become Westernized after living in America for too long, or perhaps having been born there. You cannot compare a Latina or Asian who is "fresh off the boat" to someone who's second or third generation. Like Europe has a shitload of Asians too, but most of them are third or fourth generation from former colonies so their minds are already 100% westernized.

The advice for you to head South of the border isn't as ridiculous as you're making it out to be. If I recall correctly, @fschmidt had bad luck with American women because he didn't vibe with them, seeing as though they were into degenerates and he wasn't one. So he headed down to Mexico, got a lady, had a family, lived a traditional and fulfilling life. He could have just said "screw this, Mexico is ugly, I've met Latinos before, they suck" and called it a day... if he did that, he wouldn't have a family now. He's infinitely better off having made that choice. I'm just saying... it might be worth a try. Talk to some of the forum members here who have experience in Latin America or Mexico. For instance, @Cornfed is there right now. Ask around. Do some research. Might be perfect for you. And feel free to send me a PM too if a Filipina might be more your style. Would love to help you out, get you started buddy. ;)
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I wondered too whether he might like the Philippines, since even if both he and I hate homosexuals and trannies, he is very outspoken about not wanting his own kids, so what's the big deal in that case if you're surrounded in faggots and trannies? :D
[ Edit: My point there, in case not clear, was: I myself have a lot of emphasis on the importance of protecting children and families from sexual perverts, so I personally won't tolerate legalized homosexuality in the countries I want to go live in, which is part of the reasons I like the most homophobic Caribbean and black African countries the best, but he doesn't even want his own kids, so what's the big deal about having a bunch of homos and trannies around? ]

Also, he mentioned getting swindled and saddled with a lot of college debt and he also doesn't like loud violent people making a scene (so I agree he wouldn't like some of my personal favorite countries), so it seems like low-cost Asian nations with adequate health facilities might suit him?

As for Mexico: He can correct me if I'm wrong (I'm sure he won't hold back since I've seen him going off on me all the time, LOL), but I can't fathom why anyone would ever put WanderingProtagonist in the same group as Cornfed and fschmidt. :?
I've never seen the slightest indication that WanderingProtagonist is anything like those two guys, so I don't get where people are coming from in suggesting Mexico just because of Cornfed and Schmidt going there... ??

WanderingProtagonist has also told us about his issues about problems relating to women after bad experiences (very common among worthwhile men in these times), and yet even if he says stuff about women engaging in degenerate behavior that he doesn't like, from what I've noticed he and I are the only ones I've even noticed standing up for women sometimes by pointing out that they don't want to be subservient chattels, and since most of them we know have no choice but to have their own job since no man is there providing, a lot of women don't even actually need a man if he isn't actually going to treat her as a woman, even if the women are lonely and unhappy.
I'm going off topic talking about women a lot again, but back to him: Does he actually want a "tradwife??"
We'll see what he says.
I don't know exactly what he wants in a woman, but seems like he talked about some interesting white girls at one point from some TV show he thought seemed ideal to him, and it seems to me he might like women who are a little more intellectual vs these "tradwife" types the incels are obsessed with? :?:
You write a lot more than I expected, I never tried to go off on you, I just go off on the topic not directly on you though. As for trad wife stuff, I only said that women don't want to be passive because of where I live and it seems that in every country where women were given "equal rights" or in some cases like America more power than men women only want to be submissive to certain type of men while they will make it hard for other males. Media is always portraying black males the same way, as these aggressive and overly masculine individuals which isn't remotely true of all black men, it's bullshit. But most black men I knew who dated white women that didn't display these mythological black male traits presented in porn, movies, sports, etc white women treated them like shit the same way they tend to treat their own men. They were expecting the men to be exactly like what they were forced fed in media.

In which case most of these white women are attracted to the hood nigga types hence why you have so many white women that try to imitate black women which is all the more reason why I hate these phony ass white women. I can't stand white women, at least in the 1990s they were better than this, and while I don't too much have much of an issue with gays entirely since I have chased after Transgenders before, the ones in places like the Philippines are less likely to bother kids, the ones you are speaking of are mostly liberal trans people from the West, those are the ones that try to pressure and push their way of life onto everyone but I don't think these people are like this in every country since trans people in countries like Japan for instance would probably be a lot more shy and distant from the masses.

The West is where they breed the most aggressive socially engineered people. Of course black nations may be anti-gay/trans but that doesn't mean that suit well with black gays and black trans people elsewhere in the world that probably hate those African nations and have strong negative views about them since you have plenty of homosexual blacks in this world including some living in certain parts of Africa because I've seen videos of this on youtube, and there are documentaries about it as well so yes there are gays over there trying to legalize it unlike Muslim countries where they will kill them if they tried doing this.
I personally had a falling out with women to be fair, the type of women that exist today vs the 90s just don't appeal to me much at all. The West creates nothing but annoying hood females of all races, long gone are the days of the side pony tail girls that looked like Stephanie from Full House, now you get white girls who only like you for fetish reasons, think they can replace the sisters by stealing their dances, and talking like them. I became appalled with white women the day someone posted that tik tok video that said "Russian Twerk Squad" After that, I lost total interest in these people and just felt how could black males even be attracted to white women when they are just a phony ass second hand black woman. I would not mind a traditional woman at all, the only time I was turned on by female aggression is just sexual wise, but I could never deal with a boss bitch type, of course if you find yourself with a hyper aggressive woman William even you will probably get annoyed with this. Black men will make a lot of excuses about dodging black women.

As far as settling in a specific country go. I don't know anymore. I'm a very sick man physical wise so there isn't a lot I can do. I can barely even work anymore, having children would be one hell of a burden for someone who has little to nothing to offer or give them. I also don't want to raise kids I have to overprotect out of fear they might turn out like these garbage liberals, I mean if I had a daughter that ended up doing porn I'd probably take my own life vs trying to talk her out of it. And if my son decided he wanted to be a girl even if it was never forced upon him by anyone. I would feel like a failure knowing that my protection failed just like my mother failed raising the religious boys she always wanted. Neither me or my brother are religious, but my mother is very religious and tried her damnest to raise us upon it...When we rejected, I feel that we both hurt her a lot, and I carry so much guilt because of this. Aside from that, I know I can be a verbal pain in the ass when I post on here, and I sound as mean spirited as Kratos from God of War back when he use to kill GODs intentionally vs his passive ways in the newer games to avoid destroying anyone. For what it's worth I appreciate people trying to be helpful on here, but I don't want anyone to waste their time trying to help me "improve" upon my life and finding happiness. The way I see it, I was born into the world unhappy, I'm going to die unhappy as well.
Don't be defeatist, my friend! Things might look bleak now, but they can always improve. The right mindset is important to achieving success. People here give a crap about your wellbeing and so that is why they are trying to help.

Here are some of my own suggestions for improving your mental state:

1. Weight training. Bulk up, become fit and strong. For yourself, not for the benefit of anyone else. Physical exercise releases endorphins which will inevitably improve your self confidence and your mood as well.

2. Meditation. Meditation is an art of clearing your mind through relaxation and breathing exercises. Some nice incense and relaxing music can help with the experience. Practice short Meditation at first and then let the sessions extend. It's very relaxing and can help clear your mind of negative thoughts.

3. Psychedelics. Something to consider. I took them and they felt like a complete negativity detox for me. @Tsar can attest to this as well as @Lucas88. All of whom I have recommended psychedelics to and both of them spoke of its positive effects. See my thread on Entheogens and Spiritual Experiences. I'll copy the link over here: viewtopic.php?style=11&f=15&t=45587

4. Creative Stuff. You tried stuff like creative writing? Art? These things can be very edifying. I've also got a thread on creative writing for fun. Some writing prompts to have some fun with. viewtopic.php?style=11&f=1&t=46631

I disagree with all of these guys. I don't know if the location is necessarily the problem, and whether relocation is the solution. This is something that has to be rectified from within. If the issue is women, then I think you need to learn your true value and realise it isn't defined by a relationship. It's okay to be alone. I have no issue being alone for the rest of my life. First and foremost you need to improve your mental state. Increase your confidence and feelings of self worth. Read my philosophical thoughts on love for more information. viewtopic.php?style=11&f=32&t=46722
Loving yourself is important when it comes to finding a romantic relationship. Women are quite intuitive and can sense lack of confidence and negative vibes etc. This is the thing you need to improve upon.

We know you can do it, buddy! We're all rooting for you!
I honestly could care less what women think of me to be honest. Half of these women are in no position to judge men anyway when they are in the same situation as the majority. As for the whole defeatist thing, I'm simply being openly honest here. Not in a sense as to where my defeatist sounding mental state of mind is to get others to feel bad, or thinking they must come to my aid and help me by telling me things I already know, telling me things I've been aware of for many years related to myself. Women are so damn useless to try to impress that the only reason most men even remotely care about them is because they have holes between their legs. Remove that they'd be nothing more than a talking mannequin. At any rate, I'll try to ease up a little on my aggressive posting. Everything else I will remain indifferent upon. Some of you don't know how I've lived the past few years. Throughout my teens and 20s I did all that I could possibly do as far as self improving goes. Now I'm tired...Very tired. So I'm going to take my pills and then lay down.
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Re: Finding the Ideal Country for WanderingProtagonist

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WanderingProtagonist wrote:
December 13th, 2022, 6:59 am
Pixel--Dude wrote:
December 13th, 2022, 6:52 am
WanderingProtagonist wrote:
December 13th, 2022, 6:33 am
WilliamSmith wrote:
December 12th, 2022, 10:37 pm
MarcosZeitola wrote:
December 12th, 2022, 11:27 am
I think what @kangarunner and @Outcast9428 mean is that Mexican women who are actually IN Mexico, tend to be more easy to talk to and likely will be a lot less picky than Mexican women who have become Westernized after living in America for too long, or perhaps having been born there. You cannot compare a Latina or Asian who is "fresh off the boat" to someone who's second or third generation. Like Europe has a shitload of Asians too, but most of them are third or fourth generation from former colonies so their minds are already 100% westernized.

The advice for you to head South of the border isn't as ridiculous as you're making it out to be. If I recall correctly, @fschmidt had bad luck with American women because he didn't vibe with them, seeing as though they were into degenerates and he wasn't one. So he headed down to Mexico, got a lady, had a family, lived a traditional and fulfilling life. He could have just said "screw this, Mexico is ugly, I've met Latinos before, they suck" and called it a day... if he did that, he wouldn't have a family now. He's infinitely better off having made that choice. I'm just saying... it might be worth a try. Talk to some of the forum members here who have experience in Latin America or Mexico. For instance, @Cornfed is there right now. Ask around. Do some research. Might be perfect for you. And feel free to send me a PM too if a Filipina might be more your style. Would love to help you out, get you started buddy. ;)
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I wondered too whether he might like the Philippines, since even if both he and I hate homosexuals and trannies, he is very outspoken about not wanting his own kids, so what's the big deal in that case if you're surrounded in faggots and trannies? :D
[ Edit: My point there, in case not clear, was: I myself have a lot of emphasis on the importance of protecting children and families from sexual perverts, so I personally won't tolerate legalized homosexuality in the countries I want to go live in, which is part of the reasons I like the most homophobic Caribbean and black African countries the best, but he doesn't even want his own kids, so what's the big deal about having a bunch of homos and trannies around? ]

Also, he mentioned getting swindled and saddled with a lot of college debt and he also doesn't like loud violent people making a scene (so I agree he wouldn't like some of my personal favorite countries), so it seems like low-cost Asian nations with adequate health facilities might suit him?

As for Mexico: He can correct me if I'm wrong (I'm sure he won't hold back since I've seen him going off on me all the time, LOL), but I can't fathom why anyone would ever put WanderingProtagonist in the same group as Cornfed and fschmidt. :?
I've never seen the slightest indication that WanderingProtagonist is anything like those two guys, so I don't get where people are coming from in suggesting Mexico just because of Cornfed and Schmidt going there... ??

WanderingProtagonist has also told us about his issues about problems relating to women after bad experiences (very common among worthwhile men in these times), and yet even if he says stuff about women engaging in degenerate behavior that he doesn't like, from what I've noticed he and I are the only ones I've even noticed standing up for women sometimes by pointing out that they don't want to be subservient chattels, and since most of them we know have no choice but to have their own job since no man is there providing, a lot of women don't even actually need a man if he isn't actually going to treat her as a woman, even if the women are lonely and unhappy.
I'm going off topic talking about women a lot again, but back to him: Does he actually want a "tradwife??"
We'll see what he says.
I don't know exactly what he wants in a woman, but seems like he talked about some interesting white girls at one point from some TV show he thought seemed ideal to him, and it seems to me he might like women who are a little more intellectual vs these "tradwife" types the incels are obsessed with? :?:
You write a lot more than I expected, I never tried to go off on you, I just go off on the topic not directly on you though. As for trad wife stuff, I only said that women don't want to be passive because of where I live and it seems that in every country where women were given "equal rights" or in some cases like America more power than men women only want to be submissive to certain type of men while they will make it hard for other males. Media is always portraying black males the same way, as these aggressive and overly masculine individuals which isn't remotely true of all black men, it's bullshit. But most black men I knew who dated white women that didn't display these mythological black male traits presented in porn, movies, sports, etc white women treated them like shit the same way they tend to treat their own men. They were expecting the men to be exactly like what they were forced fed in media.

In which case most of these white women are attracted to the hood nigga types hence why you have so many white women that try to imitate black women which is all the more reason why I hate these phony ass white women. I can't stand white women, at least in the 1990s they were better than this, and while I don't too much have much of an issue with gays entirely since I have chased after Transgenders before, the ones in places like the Philippines are less likely to bother kids, the ones you are speaking of are mostly liberal trans people from the West, those are the ones that try to pressure and push their way of life onto everyone but I don't think these people are like this in every country since trans people in countries like Japan for instance would probably be a lot more shy and distant from the masses.

The West is where they breed the most aggressive socially engineered people. Of course black nations may be anti-gay/trans but that doesn't mean that suit well with black gays and black trans people elsewhere in the world that probably hate those African nations and have strong negative views about them since you have plenty of homosexual blacks in this world including some living in certain parts of Africa because I've seen videos of this on youtube, and there are documentaries about it as well so yes there are gays over there trying to legalize it unlike Muslim countries where they will kill them if they tried doing this.
I personally had a falling out with women to be fair, the type of women that exist today vs the 90s just don't appeal to me much at all. The West creates nothing but annoying hood females of all races, long gone are the days of the side pony tail girls that looked like Stephanie from Full House, now you get white girls who only like you for fetish reasons, think they can replace the sisters by stealing their dances, and talking like them. I became appalled with white women the day someone posted that tik tok video that said "Russian Twerk Squad" After that, I lost total interest in these people and just felt how could black males even be attracted to white women when they are just a phony ass second hand black woman. I would not mind a traditional woman at all, the only time I was turned on by female aggression is just sexual wise, but I could never deal with a boss bitch type, of course if you find yourself with a hyper aggressive woman William even you will probably get annoyed with this. Black men will make a lot of excuses about dodging black women.

As far as settling in a specific country go. I don't know anymore. I'm a very sick man physical wise so there isn't a lot I can do. I can barely even work anymore, having children would be one hell of a burden for someone who has little to nothing to offer or give them. I also don't want to raise kids I have to overprotect out of fear they might turn out like these garbage liberals, I mean if I had a daughter that ended up doing porn I'd probably take my own life vs trying to talk her out of it. And if my son decided he wanted to be a girl even if it was never forced upon him by anyone. I would feel like a failure knowing that my protection failed just like my mother failed raising the religious boys she always wanted. Neither me or my brother are religious, but my mother is very religious and tried her damnest to raise us upon it...When we rejected, I feel that we both hurt her a lot, and I carry so much guilt because of this. Aside from that, I know I can be a verbal pain in the ass when I post on here, and I sound as mean spirited as Kratos from God of War back when he use to kill GODs intentionally vs his passive ways in the newer games to avoid destroying anyone. For what it's worth I appreciate people trying to be helpful on here, but I don't want anyone to waste their time trying to help me "improve" upon my life and finding happiness. The way I see it, I was born into the world unhappy, I'm going to die unhappy as well.
Don't be defeatist, my friend! Things might look bleak now, but they can always improve. The right mindset is important to achieving success. People here give a crap about your wellbeing and so that is why they are trying to help.

Here are some of my own suggestions for improving your mental state:

1. Weight training. Bulk up, become fit and strong. For yourself, not for the benefit of anyone else. Physical exercise releases endorphins which will inevitably improve your self confidence and your mood as well.

2. Meditation. Meditation is an art of clearing your mind through relaxation and breathing exercises. Some nice incense and relaxing music can help with the experience. Practice short Meditation at first and then let the sessions extend. It's very relaxing and can help clear your mind of negative thoughts.

3. Psychedelics. Something to consider. I took them and they felt like a complete negativity detox for me. @Tsar can attest to this as well as @Lucas88. All of whom I have recommended psychedelics to and both of them spoke of its positive effects. See my thread on Entheogens and Spiritual Experiences. I'll copy the link over here: viewtopic.php?style=11&f=15&t=45587

4. Creative Stuff. You tried stuff like creative writing? Art? These things can be very edifying. I've also got a thread on creative writing for fun. Some writing prompts to have some fun with. viewtopic.php?style=11&f=1&t=46631

I disagree with all of these guys. I don't know if the location is necessarily the problem, and whether relocation is the solution. This is something that has to be rectified from within. If the issue is women, then I think you need to learn your true value and realise it isn't defined by a relationship. It's okay to be alone. I have no issue being alone for the rest of my life. First and foremost you need to improve your mental state. Increase your confidence and feelings of self worth. Read my philosophical thoughts on love for more information. viewtopic.php?style=11&f=32&t=46722
Loving yourself is important when it comes to finding a romantic relationship. Women are quite intuitive and can sense lack of confidence and negative vibes etc. This is the thing you need to improve upon.

We know you can do it, buddy! We're all rooting for you!
I honestly could care less what women think of me to be honest. Half of these women are in no position to judge men anyway when they are in the same situation as the majority. As for the whole defeatist thing, I'm simply being openly honest here. Not in a sense as to where my defeatist sounding mental state of mind is to get others to feel bad, or thinking they must come to my aid and help me by telling me things I already know, telling me things I've been aware of for many years related to myself. Women are so damn useless to try to impress that the only reason most men even remotely care about them is because they have holes between their legs. Remove that they'd be nothing more than a talking mannequin. At any rate, I'll try to ease up a little on my aggressive posting. Everything else I will remain indifferent upon. Some of you don't know how I've lived the past few years. Throughout my teens and 20s I did all that I could possibly do as far as self improving goes. Now I'm tired...Very tired. So I'm going to take my pills and then lay down.
Listen, man. Nobody is judging you for posting "aggressively" or anything like that. Keep posting as yourself and don't worry about it. Everyone just wants to help you. I hope your life takes a more favourable turn in the future, buddy.
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I really don’t know what the place for him is… He seems to have fairly socially conservative views but he doesn’t want to live in an actual conservative society it seems. I’m sure he’d prefer a long term relationship but he also doesn’t want kids. He doesn’t like Black culture but he is also suspicious of White women and on top of that doesn’t seem to get Asians or Latinos all that well.

I gotta say, this is a tough one. He seems too conservative for the leftists or the liberals but not really conservative enough for the conservatives. I’m not sure how you would find a girl who’s traditional but doesn’t want kids. If you try to marry a Mexican or Filipina girl she is definitely going to want kids unless she’s a liberal or leftist. I wish he would change his mind on that but given that he’s in his 30s now and seems really dead set on not having any. I don’t see that happening. I don’t know, I know people will hate on me for saying this, but maybe a Filipino or Thai ladyboy really is best for him? Unless he is willing to change his opinion on having kids that seems like the only option I can think of.
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December 13th, 2022, 11:00 am
I really don’t know what the place for him is… He seems to have fairly socially conservative views but he doesn’t want to live in an actual conservative society it seems. I’m sure he’d prefer a long term relationship but he also doesn’t want kids. He doesn’t like Black culture but he is also suspicious of White women and on top of that doesn’t seem to get Asians or Latinos all that well.

I gotta say, this is a tough one. He seems too conservative for the leftists or the liberals but not really conservative enough for the conservatives. I’m not sure how you would find a girl who’s traditional but doesn’t want kids. If you try to marry a Mexican or Filipina girl she is definitely going to want kids unless she’s a liberal or leftist. I wish he would change his mind on that but given that he’s in his 30s now and seems really dead set on not having any. I don’t see that happening. I don’t know, I know people will hate on me for saying this, but maybe a Filipino or Thai ladyboy really is best for him? Unless he is willing to change his opinion on having kids that seems like the only option I can think of.
I agree with @Outcast9428. Maybe @WanderingProtagonist could look for an infertile female?

Traditional girls and conservative girls will want females. I also don't think that he wants a liberal girlfriend.

The only options are an infertile woman 40+ or like @Outcast9428 said, a ladyboy.

When I first read this thread, I honestly didn't really know how to answer it because there's nowhere that seemed like a good fit for @WanderingProtagonist.

Maybe he's into the Monk-Mode lifestyles and okay with celibacy?

No idea but I don't sense he has any real optimism for a relationship or the right mindset for a good girl. Changing his state of mind should be the first part before trying to find a girl.
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Outcast9428 wrote:
December 13th, 2022, 11:00 am
I really don’t know what the place for him is… He seems to have fairly socially conservative views but he doesn’t want to live in an actual conservative society it seems. I’m sure he’d prefer a long term relationship but he also doesn’t want kids. He doesn’t like Black culture but he is also suspicious of White women and on top of that doesn’t seem to get Asians or Latinos all that well.

I gotta say, this is a tough one. He seems too conservative for the leftists or the liberals but not really conservative enough for the conservatives. I’m not sure how you would find a girl who’s traditional but doesn’t want kids. If you try to marry a Mexican or Filipina girl she is definitely going to want kids unless she’s a liberal or leftist. I wish he would change his mind on that but given that he’s in his 30s now and seems really dead set on not having any. I don’t see that happening. I don’t know, I know people will hate on me for saying this, but maybe a Filipino or Thai ladyboy really is best for him? Unless he is willing to change his opinion on having kids that seems like the only option I can think of.
Good points.

Yeah, I honestly don't have an awful lot of hope for @WanderingProtagonist at this point in time. I feel like at his age, and with how bitter and obviously damaged and traumatized by life he is, as well as his preferences, there may not be much we, or anyone else, can do at this point. Some people want to be happy. Others do not.

It's similar somewhat to @Mercer in that you can lead a horse to water but you cannot make it drink. Some people are unhappy for whatever reason and are that way by choice. They will blame other factors... society, interracial porn, feminism, politics, the entire female gender and modernity... but at the end of the day, look for that common denominator.

If you run into an asshole in the morning, you ran into an asshole. If you run into assholes all day... you're the asshole.

Not saying that WanderingProtoganist is an asshole, mind you... I just think he is a little too bitter and broken for his own good. None of us here are licensed therapists so none of us can help him. I cannot also recommend any cute Filipina to a man who hates children and doesn't ever want to have them, because that would just break a sweet traditional girl's heart and ruin her life.

So that leaves us with... no real viable options going forward. Look, I'm not a quitter... but I'm tired of beating dead horses. I think our buddy just wants to blow off steam. That's why he's here. Good luck to him. But some people, for some inexplicable reason, make a conscious decision to die alone. It's what they want, because perhaps in some perverse and twisted way, that's all they think they deserve. As much as I'd love for the guy to go on some life changing journey and find himself, I don't really see it happening.
On "Faux-Tradionalists" and why they're heading nowhere: viewtopic.php?style=1&f=37&t=29144
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Hey guys, I know that you guys probably mean well and genuinely want to give @WanderingProtagonist some advice, but I've noticed that he hasn't been active on the forum since his last response to you guys in this thread.

Well, WP never asked for your help in the first place and some of you might have made him feel uncomfortable through your insistence. As a general rule, I think that it is better to offer help only to those who ask for it, overwise you might run the risk of overwhelming people or upsetting them even more. WP might not have taken too kindly to those responses telling him that perhaps he should seek out a ladyboy either, especially when the topic of transgenderism annoys him so much. I personally think you should just let him be.

WP seems happy to use the forum just to get certain negative emotions off his chest and go on a rant (some of them are quite hilarious actually!) from time to time. If he finds that cathartic and helpful, then so be it. He has every right to use the forum in that way if that's what he wants to do.
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MarcosZeitola wrote:
December 13th, 2022, 11:34 am
If you run into an asshole in the morning, you ran into an asshole. If you run into assholes all day... you're the asshole.
This reminds me of that football players last name.... who is it.... oh yeah.... Dick Butkus.
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Tsar wrote:
December 13th, 2022, 11:24 am
Outcast9428 wrote:
December 13th, 2022, 11:00 am
I really don’t know what the place for him is… He seems to have fairly socially conservative views but he doesn’t want to live in an actual conservative society it seems. I’m sure he’d prefer a long term relationship but he also doesn’t want kids. He doesn’t like Black culture but he is also suspicious of White women and on top of that doesn’t seem to get Asians or Latinos all that well.

I gotta say, this is a tough one. He seems too conservative for the leftists or the liberals but not really conservative enough for the conservatives. I’m not sure how you would find a girl who’s traditional but doesn’t want kids. If you try to marry a Mexican or Filipina girl she is definitely going to want kids unless she’s a liberal or leftist. I wish he would change his mind on that but given that he’s in his 30s now and seems really dead set on not having any. I don’t see that happening. I don’t know, I know people will hate on me for saying this, but maybe a Filipino or Thai ladyboy really is best for him? Unless he is willing to change his opinion on having kids that seems like the only option I can think of.
I agree with @Outcast9428. Maybe @WanderingProtagonist could look for an infertile female?

Traditional girls and conservative girls will want females. I also don't think that he wants a liberal girlfriend.

The only options are an infertile woman 40+ or like @Outcast9428 said, a ladyboy.

When I first read this thread, I honestly didn't really know how to answer it because there's nowhere that seemed like a good fit for @WanderingProtagonist.

Maybe he's into the Monk-Mode lifestyles and okay with celibacy?

No idea but I don't sense he has any real optimism for a relationship or the right mindset for a good girl. Changing his state of mind should be the first part before trying to find a girl.
Perfect example about why @Winston should allow editing of posts without a time limit.

I used the wrong word.

Correction is: Traditional girls and conservative girls will want children. I also don't think that he wants a liberal girlfriend.

I only saw this mistake because I reread the post many days afterwards.

A quick edit of a post would be much better than a new post just to correct an error in a previous post.
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