So many of these guys have problems establishing relationships. I get it. It sucks. But being combative and snarky when you don't get what you want and having a victim mentality gets you no where. I'm not understanding why posters don't get this. You guys view dating as something that you have to figure out. You can win if you want. Play by your own rules...and yes, you will come across women that go out with you but decide not to pursue a relationship. She has that right, you know. Men do as well. It is simply the process of dating.
The more troublesome thing is you guys develop such a complex when you don't get what you want..you go bash original feminism. Become bitter. You become more unappealing to women because they can sense your disdain and frustration. Not healthy, guys.
I have unpopular thoughts about what some men may be seeing in Western women. It is no secret that guys have had quite the upperhand for centuries in a variety of avenues. Women were more seen as accessories, something for someone else instead of human beings. When things got so ridiculous, women had to take a stand for themselves in order to prevent abuse (feminism). This is an evolutionary process. You men have had male privilege for centuries and you are seeing it slowly slip away as the sexes become more equal. Except, in evolutionary processes, things are not always split down the middle. This is where feminazism comes in. Men have to give MORE to make up for the imbalance of power that occurred, for like, forever. And you guys are seeing it in the dating field. I
I'm saying that it is going to take some time for things to level out. See in which areas you can evolve as a man instead of just blaming women and wishing for things to go back to the way they were in the 1950s. Because "the good old days" didn't always work well for women, and you have to admit that and have some empathy for that.Statistics: Posted by monts — Sun Dec 29, 2013 6:15 am
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