American Women are VERY Difficult to Communicate With

[Ghost]

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[Adama]

Yes but you must understand, there is a certain personality type which is attracted towards internet romance. I don't think most normal women are using the internet. I can think of a few women I've known who admitted they used the internet, and each of them was all kinds of screwed up.

Even if you believe evolution is true, do you think we evolved to select mates from an internet profile?

Certain types of women congregate online. Those women tend to be the ones you wouldn't want. Most women still want to see their man in person before they invest time in them. Meaning they want to meet in person first, not using a profile. Of course this doesn't apply somehow to Filipinos.

Adama,
Internet dating is in vogue now. In fact, social psychologists predict it will become the standard protocol to meet partners within the next few decades. Most of the women I know in real life have (Or have had at one time) a dating site profile. These are not just the freaks of society, these are normal everyday women.

The women I know who use the internet for dating are far from normal and especially far from ideal. I've seen the psycho women who use the internet. If the USA is so women friendly, why would a woman need to use the internet? Men in person want them. Keep in mind though, probably less than 10% of women are even worth the trouble without the internet.

[HouseMD]

I'm not saying you're losers, I'm just saying it isn't as bad as everyone makes it sound and I feel like many people here are often so stuck in the echo chamber that they don't realize how far afield they've gotten.

Or perhaps we ended up here because things really are that bad.

Subjectively, perhaps.

[jamesbond]

The women I know who use the internet for dating are far from normal and especially far from ideal. I've seen the psycho women who use the internet.

Internet dating is a joke, your not going to find any normal, good looking women on the internet. If the woman was normal and good looking, she would not be using the internet.

The only women who use online dating in America are women who are mentally ill, fat, ugly and women who are single mothers.

[HouseMD]

The women I know who use the internet for dating are far from normal and especially far from ideal. I've seen the psycho women who use the internet.

Internet dating is a joke, your not going to find any normal, good looking women on the internet. If the woman was normal and good looking, she would not be using the internet.

The only women who use online dating in America are women who are mentally ill, fat, ugly and women who are single mothers.

Not necessarily- there are a lot of good looking women in the more serious dating sites out there. The trouble is, they get messaged by literally hundreds of guys per day, so it actually makes them more shallow than before. I knew one attractive, smart girl that stopped doing the whole online dating thing because so many choices made her feel horrible about how she was selecting who she would respond to- she's sort by looks, then by income, then by hobbies- it basically made her feel like saying had become the most superficial experience ever, the exact opposite of what online dating is supposed to be.

So yeah, there's attractive girls there, but the competition is more fierce than offline and you'll probably never get a response unless you're incredibly wealthy and attractive.

[Ghost]

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[HouseMD]

Not necessarily- there are a lot of good looking women in the more serious dating sites out there. The trouble is, they get messaged by literally hundreds of guys per day, so it actually makes them more shallow than before. I knew one attractive, smart girl that stopped doing the whole online dating thing because so many choices made her feel horrible about how she was selecting who she would respond to- she's sort by looks, then by income, then by hobbies- it basically made her feel like saying had become the most superficial experience ever, the exact opposite of what online dating is supposed to be.

So in other words it made her feel bad because it showed her the truth about her female nature.

She was doing the same thing any of us would do on one of those Asian dating sites where there are far more women sending requests than the other way around. We look at looks, then what they offer other than looks. It's human nature. There's actually a great philosophical thought exercise called the Secretary Problem that deals with this very aspect of human nature when one has a great number of desirable choices.

[droid]

the Secretary Problem

Nice, however on the dating site you can go back to previously evaluated 'applicants', so it's somewhat different
+1 thanks
Learn something new every day


Neural correlates
While there is a substantial body of neuroscience research on information integration, or the representation of belief, in perceptual decision-making tasks using both animal[2][3] and human subjects,[4] there is relatively little known about how the decision to stop gathering information is arrived at.

Researchers have studied the neural bases of solving the secretary problem in healthy volunteers using functional MRI.[5] A Markov decision process (MDP) was used to quantify the value of continuing to search versus committing to the current option. Decisions to take versus decline an option engaged parietal and dorsolateral prefrontal cortices, as well ventral striatum, anterior insula, and anterior cingulate. Therefore, brain regions previously implicated in evidence integration and reward representation encode threshold crossings that trigger decisions to commit to a choice.

[HouseMD]

the Secretary Problem

Nice, however on the dating site you can go back to previously evaluated 'applicants', so it's somewhat different
+1 thanks
Learn something new every day


Neural correlates
While there is a substantial body of neuroscience research on information integration, or the representation of belief, in perceptual decision-making tasks using both animal[2][3] and human subjects,[4] there is relatively little known about how the decision to stop gathering information is arrived at.

Researchers have studied the neural bases of solving the secretary problem in healthy volunteers using functional MRI.[5] A Markov decision process (MDP) was used to quantify the value of continuing to search versus committing to the current option. Decisions to take versus decline an option engaged parietal and dorsolateral prefrontal cortices, as well ventral striatum, anterior insula, and anterior cingulate. Therefore, brain regions previously implicated in evidence integration and reward representation encode threshold crossings that trigger decisions to commit to a choice.

The trouble is, with infinite options, it becomes almost impossible to choose when to go back, which leads to choice paralysis on the one hand and dissatisfaction with any choices made (since there are so many other choices that still remain to be explored, leading to a grass is greener phenomenon). Well positioned men suffer the same issues as these online-dating women.

[Quiet_observer]

The thing you have to remember is that not everyone is compatible with the other. 999 women out of 1000 women may not be attracted to you. Those women are not to encourage you to hit on them if they already know they are not interested. It is the 1 in 1000 women that you should look for.

This is great... On paper. Or in a book. But in reality, Ive watched too many men literally age and go bitter looking for that 1. I admire your optimism Adama. I really do. But reality goes against your encouragement here. And believe me, I'm NOT trying to be pessimistic. Looking for that one in America is like playing the game where the only winning strategy is not playing it. That sucks. AW need either a fema camp ( where they can be away from general population ) or serious reprogramming of some sort.

[Adama]

The thing you have to remember is that not everyone is compatible with the other. 999 women out of 1000 women may not be attracted to you. Those women are not to encourage you to hit on them if they already know they are not interested. It is the 1 in 1000 women that you should look for.

This is great... On paper. Or in a book. But in reality, Ive watched too many men literally age and go bitter looking for that 1. I admire your optimism Adama. I really do. But reality goes against your encouragement here. And believe me, I'm NOT trying to be pessimistic. Looking for that one in America is like playing the game where the only winning strategy is not playing it. That sucks. AW need either a fema camp ( where they can be away from general population ) or serious reprogramming of some sort.

Well, I used to be a member of a Manginas Going the Other Way forum. On that site, there was an older guy in his 50s who claimed he had relationships with over 20 women in his lifetime thus far. He described submissive women are functionally retarded. He equates being functionally retarded in life as being submissive, when that is not even what it is. He also said that women change over time, that if they are submissive in the beginning, that they will become dominant when they get comfortable. Then he goes on to describe how his most recent girlfriend would call him if he was even five minutes late coming home from work.

In other words, he was a complete fool who stuck with a woman who was bossing him around and controlling him. He chose that woman, and he stayed with her for years, literally putting up with all kinds of crap, because he truly believes that all women are the same, and that the good women are either functionally retarded or playing tricks to lure him in. Well a woman doesn't need a trick to lure in a sucker. It is quite obvious that a woman can start bossing a man around from the beginning of a relationship, and the manginas will stay and endure it, because they think that is the best that women are.

It's your mindset that has trapped you into believing in untruths.

Learn some discernment skills. If you are a mangina or otherwise a sucker, then it will not matter which country you go to. There are evil women in every place in this world. Just ask Will N Down on this forum, who moved all the way to the other side of the planet, only to find that those women also are full of tricks and scams.

[Quiet_observer]

The thing you have to remember is that not everyone is compatible with the other. 999 women out of 1000 women may not be attracted to you. Those women are not to encourage you to hit on them if they already know they are not interested. It is the 1 in 1000 women that you should look for.

This is great... On paper. Or in a book. But in reality, Ive watched too many men literally age and go bitter looking for that 1. I admire your optimism Adama. I really do. But reality goes against your encouragement here. And believe me, I'm NOT trying to be pessimistic. Looking for that one in America is like playing the game where the only winning strategy is not playing it. That sucks. AW need either a fema camp ( where they can be away from general population ) or serious reprogramming of some sort.

Well, I used to be a member of a Manginas Going the Other Way forum. On that site, there was an older guy in his 50s who claimed he had relationships with over 20 women in his lifetime thus far. He described submissive women are functionally retarded. He equates being functionally retarded in life as being submissive, when that is not even what it is. He also said that women change over time, that if they are submissive in the beginning, that they will become dominant when they get comfortable. Then he goes on to describe how his most recent girlfriend would call him if he was even five minutes late coming home from work.

In other words, he was a complete fool who stuck with a woman who was bossing him around and controlling him. He chose that woman, and he stayed with her for years, literally putting up with all kinds of crap, because he truly believes that all women are the same, and that the good women are either functionally retarded or playing tricks to lure him in. Well a woman doesn't need a trick to lure in a sucker. It is quite obvious that a woman can start bossing a man around from the beginning of a relationship, and the manginas will stay and endure it, because they think that is the best that women are.

It's your mindset that has trapped you into believing in untruths.

Learn some discernment skills. If you are a mangina or otherwise a sucker, then it will not matter which country you go to. There are evil women in every place in this world. Just ask Will N Down on this forum, who moved all the way to the other side of the planet, only to find that those women also are full of tricks and scams.

Sounds like you were a member of v2 mgtow. Im sorry. I knew Stardusk. I was there from the beginning. Watching men wake up to a revolution.

ahem, ahem.

My friend, what I am saying to you has NOTHING what-so-ever to do with being a Mangina. By calling men manginas, you are being extremely dismissive.

I'd rather MEN GOING THEIR OWN WAY than MEN GOING OUT OF THEIR WAY to physically abuse women or hate women. Hows that for "discernment skills"? And I'm not defending MGTOW, because among v2 mgtow men, I'm a mangina because I encourage men to travel and find their partners. Which doesn't fly with v2/v3/modern mgtow philosophy ( Which is the worst ever - v1 stardusk-era was the best, imho ). Men were waking up to a losing war. Interesting times, those were.

No one here is saying that all women abroad are perfect. But boy, do you ever have greater chances of finding better... Sure they have tricks but none of those "Tricks" will land you in jail or prison. abroad is better after a life of living 30+ years in the ponzie/gynocentric scheme that is every ounce of America. You see, women in other countries are NOT MARRIED TO THEIR GOVERNMENT AS AMERICAN WOMEN ARE- therefore, they behave differently. Trust me, AW are criminally trickier than most foreign women I've met. And yes, Ive done Athens, Romania, and Bulgaria.

Hell, even the few black men are finding women better than anything they could ever get back home. It is what it is. If you're a white guy like me, America is a 50/50 thing. And those stats greatly improve if i accept being a corrupt douchebag capable of lying with a straight face. Which I never will. If you are anything other than white in America, it is a different experience and a different America altogether. And no where near as rosy, and only a third of the opportunities. Please open. your. eyes. And think beyond yourself.

Its about encouraging men to not play a game where the chances of you losing are too bloody high. Many men who play this game end up in prison or jail sooner or later anyways. Remember that women you had what you THOUGHT was consensual sex with years ago? ya? I know, she seduced and therefore she wanted it, right? Well, she can turn around and call it RAPE and have your balls in a sling today. It things like this that the AW nail men on. Ya, sometimes men are completely wrong too. No doubt. Again, just dont play the game. Dont hate the player or the game either. Just... dont play the game.

And again, the black guys have it the worst. They've been fighting black feminism since the 60's- special thanks to the CIA. They are tired of that fight but know not to give in. Kudos to them.

Think about that for a second. Thats almost 60 years of black feminism. Every black man in America is affected by this. I also feel bad for them as they have nothing but pure garbage to choose from. 360 degrees of garbage-women who happen to think they're Betty-bad-asses. Try asking those guys what "Discernment' looks like to them... And be prepared for an explanation that is universes beyond yours. I've done this, already.

Being what AW consider a man means being a guy who provides her daily dose of drama ( which could mean ANYTHING ) and men fail because they fail to realize shes keeping track of every thing you've done in those high drama moments that can be used against you in the court of law Later.
AW do this really well... Bring s*@t up later. You can't invest any amount of trust in anything that works like that, man. If your idea of being with a women is wondering when the other shoe will drop, then AW are highly compatible.

Read my other posts where I talk about ( Mean-Time-To-Accusation and Mean-Time-To-Failure aka MTTA/MTTF ) And for the record, I am an American, who lives abroad and I see how brutally skewed America is.

I'll admit, I'm rambling a bit. But Im enjoying it

[re85with]

I have been noticing that American Women are extremely difficult to communicate with. It's like any speaking up to them and they will strip you of the ability to talk to them.

I do agree.

Sometimes, I cannot even talk to my sister and mother. It is either that they think I am boring or different.

If an American woman won't talk to you, then a foreign woman would.

I have a Colombian friend who is married to an American. We have known each other for 8 years. If I send her a message on Facebook, I know that she would respond. I never had a friend like her.

I even reunited with her and met her family at Kings Dominion. The day was perfect. If I was expecting to meet American friend(s) somewhere, I won't be surprised if he/she doesn't show up.