Ladies Discussion Forum

I know I should post this on the gentlemen's forum to get advice from men's point of view, but I'm still thinking about it. Anyway, I just wanna know, how long should a couple be in a "dating status" before actually getting into an official relationship? Another question I'd like to ask is, how would you know if he is even planning to get into a relationship with you, or just keeping you hanging?

I just need your opinion about it because I'm really confused and I don't know what to do and feel.

In my experience if a guy really wants you he'll be in full pursuit & he will make that very clear & you won't have any lingering questions in your mind about him. Men are conquers by nature unless he's a shy guy then the ball is in your court.

There are no strict rules, but I would wait a few weeks at least before calling your relationship "official".

As to the second question, I would agree with Renata. A man who wants a commitment will make it clear. Otherwise, he either isn't sure what he wants, or still wants to date other women.

All excellent advice. One clue about a guy is if he wants to make sure that you're his Saturday night date. Guys hate it when a girl goes out on a Saturday night and usually if he is really interested in her, he will make sure that she is out with him.

I've never been in a relationship or dated a guy who was dating other girls. When did that become normal?? WTF!? That would be a sad, confusing & stressful experience.