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You might like to read this essay I produced over the weekend. It is also recorded as an mp3 audio and posted to kickass torrents so that you can listen rather than read. A lot of my YT subs preferred that.
you are welcome to publish part of all of this on the blog you created....promise..no "woman hatred" it it...indeed? You might even say that it is pretty hostile to men who claim "I want to help men" but then do not.
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If you look at the countries abroad where women's attitudes are different one of the contributing factors in my opinion is that the men have a culture of mutually ... not supporting one another per se, but perhaps sympathizing with one another and being vocal together to negotiate more reasonable demands and getting something in return, whereas in American culture the idea is that you must combat other men over women. I think the asian cultures, particularly India, do it best.
Stop being angry at the stuff you don't have (yet) in life and instead focus on how to get it.
The trouble with giving genuinely useful help to other men over the Internet is that it generally involves sending money. Most youngish men are broke these days, and if not are worried about being taken advantage of by selfish jerks. It would be good to come up with ways to help out that didn't involve the direct detriment of one party. Ultimately men need to come together in meatspace to form ventures on an all-for-one-one-for-all basis.
Ghost puts action in his words, he's already sent me a PM with information that could vastly help me out of my situation if I go that rout.
I think it comes down to allowing your self to be bothered to put the time in to using your contacts or anything at all to help another human being.
most people have gone to college that being the case they can get out of the western world, but the entitlement of western men keeps them from undergoing the cultural shift, they're too lazy to be bothered with adapting and in a almost humerus ironic way....that's why Alphas adept and do well in western countries.
Alphas they adept and work twice as hard to get half as much, but they decide to put out 500% to get 100% back, and that's fine, but some of us want to put in equal effort for return and to do that you have to be willing to put in the effort of adapting to other culture and that's outside 99% of western mens comfort zones.
Same reason most over weight people tend to be chaotic in most other parts of there lives....because laziness and neglect begets the same thing, just as a alpha loves him self puts effort in to himself and excels.
The lesson to take away from this isn't to be a jerk and love your self above all others to be a "alpha" the lesson is, take your life improve it and make it something so important your not "too lazy" to take time "too tired" to work out and "undesirable" to women and "not willing to adapt to other cultures"
That isn't to let feminist lazy pigs off the hook, that's to kick some apathetic nihilistic basement dwellers in to gear and realize your life wont build its self and you don't have to be perfection to get a decent woman and life, it's a college degree and 2k flight away from making your chances go from NEVER to a matter of months the moment you step off the plain.
I'm looking at a minimum of 3 years of school for a degree, but believe you and me, finding a young wife to have a family with is worth every painful moment of time I make up for, because if I don't....the alternative is loneliness or a wife who will likely be far below my standards and leave me for a "better" man.