MrBlueLight's love diary in Manila

[MrBlueLight]

Actually, Okcupid would be a tertiary site that I use, far from the primary. Like I said, girls are OKC are higher class and can afford to be more picky/flaky. Upper/middle class girls are more like American girls. They don't need your money, so you better bring with you other qualities if you want to date these girls. So compared to other sites, OKC is the "hardest" to get any traction. But if middle/upper class Pinays are your thing, then it is the best online option. Skout is another good one to find affluent girls, because they would need a pretty good smartphone to support that damn app, lol.

[newlifeinphilippines]

You are in the wrong country if that is your goal. You should look for a wife in america or taiwan if your such a great catch.

[MrBlueLight]

I am not looking for a wife. Not looking to get married, if ever.

I still use the other sites for easier girls. But just reporting my observation that you need more than just your wallets to get with middle/upper class Filipinas.

[newlifeinphilippines]

I am not looking for a wife. Not looking to get married, if ever.

I still use the other sites for easier girls. But just reporting my observation that you need more than just your wallets to get with middle/upper class Filipinas.

Ill stick with the poor girls then cause I want to marry a 18 year old virgin when im like 40

If thats not your goal why do you care if the girl is educated or smart or has money. If anything the opposite should be your goal cause youll get what you want better. Your contradicting yourself.

[MrBlueLight]

I don't care if she is educated or smart. I do care whether she has money or not, just so we can split the bill on dates and she won't ask me for money.

You asked how could the girls I date not ask me for money, and I gave the possible reasons.

Here's another possible reason: When these girls go out with a younger guy, she thinks she's on a date. When she goes out with an older guy, she thinks that she's an escort. In both cases, she is just behaving properly.

[newlifeinphilippines]

I don't care if she is educated or smart. I do care whether she has money or not, just so we can split the bill on dates and she won't ask me for money.

You asked how could the girls I date not ask me for money, and I gave the possible reasons.

Here's another possible reason: When these girls go out with a younger guy, she thinks she's on a date. When she goes out with an older guy, she thinks that she's an escort. In both cases, she is just behaving properly.

when you say older what are we talking in terms of age gap? Im not old but the girls treat the younger guys the same way you know.

[MrBlueLight]

Old as in you look a generation above them. I don't think they treat guys who look the same age as they are the same way. Why would you ask money from a guy who looks like he's still in college?

[newlifeinphilippines]

Old as in you look a generation above them. I don't think they treat guys who look the same age as they are the same way. Why would you ask money from a guy who looks like he's still in college?

One filipina on the dating site told me she befriended a young foreigner (early 20's) in real life and he was always getting scammed. They do it the young guys too but maybe in more subtle ways.

I met my bargirl when i was 30 and i looked probably mid 20's at the time yet she happily and greedily took my money. Most scammers online dont really bother me and maybe thats why i dont get much attention online cause most of these girls are trying to work the older guys over for sending cash LOL

the last gf though she didn't really ask me for money but she was like an orphan girl in some ways i later found out and i had to pay for everything and then some cause she was jobless etc. she then started hitting me up for money on the day i was going home and when back in america. Yes ive sent her some money but i wasnt expecting anything in return nor assuming to see her again when i did it, i did it for out of goodness etc. But after a few times of sending and her working the dating sites im a bit tired of talking to her now.

[MrBlueLight]

When girls ask me money, I usually just make some excuse to not give any. Like, "I think we need to get to know each other better first", which translates into "how about we have sex first, then I never answer your message again". Or, "sorry, I am still waiting for my next pay check. I will let you borrow some next time", which translates into "I give you some hope so we can have sex now, then there would be no next time".

[chanta76]

mrbluelight,

So being in the Philippines this long are filipina girls just plain sluts and indecent or is that the girls your getting? I'm not saying this to be offensive .

[newlifeinphilippines]

When girls ask me money, I usually just make some excuse to not give any. Like, "I think we need to get to know each other better first", which translates into "how about we have sex first, then I never answer your message again". Or, "sorry, I am still waiting for my next pay check. I will let you borrow some next time", which translates into "I give you some hope so we can have sex now, then there would be no next time".

I thought you said none ask you for money and the ones that do its after the fact down the road where you dont answer their texts.

[MrBlueLight]

I would use those lines for girls I want to bang but haven't. If I banged the girl already, yeah, I wouldn't even answer them.

Chanta: Like in any countries, some are and some aren't. The lower class girls that most foreigners bang will easily sleep with the guy in hope that the guy is their ticket out. The middle/upper class girls are no easier (nor harder) than other Asian girls.

I've had girls who are obvious sluts to virgin girls. They are all over the spectrum.

[newlifeinphilippines]

I have noticed the hot (without children) or wealthier filipinas are kind of stuck up. I mean they are friendly and all compared to american women but you can tell they will think twice about being with a foreigner.

[MrBlueLight]

Isn't that true for hot/wealthy women all over the world?

[newlifeinphilippines]

Isn't that true for hot/wealthy women all over the world?

I thought SEA was supposed to be an exception to that area Also i would think a hot woman would still want to be with a foreigner.


The gf just sent me this message


So your not anymore come to Philippines ? You don't wanna meet me? Baby can I credit 5k if ok to you need it for my mom check up cuz she has high blood and she can't walk Cuz my brother he has cancer his dead last 2010 and my mom feel the same also ,her other leg she can't move


This was my response:
You can an email a picture of your store your supposedly running? or any proof of anything else I gave you money for? I dont believe you will pay me back but I dont expect you to.