ViperVenom wrote:Also, exceptions do not make the rule. Just because some AW are not awful does not mean that most are not (they do have some well-documented psychological deficiencies which I have not found nearly as often among FW). It's a numbers game. You only have so much time to chase women.
this is your belief. You are making up bullshit statistics on what general AW are. If you think majority of AW are bitches, then you will believe it. You will find every evidence to support your beliefs.
not all AW women are awful, there are some bad eggs out there but most are generally nice to me. WHY? because they like my confidence and personality. THey aren't nice to you because you are probably creepy/weird/negative. So stop making up all these bullshit statistics. It's VERY subjective on the person. If you are creepy/weird/negative then of course you will get treated like shit, not just by AW, but in general.
Oh boy,
more shaming language. You completely ignored what I wrote for the most part, didn't you?
I said that no Australian woman has called me creepy/negative. Also, if they hate on me for being 'weird', rather than hating on me for perfectly valid reasons (i.e - being a necrophiliac, for example), doesn't that highlight their bigotry?
There are some more stories I would like to tell you. In my university, I have spoken to Malaysian, Norwegian and Lithuanian girls in the past. The last of them thanked me for having a conversation with her. The second thanked me for complimenting her and showing interest in her (though she admitted she had a boyfriend). None of them harangued me for being 'weird' the way an Anglo girl would and they thought it was ridiculous when I brought that up.
As for Anglo girls, when ever I have behaved
the exact same way, our conversations have either become tense, they have said things about me behind my back or they only talk to me if they want something off me. This applies to Canadian girls, BTW. Anglo girls also tense up or react negatively to compliments if they are not already attracted to you, as well. I remember this from my primary school days.
Here are some 'bullshit' statistics:
http://www.happierabroad.com/Research.htm
some women like bad boys. Ted bundy wasn't creepy by any means, he was charismatic, it's not until he killed you that it was too late. IF ted bundy was creepy, then he would easily repel women before he even got close to them
Both he and Bryant received
love letters in prison, when their inherent creepiness and negativity were well-established.
Also tell me this - if it is only 'some women' that like 'bad boys', then why are there so many single, unmarried mothers, or older yet very jaded women? Simply because they sought out these player types who didn't give a damn for anything but themselves and their own orgasms.
again, you are making up arbitrary rules on what societies standards are.
Um...no I'm not. You're the one who is doing that here. You think that just because American society is one way, that all other societies (and hence their women) are the same. Anyone who thinks that Malaysian society is the exact same as American society is utterly deluded (I know, my mum is a Malaysian - she does
not behave like an AW).
Different cultures breed different personalities. Anyone who has been overseas can attest to this.
Another anecdote - I had a crush on this Australian girl
who was raised in Thailand. Why? Even back in 2008 (I was very different back then), I could sense that she was just 'different' to the Australian girls she was friends with. She was more patient, tolerant and carried herself in a feminine manner. She was probably the only person there who actually seemed to care about my well-being (she doted on me constantly during class).
A few of them, i invited on a date. I met some of them through friends, or at college campuses, or through cold approach
The first one is believable (even AW are willing to be 'friends' with Asian men, like Winston), the second one could be under the right circumstances, but I'm skeptical of the third.
see what i mean? Your ego is so big that it prevents you from succeeding. You have so much negative limiting beliefs, that it's impossible for you to change your mind about things. Have you realized that there are thousands of not so good looking men who succeed with AW? Are you aware that millions of men get treated Good by AW? (probably not as good looking as you too). All they have is confidence.
Thanks for the pep talk.
However, I'm not that interested in succeeding with AW. I'm also happy with the success that I have had with FW (not unlimited, but still much better than with AW, nonetheless). So my 'ego' is not preventing me from obtaining what I am looking for (though my lack of money and my relative youth could be).
non-domestic tickets are expensive.
As an American, there is more than one way to meet FW if you wanted (couch surfing, etc.). Australians don't really have this option, for obvious reasons.
my experiences with FW are very similar to that of AW. If i was creepy then they treat me like shit. if I was cool/confident/calm then they treat me better. I don't see any particular pattern.
I don't believe that you would truly know when you're being creepy and cool/confident. I certainly don't; I've never changed my behaviour. Nobody
consciously behaves in a 'creepy' way around women unless they deliberately want to scare them, whatever that means.
PS. i've lived in SF/SD/LA. I meet foreign women all the time from my university, i don't see a pattern at all. Some AW are nice to me, some aren't. Some FW are nice to me, some aren't.
Same here. I
have noticed a pattern, imagine that...
i've also lived abroad for business school in barcelona for 6 months...., Spanyard women seems the same from AW. Some spanyard women rejected me, some didn't. I got as much success with AW than Spanyard women. I've also traveled to the UK, and i don't see any difference at all. Some were nice to me, some weren't. I still succeeded non-the-less.
There's no real difference between American and British women; that's been widely attested on here already (hence why I use the term Anglo women, not American women).
There is some difference between Spanish women and AW, but not as large as in other places.