Ladies Discussion Forum

[Renata]

What would make you not want to date someone?

There are many awful things that would make me not want to date someone, but I'll have to go with smoking ... it might seem strange but I just wouldn't want to date a smoker. Can't stand the smell. That's why I don't frequent bars & clubs. Stupid has a broad spectrum, but people that smoke they have a special place of their own on there.

[NinjaPuppy]

Hmmmm, I'd have to say that my number one turn off is a negative mindset. I feel drained after meeting anyone who doesn't have a positive outlook on life.

[Ava Paige]

I found here a list of the 10 biggest dating turn offs for women:

http://www.lovepanky.com/men/understand ... -for-women

But personally, I get turned off easily when a guy rants about his life.
I once chatted with this Dutch guy online who kept talking about how he was bullied when he was in high school, children throwing bricks at him and all those stuff. Of course he got my pity and sympathy at first. I comforted him like there was no tomorrow, but after a few weeks I came to realize that his self pity makes him a loser.
I can't really say that "I won't date a loser" but I would say that I won't date a guy who sees himself as a loser because then I would see him too as a loser. BIG TURN OFF. So women are not the only ones who must know how to carry herself with confidence, it's a requirement for guys too!

Next is hygiene. A guy who picks on his nose in front of me, who farts 24/7, who smells like a caveman, and urgh! Bad breath! I don't know, smell is really just very important for me. I easily get attracted to a clean looking, good smelling guy.

[Johnny1975]

[NinjaPuppy]

Hmmmm, I just thought of another thing. That would be a guy who calls any woman a derogatory name.

[Ava Paige]

[Renata]

[Riyko]

Guys who treat women like they are shit and that it is their god given right to do it and all women should have to bow down to them. Also name calling isn't cool. Plus double standards of it's okay for me to hang out until 2am with the opposite sex, but you can't. I could go on forever.

[Johnny1975]

[Renata]

Those smoothies wouldn't be 100% organic

[Johnny1975]

[Renata]