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"He has to be funny..."

Post by JohnDoe » April 18th, 2013, 6:42 am

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Post by have2fly » April 18th, 2013, 6:23 pm

I asked myself that question a million times, since I was registered on and literally every single American hoe listed "he has to make me laugh" on her profile. It drove me nutz!!! No foreign girl ever lists that as a main character side, they sometimes say "I want a guy with a good sense of humor", but even that is not often mentioned. I am not a clown and I repeated that to myself so many times when I was looking at American girls profiles. What does that tell you? Those bitches are so bored with their lives they just want fun and laugh, since they are so lame themselves! Sick of it!

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Post by ryanx » April 18th, 2013, 6:36 pm

It means they want to be entertained. Will they reciprocate? Who knows! Unlikely though. Remember they are like children in some ways, they get bored easily.

As compensation (!) for the use of their vaginas we must provide fun.

For a long time now when a female expects something, I always think what do I get in return? Then I see the total unreasonableness of their demands.

This is the biggest clue to their their ads it's always what they want and expect: I want him to be this and that and a thousand other things without a single mention of what they will provide - not even subtly hinting at it. Go figure!
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Post by JohnDoe » April 18th, 2013, 7:20 pm

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Post by C.J. » April 18th, 2013, 8:12 pm

Maybe she needs to be distracted from all the dull events of her life Megaman?(yes I know you're not actually Megaman, but he's my favorite video game character).

Women in america, do a lot of distracting to get themselves away from reality. Some of them actually need it, while many others are just running away from their problems. They drink, smoke, f**k, laugh, lie to get away from paying bills/cooking/cleaning/learning/relationships... it's amazing these women can actually live.

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Post by Ghost » April 19th, 2013, 3:30 am

And when they say this, it just goes unsaid that the man is already James Bond-esque in every other way.

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Post by Atarii » April 21st, 2013, 6:43 pm

I believe it is because it is an American cliche': What do I want in a man? Well, he has to be sweet, and generous and loving, have a decent job-- oh, and he has to make me laugh! :D

I think that it being stated is less meaningful than many have suggested.

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Post by Contrarian Expatriate » April 21st, 2013, 10:57 pm

This is a consequence of the new hedonism. Women no longer must evaluate men for income potential or protective strength; it is all about how a man makes them "feel" at any particular moment.

Thank you feminism for making us into women's personal jesters.


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