THIS^^^ 100+^^^The_Adventurer wrote: They do exist. My brother and his two friends were doing that almost every day, with different girls, around University time. When I worked in Hollywood, some BMW driving producers also did that a lot. Still many guys here a totally misunderstanding these popular statements.
"The whole all guys pay for sex thing is bullshit. Talk, entertain, take her home, bang her, drop her off..." That's your time! Time you could be using to do something else, especially if you have other goals. When people say you pay one way or another, they don't mean that it has to be cash. The guy who pays cash doesn't need to, "Talk, entertain, take her home, bang her, drop her off...", and he pays cash to avoid doing just that. Many guys in the film biz, working 16 hour days, don't have time for that stuff.
You also may pay in more time when the girl becomes clingy, starts coming round your house every day or calling, or wanting a relationship when all you wanted was a quick shag.
When my brother and his friend were racking up huge notches on their belts, it was like their full time job. They did little else, especially if you include time spent at the gym, which I am sure was necessary to their success.
Also when guys say they pay the hooker to leave, of course they know hookers WANT to leave after the deed is done, and THAT's the point! When you aren't paying cash, you may end up with a girl who won't go home. When I mentioned by brother and his friend before, they once brought these girls round to shag and they ended up staying 3 days! And, yes, they wanted to get rid of them, and they became pissed off and bitchy when they finally did.
I had a friend who slept with a waitress at his own bar (idiot) and she became astronomically clingy, always going to his house, calling him, trying to hang on his arm etc. THAT'S what people mean when they say they pay the girl leave. They KNOW they are not giving the hooker money to go away. What they mean is that using hookers, or paying cash, frees up their TIME to do the things they want to do. Did you guys really not GET THAT?
When I started my business, and got out of my last serious relationship, right around the same time I started using escorts as a natural reflex to my circumstance; it was just a no brainer! And this is coming from a guy who was taught that paying outright for sex automatically makes you a looser.
I just don't have the time anymore to be talking to a girl 2-3 hours at a time everyday like I could in high school, or college, and even if I did, I would not want to waste my time talking to a female about nothing anyway ( to be fair, I cut off ignorant men as well).
No offence, and I'm not trying to make myself sound like I'm super brilliant, but, most women I start to tune out by 10 minutes, TOPS. I just can't relate to women anymore like I could when I was in my 20's. The way they think is too eccentric for me, they get offended to easily, and many women seem to have a hard time staying on one particular topic so it makes the conversation hard to follow because they go from one thing to the next and when you try and seek understanding on an issue they just get angry with you because they feel you're trying to debate them. Also, many women today (the good looking ones) expect men to solely carry the entire conversation so if you have nothing to say they think it's your fault and that you're weird/boring. Whatever, no thanks!
Anyhow, it's true. You either pay with money or your time. Most black men pay women with their TIME as they have no money. Consequently, spending all your time with women puts you in a position where you can't make any money, so that's why many guys I knew who were very good with women by giving them their time, were always broke, even well into their 40's and 50's.