Repatriate wrote:Winston wrote:Repatriate wrote:Winston you're so gullible. She's using obvious shaming language because she probably has a no small amount of contempt for you. You're what they call a "beta orbiter" in PUA terms. A man who is her sidekick and sometimes confidant. A clown who entertains her during her free time but will never catch a whiff of that p***y.
Why would she do that though? Why doesn't she just admit the truth and acknowledge the four major reasons I cited above in my letter -- that my race, looks, height and personality work against me in America? It's obvious. So why would anyone want to deny it? What's her incentive to deceive or BS? Are you sure she's not just brainwashed by New Age ideas?
Because if she were to admit that women put great value in things like race, looks, height, etc.. it would also be admitting that she implicitly does that too. Most American women will not admit these things (unless they want to openly insult you) because they believe in the concept that they are "open minded" but in reality they are hyper aware of these things.
You don't know her. I do. She is not a typical Americanized Asian woman at all. She is a freethinker and nonconformist who also does not fit into the mainstream. She is friendly and social toward strangers, and she is very self-aware too, even of her own issues and baggage. So she's not a typical Americanized woman at all.
Being superficially friendly and social doesn't mean anything. I bet if you looked at her dating history it'd reveal a whole other deeper personality complex. From what you've said already about her dating history it seems pretty apparent about what kind of people she is sexually attracted to. The proof is in the pudding Winston. Who does she f**k? Easy to see what she really likes.
However, she did say that the father of her baby was abusive and she later found out that he had a criminal record, as well as a history of abusing other women. Why would a New Age woman fall for such a person, rather than a good decent nice guy? Also, how come American women always describe their ex as abusive? How come they never say "My ex was very authentic, genuine and down-to-earth, like you are Winston"? lol
It's because a lot of American women say they want X when they really want Y. She likes the concept of a "nice" guy but in reality she falls for the bad boys like all other American women. In other words the bad boys give her the tingle the nice guys really make her cold. I suppose now that she has a kid and has been around the block a few times she may actually be ready for a nice beta type guy to settle down with now. Of course if you're a smart guy you'd be better off avoiding this type of woman and looking elsewhere.
You nailed it.
"Because if she were to admit that women put great value in things like race, looks, height, etc.. it would also be admitting that she implicitly does that too. Most American women will not admit these things (unless they want to openly insult you) because they believe in the concept that they are "open minded" but in reality they are hyper aware of these things. "
I have known this for a while also. Western women barely ever tell the truth about how they really think. Should have been obvious when they claim crap like they don't care how much money a dudes has and all the rest.
Just looking at women's claims and then seeing who they date and marry shows nearly polar opposites. Western women are just politically correct and Winston is going through what I went through. Wondering why they won't even tell the truth to a guy who is close to them. I have found they never tell the truth to guys at all. When hanging out with their female friends they will all be honest though but it doesn't matter how close you get to a western woman they typically will never open up and admit these things. Just how most western women even claim they aren't interested in sex or that they don't masturbate but logic clearly shows otherwise.
Same as how western women never really admit to lusting over their BF's or many other things. My theory is that they don't want their men to feel too special so they never admit to any of the things they like about them just to make sure she has control over him.
If you date an Asian woman they are far more honest and will admit to stuff like enjoying sex with you or liking you a real lot and finding your body sexy. Plus once you get close to Asian women they are just more honest about everything because they feel a connection with you. They will admit to masturbating if you honestly ask them and are close to them and things that no white woman would ever admit to.
White women also say other crap like they find women's bodies sexier than men's which is really strange. Again I think they are just doing the usual and making sure men don't think too highly of themselves.
Asian women on the other hand don't claim to find women's bodies sexier than men's. But then I guess being a lesbian is also less common among Asian women that white women.
Who knows maybe white women really are less straight than Asian women. Either that or they are telling a lot of BS to men constantly to make men feel worse and themselves better.
Honestly white women do seem to be far more lesbian than Asian women though. Most white women will kiss other girls and do that stuff where as Asian women don't do that with other women. Asian women seem to be more attracted to men. Their behavior suggests this anyway. I see them lean against and hug their partners more and seem to genuinely like their partners. Where as most white women just seem to put up with their partners because of the lifestyle and money he is providing her.
