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Did you also once ask yourself "Is it just me?"

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Did you also once ask yourself "Is it just me?"

Post by Excalibur » December 12th, 2012, 7:23 am

Hello everyone,

I was curious knowing from you whether in the early days before discovering websites that exposed the truth about dating in America you also questionned yourself "Is it just me..." (who can't find a decent women despite being "nice" / who sees women ignoring him, etc.)

I thought that way, although I knew a few guys who were also challenged by the dating scene and had no girlfriends. I did notice that most girls in the US and other feminized places exhibited a nasty, bitchy behavior, showed ungratefulness to chivalrous acts, preferred hanging around with assholes and douchebags, and ignored me. I thought I must be insane noticing that and I blamed myself for not trying hard enough to "game" the dating scene. But there was no outlet to vent my rants, I just took things as they were in the hope that someone would emerge who could meet my list of traits based on decency and traditional values. I thought like a "mangina".

However, when I did a Google research using some keywords that addressed the datelessness problem, I was presented sources (like videos from Steve Hoca or this website) so disillusioning that made my jaw drop: So many other males in America who were disgusted by the dismal dating scene and the catastrophic effects that feminism has wrecked on women! That was a real wow-effect to me, and at least it is a solace to know that I am not alone in my observations. Especially the complaint from many guys that they are simply ignored by women. Nowhere in the media or other magazines did anyone cover that new phenomenon.

So what did you think before discovering the truth? What was your "wow-effect" when you stumbled over the many sources documenting the desolate dating scene?

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Post by E_Irizarry » December 12th, 2012, 7:52 am

Well i am not here to sh-t on happieraBroad, but americanwomensuck then niceguys/mancoat gave me my jump start. Now Happier abroad is my friend to the end like chucky.

in 2007, I too did on a google search on "why are american women mean to men", and it was all over from there. aws aka American women suck came up...instantaneously a fan!! amwericanwomensuck and i were having hermaphrodite sex for four days (figuratively) - thats how glued i was to my screen.

until aws took it upon himself to change
web host providers and the archives that went back to 2002 were not available anymore.

then i was at a danish hostel on bangkok and the search
again on google, then h.a. came up. i signed up and didnt post until
a half a year later.
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Post by Tsar » December 12th, 2012, 8:11 am

That is how I use to think until I realized girls in America have the problems. When I was 19 I decided I wanted an Eastern European girl because I heard many great things about them. This year I found H.A. when I was doing a Google search and I signed up.

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Post by Dark_Sol » December 12th, 2012, 9:33 am

It was after a party, where there was guys and girls. With a suppose friend. His sister was there, but she just payed attention and wanted to f**k a married "fireman". Here I was with her eating up this guys bullshit stories. After that, I was down(really down). I became enraged, why is it that women goes for these pieces of shits. I just went online and tried to find the answer. Typed something like, guys never finding love. Pulled up TFL, checked that, than Chapin's inferno and he mentioned about HA. I checked here and found a place to clam myself. Knowing I wasn't alone.

I start talking about the problems of women to my suppose friends. They thought I was dumb and crazy, how dare I point that AW are the problem. Not I, for I was always the one at fault. The ones who knows it and really tried to help me was my childhood friend and the people at the orginization( almost all over 50). Even now, they are helping me get out of here.

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Post by skateboardstephen » December 12th, 2012, 12:49 pm

I used to think it was me also until i found one of winstons videos on Youtube in about 2010 or 11 (probably taken down) and the things winston was saying was so damb true.I showed the video to another guy who did not belive in winston and called him a loser. I still signed up to HA anyway.But now that i am in Brazil that same guy is starting to question things about the dating scene and is here among us right now on HA also.LOL
se eu soubesse o que eu sei hoje, teria mando mulheres americanas para foder-se há muitos anos.que deus abençoe o brasil!

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Re: Did you also once ask yourself "Is it just me?"

Post by jamesbond » December 12th, 2012, 6:21 pm

Excalibur wrote:So what did you think before discovering the truth? What was your "wow-effect" when you stumbled over the many sources documenting the desolate dating scene?
I found about Winston from reading a post someone made about him on the Don Juan pickup artist discussion forum. This was in early 2007, before Winston had his website or discussion forum up yet.

I remember back in college, I met a girl from Germany and South Africa and they were head and shoulders more friendly and easy to talk to than any other girls that I had met in college. I also made friends with some guys from Korea and Laos who lived on my floor in my dormitory and found them much more down to earth than most guys at my college.

It's nice to realize that you are not alone in your thinking. :D
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Post by Ghost » December 12th, 2012, 9:38 pm

Who doesn't?
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Post by Voice of Reason » December 12th, 2012, 10:06 pm

My whole damn life I've been told it's my fault.

I say hello to a WW and she turns her nose up in the air…MY FAULT!

I try to start conversation with a WW and she snubs me…MY FAULT!

I get into a conversation with a WW and she stop right in the middle of what I'm saying to to screw around with her girlfriends…MY FAULT!

Every single dating site I tuned to for advice was a cyber feminist hellhole (I didn't know that at the time). EVERYTHING WAS MY FAULT!

It was when I went to SE Asia that my perception changed. Women smiled at me more. Women were nicer to me. Women didn't look down at me with contempt. It was a revelation!

When I got back to the west, and back to the perma-scowl bitches of the west I began to think to myself that something was horribly wrong with the "women" here.

I started searching for stuff on the internet to find out more, and I came across the page where Winston compares the facial expressions of women from Russia/Philipnes V USA (which I can't find anymore in Winstons cluttered site).

I found the forums…and lo and behold…people were actually saying what I thought about WW WITHOUT BEING FLAMED by the other members.

So here I am!

I am now in Thailand at the moment. I envy thai men, because they haven't been put through the same shit by their women as their western counterparts.

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Post by terminator » December 12th, 2012, 10:24 pm

I've known the problem is with women ever since I was young, but nobody cared to listen and other guys just act like cu#ts to each other so I think guys are also the problem and now the situation is too far gone. The only question is how many more Geroge Sedinis will come out of the woodwork (hopefully many more).

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