Chinese men go for the "Happier Abroad" option

tom · Post by **tom** » January 23rd, 2013, 10:00 pm

Been to Dongxing Guangxi. Yea many in northern Viet are actually ethnically Chinese. A lot of this has to do with Confucian values and not having any daughters, its a shortage of women and women looking for a better life. Its has nothing to do with ball busting feminism. People are going across that boarder all the time, its more like the US and Mexico. Trafficking is a pile of politically correct bullshit, its simply is a made up concept that feminazis exploit. People go where they think they can find a better life, and a lot of them do find a better life, this is not what feminist are interested in, they fear competition from non man hating women and so all they can to eliminate it.

chanta76 · Post by **chanta76** » February 1st, 2013, 1:30 pm

I really think this is grass is greener on the other side mentality . Here in the USA there are western men thinking women overseas are God send and you have some men overseas thinking western women are a God send. What it comes down to is to find a good women regardless of race or what country she is from. I met bad foreign girls and really lovely Western girls ...so it's really about meeting a good person.

E_Irizarry · Post by **E_Irizarry** » February 1st, 2013, 4:04 pm

tom wrote:Been to Dongxing Guangxi. Yea many in northern Viet are actually ethnically Chinese. A lot of this has to do with Confucian values and not having any daughters, its a shortage of women and women looking for a better life. Its has nothing to do with ball busting feminism. People are going across that boarder all the time, its more like the US and Mexico. Trafficking is a pile of politically correct bullshit, its simply is a made up concept that feminazis exploit. People go where they think they can find a better life, and a lot of them do find a better life, this is not what feminist are interested in, they fear competition from non man hating women and so all they can to eliminate it.

Winston, you should implement a thumbs-up, thumbs-down Ã¡ la YouTube system here at H.A. without making x-amount of thumbs-down as a grounds for eliminating the post or thread. I wish that I could havce thumbs this post up....Tom's spot on here.

Jester · Post by **Jester** » February 5th, 2013, 11:08 pm

E_Irizarry wrote: Winston, you should implement a thumbs-up, thumbs-down Ã¡ la YouTube system here at H.A. without making x-amount of thumbs-down as a grounds for eliminating the post or thread. I wish that I could havce thumbs this post up....Tom's spot on here.

Great idea!

Some forums have "Like", "Dislike" -- same thing

Also some forums have "Thanks" button (for an informative post)

eurobrat · Post by **eurobrat** » February 5th, 2013, 11:16 pm

xiongmao · Post by **xiongmao** » February 6th, 2013, 12:45 am

Don't tell Winston he has to spend even more time using his computer! He needs to get out there and date some more pretty girls!!!!

lavezzi · Post by **lavezzi** » February 6th, 2013, 1:12 am

My experience has been entirely different to the claims in the article. I've met a Chinese woman (soon to be girlfriend). She's 27 and works full-time, while I'm 21 and unemployed waiting to start college which will take a number of years at least before I'll ever be able to find a job. She's a devout Buddhist and is a very deep and spiritually-orientated person. The "coincidences" to how we met were incredible beyond belief. You can attract your dream woman easily or anything else you may want in life. Expectations and anxieties based in confusion are the only things which cause hindrance.

I don't think Western women are generally greedy or materialistic, but I think they are unappealing on multiple other levels.