I agree and looked at myself and figured out that I was the only one blocking me from getting laid; having sex, whatever... most of us put up barriers a long time ago, forgot that they were there and are essentially wandering around lost and confused, angry at our outside(s).
It is only when we REALLY look at ourselves we see accountability for our choices, what we want to do or not do...and why or why not we want to do this, most of us overcomplicate things; and humans are masters of avoidance and lazy making, we are also rebellious (that's why a lot of people turn gay)... and in my own case - like to pretend we are better than all of this; so it's easier just to sit it out and not partake in life at all. Completely safe, we start to dry up real quick and form terrible vices that are worse than the avoidance itself & if you were just living life.
Life is life. We are in it and don't have a choice, throwing your hands up, pouting or refusing to play isn't an option...
you can, Just look at those incel guys. this is about deeper than getting laid. It is about something deeper, a deeper acceptance of life; those guys who understand and accept this, accept some pain ...and don't fight the reality of life are the ones who reap the most reward; not taking too seriously anything, because they know...
Getting 'laid' is mysteriously easy, you have to bring it down to 1+1= 2 level simple, and don't make things overcomplicated. Humans love to overcomplicate things and thus destroy the natural way of life, and are then confused why then.
Every man must deal with the fraught dynamic between men & women, you have to give up something of yourself, she gives up something of herself; there is no way around this - women have to deal with this...and most are actually better at it than men are - for reasons that are responsible for that...(I think women were made to give in - especially to temptation, desires or a dynamic male force; they are born receptive) why don't you - for men it's about power. Men desire power and fear loss of control- woman does this to man. Women fear being controlled (hence the ultimate fear of rape)...since it's easier to give in than to give up, it's actually easier for women to have sex, and harder for men to do it, I think (that's also why men who have frequent frequent sex come undone). Just submit to it...it's life, you're supposed to. don't worry about it - you wont drown or die, this is just something of being a man. give in to it. It's best to meet it with a smile + grin when meeting a beautiful female, submitting yourself to the utter absurdity of the situation...; ) - which can and will usually lead to both getting laid. If you seek to avoid this or find a way around, you will avoid completely and be incel or, that pathological guy who sits in his office all day everything organized but can't handle life. Life is for living, and the living accept all of life and the way that it is. This is why I have a theory that those who believe in God actually - you'd find it surprising, get laid more often...have better sex, etc, better relationships; even those that understand it and follow on some subconscious level.
So, men and women must accept this and let it; accept it and have fun, play with it, don't make the arrogant mistake I made when I was younger and fight & think there's some way you can control your life, control it, etc.
Reading from the Bible has helped me to understand human nature, males and females... God, the way things are, etc., I suggest reading it, at least Genesis with an open mind, people will scoff but they don't know what they're talking about.
Give into, accept life ... and find a way to wisely or,
semi-wisely playing.
there, I've just told you the complete secrets to getting laid.
Misery and happiness are only states of mind.
