I wasn't necessarily referring to you, but since you mentioned your input, I think letting people grow and learn at their own pace would be wise. I personally think he is less predator (he has little sexual experience) and more someone with stunted relationship development so he feels more comfortable with that age level.yick wrote: ↑November 23rd, 2020, 2:40 pmI don't want to see him fail he has nothing I want.Contrarian Expatriate wrote: ↑November 23rd, 2020, 12:20 pmTry not to go back and forth with certain guys here who want to see you fail. They have a deep need to ensure that they have continued company in that particular space of losers. Sniping at you is a tactic to undermine your resolve and keep you from improving.Tsar wrote: ↑November 23rd, 2020, 6:13 amI am going to work on my confidence levels around people. I am attractive and definitely not ugly.HappyGuy wrote: ↑November 22nd, 2020, 7:00 amBad Confidence vs being ugly/unatractiveyick wrote: ↑November 19th, 2020, 10:54 pm
It doesn't matter if you are or you aren't in reality because it isn't about your perception, it's their perception that's important and if they think you're an utter creep it doesn't matter what you think because they hold the keys to what you want and not the other way round.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Sl2ue8jedQ
I think it is good advice that he should refrain from spewing his plans out on here about his romantic future with what are basically children - emotionally if not physically - I wouldn't be impressed if some 30 year old guy was sniffing around my 15 year old daughter still at school.
If he wants to improve, he could try learning some Bulgarian and getting a job! That would be a good start.
Truth be told, as much as people assume younger women are the innocent little victims, they are often THE WORST in terms of entitlement, lack of empathy, and unreasonableness. They would be more likely to make HIM into a light lunch than more mature girls so that is the irony.
But HE has to learn that on his own. So long as he is being lawful, I don't care what he prefers.