publicduende wrote:newlifeinphilippines wrote:Ive gotten this far. And you know what Im not jealous of those who married young i actually pity them. I have freedom and peace and i only have to worry about my finances right now for myself. And i was able to spend months in a foreign country starting at 30 which is most can't do. Pretty good gig.
its not decades of sexual abstinence unless you are a virgin or abstain from any relationship before marriage. I dont see myself doing that either. Your assuming some of us are ready emotionally and financially to settle down also. Im not ready for awhile anyways. Maybe not till 50 but not right now either. So might as well enjoy the benefits of being older when marrying or having a long term relationship via some delayed gratification.
anyways im already getting an itchy finger i hope to be in the saddle traveling in the medium term. Not sure when but definitely not right now. Short vacations are just p4p mode and that gets a bit redudant.
Whatever rocks your boat. Whatever "work in progress" you have in mind, I don't think one or two weeks every few months in the Philippines or Thailand will replace that feeling of finding somebody who loves, respects and has sex with you for motives far beyond your wallet.
BINGO and thats why ive decided to stop traveling for now. cause a few weeks or even a few months most likely will lead to not finding what i really want. and right now id rather focus on money and disciplining myself than p4p or easy girls. Thats why i made the thread a few days ago "some should not look for a girlfriend overseas".